In clinical work at ordinary times, people are often asked such questions:
Doctor, we are not planning to get pregnant this time. My husband was pregnant before he gave up smoking and drinking. Can I still have the child?
Doctor, I didn’t know I was pregnant. As a result, the unit also took a chest radiograph for physical examination. Can the child still have it?
Doctor, I have taken emergency contraception and am still pregnant. Can the child still have it?
I believe every parent wants to have a healthy baby, which is why there are all the entanglements mentioned above.
Pregnancy is an adventure
There was once a patient with severe preeclampsia who was only 30 weeks pregnant. The blood pressure was still very high when taking antihypertensive drugs. What is more serious is that the disease makes the umbilical cord blood flow resistance of the fetus very high. If the pregnancy continues, the fetus will be in a state of chronic hypoxia and may die at any time.
There are only two choices before them, either to terminate the pregnancy or to take cesarean section to give birth to the child, but the child has to face many risks as a premature infant after birth.
After discussing with their families, pregnant women told me that they planned to give up their children because they could not accept that their children would face so many risks in the future and might not be able to bear the burden of their children on their families.
I think this should be everyone’s concern, and I would be the same.
[Not this time, let’s regenerate when we are well nourished.]
After hearing the pregnant woman’s answer, I couldn’t help asking back:
[However, your risk of getting this disease again in your next pregnancy will be significantly increased. If this happens again in your next pregnancy, will it still be aborted? ]
The pregnant woman did not answer me. She was lost in thought.
I wanted her to think a little longer, so I went on to say:
Perhaps you will think, what if I am lucky next time? However, can you guarantee that no other diseases will occur during the whole pregnancy? Can you guarantee that the child will not suffer from any diseases after birth? Even if he is healthy, do you have to worry about his future studies, his work and his family? ]
[If you are sure that you want to have a child, then you should be prepared for all kinds of risks. When facing risks, you should rationally weigh the pros and cons and make choices, instead of simply avoiding risks. Because avoiding risks itself is also risky.]
Later, the pregnant woman and her family finally accepted the doctor’s advice and gave birth to a 1000g baby after cesarean section.
Are you ready to face risks?
The outcome of this case is not important. What is important is, are you ready to face the risks?
Perhaps you have already given everything you have, and there is no guarantee that your children will be healthy in the future. It is possible that the short 9 months of pregnancy and childbirth will not guarantee smooth operation. Are you ready for this?
Of course, now we can minimize the risks through pregnancy tests, but it is impossible to eliminate all the risks. Risk is only a possibility and cannot be immediately responded to just because there is a possibility-should I give up this child?
Although the risk of fetal problems increases after taking a chest radiograph or catching a cold accidentally, after all, this outcome has not yet occurred, so it is better to continue.
Clinically, unless there is clear evidence that the fetus has been affected or there has been a problem, the pregnant woman will not be advised to terminate the pregnancy from a medical point of view.
Only what has actually happened can be used as the basis for decision-making, while [risks] that have not yet occurred can only be used for comparison and weighing.
You know, the risk of having children cannot be completely avoided. And pregnancy test is to help you choose the one with the least risk and the greatest benefit among all kinds of risks.
Therefore, don’t give up lightly until you get the exact result.
It is easy for us to forget that our life is a great luck, an event with little possibility and a great accident.
So stop worrying about small things. Don’t be like an ungrateful person, get a castle, and mind the mold in the bathroom.