In many cases, in order to achieve a desired goal, we like to set rules for ourselves. Take pregnancy as an example. When many women enter the pregnancy preparation stage, they will set themselves some things that must be done.
However, not all [rules] are beneficial. At this time, it is very important to distinguish what should be done and what is not necessary.
Today, please invite obstetrician and gynecologist Teacher Li Shan to tell us about the unnecessary [rules] in the process of preparing for pregnancy.
Pregnant girls often set some [excessive] rules. These rules seem to be in order to make people successful as soon as possible, but in fact they are not really needed.
[Suppress] To ovulate and then share the same room? Not necessary!
Once a sister confided to me that she had quarreled with her husband.
The reason for the quarrel is what? Because my husband wants to make out.
Arguably, the young couple who are preparing to make a baby, the husband wants to work hard, isn’t it just right? As a result, my sister looked at her cell phone record and found that today was not the ovulation period! You can’t share the same room until you ovulate! Hold it! Hold it until ovulation, otherwise it will be wasted?
The result, of course, is that the husband is not happy and the sister is not happy. Clearly, it is an blameless good thing, but the result is so bad.
In fact, as long as it is not said that the husband’s sperm quality has what problems, it is necessary to suspend the same room during treatment. For normal couples, it is really not necessary to require [shooting correctly before firing the gun].
First of all, the ovulation period of our women is just a calculation. It is not to say that pregnancy can only be carried out during ovulation, but it is absolutely impossible to conceive during the safe period.
Secondly, for men, it is not that the longer they hold back, the better and stronger the sperm quality will be. On the contrary, long-term abstinence may make the sperm that has already been produced and is waiting to meet Miss Egg grow old and die while waiting to be absorbed.
If you are still pursuing [one hit at a time], or even if you don’t do follicle monitoring and don’t see ovulation, you are probably not only wasting seeds, but also wasting precious time.
As long as it is not beyond the bearing capacity and excessive fatigue is frequent, maintaining a stable frequency of letting nature take its course is not only conducive to the upgrading of [bullets], but also can start the scheme of [extensive net casting and key fishing], thus making human beings more likely to succeed.
After all, you can only shoot one shot, so you have to shoot ten rings, which is simpler than being able to shoot ten shots and five rings to qualify?
Practice handstand after sharing a room? Not necessary!
Some girls think that handstand can make gravity come in handy and make tadpoles swim fast, thus having a higher probability of pregnancy.
In fact, you don’t need to ask yourself to do this kind of difficult movement like an acrobat, and maybe you may accidentally sprain your neck, not the neck of your ankle, but the real neck.
So if we want to help tadpoles, can we do some what work?
Of course, if you want to increase the sprouting rate of crops, then the main thing is to minimize the waste of seeds.
First of all, we can choose a safer body position. If the woman is on it, then the activity after the end may bring about a big wave of seed waste. Therefore, to eliminate waste, we can start with the choice of posture.
If you want to do more perfectly, just slightly raise your lower body and add a pillow.
Of course, it is also a small trick not to get up and clean immediately after lying down for a while. There is no certain stipulation for this specific time, and you can choose for yourself.
Although there is no definite research on how much possibility these little tricks can enhance, there is a good saying that even psychological effects are also effects.
As long as you don’t risk twisting your neck, it doesn’t hurt to do it.
Put too much pressure on yourself? Not necessary!
The last one, which Sa Jie has personally experienced, is also what all young couples who are preparing for pregnancy may encounter and need to remember, that is: Don’t put too much pressure on yourself!
Back then, when Sa Jie was preparing to become pregnant, she subconsciously calculated whether she was ovulating or not as soon as she opened her eyes every day. As soon as she closed her eyes every day, she dreamed of winning the lottery and measuring the mid-team leader. As soon as her big aunt reported, her mood immediately fell to the bottom. Her husband was too scared to talk to me, or she would be criticized for everything she said!
After tossing and turning for a while, I still didn’t get pregnant. I was depressed and decided to be a test-tube baby. Well, I felt that I couldn’t get pregnant anyway. I loved what I wanted. I was relaxed and should eat, sleep and sleep. As a result, I won!
Many girls have had the same experience as Sa Jie. As long as they say that they are ready to become pregnant, they are immediately highly nervous. They calculate every day and worry every day. They are afraid that they will not be able to conceive. They are also afraid that they will not be able to conceive an embryo. Today they are worried that they will not be healthy after eating a barbecue. Tomorrow they are afraid that they will accidentally take a sip of rice wine with alcohol…
The consequence of doing so is that everything is normal and I always feel that I am not normal anywhere. Originally, when I was planning to get pregnant, I always suspected that there was something wrong with all parts of my body.
Even some people have good and regular menstruation, as long as they are ready for pregnancy, menstruation is abnormal! This is also one of the reasons why people always associate folic acid consumption with irregular menstruation.
As the saying goes, you can’t eat hot tofu in a hurry. Pregnancy, the meeting between sperm and egg, is originally a [ape dung] thing. It is really unnecessary to be anxious to make a person succeed in a month.
Incidentally, regular life does not contain contraception, and infertility is only considered if you are not pregnant for more than one year. Don’t just think you are infertile if you are not pregnant for two or three months.
These three points can be said to be the “pregnancy preparation policy” that most of the pregnant women Sa Jie met have done or are planning to implement. In fact, they are really useless.
Don’t treat pregnancy as a necessary task from the very beginning, and carry it on your shoulders all the time, overwhelming yourself.
We should regard pregnancy as a natural thing, with more Buddhist mentality and less excessive worry and anxiety.