The second child is open, maybe the child will have more than one younger brother and sister, how do you explain?
When taking a bath, the child asked what if he was a “penis”. How did he answer?
I don’t know how to say it if I want to educate my children about sex.
The little story about sex education to be told by Clove Mother comes from the senior educational institution [Hong Kong Family Planning Association]. I believe you will have the answers to these questions in your heart after reading it.
Tell children how people come. This is a good opportunity to teach children to know themselves and appreciate themselves.
Mom, why is aunt’s belly so big?
That’s because there is a little person living in it, and you also lived in your mother’s belly before you were born.
Do I have chicken legs in there?
Of course not. At that time, you didn’t have teeth. After your mother finished eating, she gave you the food through the umbilical cord.
Is it very dark in your stomach?
Yes, but at that time you were very brave and were not afraid of the dark. You just waited happily for your birth inside.
Parents can take the initiative to share the joy of the arrival of a new life with their children, and let their children feel the expectation of a new life with their stories or those of pregnant aunts.
Understanding the differences between men and women from the understanding of words can help children reduce embarrassment to sexual organs.
Baby, do you know how reads this word? Yin (yin) ~ stem (jing) ~
Is this what?
Is the boy’s private parts, to protect! Come on! Read it to me once, Yin ~ stem ~
Yin ~ stem ~, what about the girl?
This is it, yin) ~ (bu) ~, which is also the private part they should protect well. Come on, read it with me again!
Is it to teach children to read the names of sexual organs in order to know words?
Of course not.
Knowing the correct name of sexual organs is to help children establish the basic attitude of “learning sexual knowledge well”. Parents can read aloud or copy with their children so that children can naturally express the name of sexual organs.
Do you wash it yourself or by your mother? This is not only a health problem, but also enables children to form the concept of protecting sexual organs and personal privacy.
Let me test you, which parts of your body will you clean when taking a bath?
Hands, feet, armpits…
Some important places seem to have not been cleaned yet.
…… Is it what?
Penis! Is the place to urinate, every day to keep clean.
Then you can help me wash…
Baby, this is your private part, you should slowly learn to wash by yourself.
Children who are used to being with their parents may mistakenly think that the toilet is a fun place. It is very impolite for children to understand that rushing into the toilet is not only to respect the privacy of others, but also to protect themselves.
When Mom and Dad or others use the bathroom, you can’t walk in.
But I want to take a bath and play with my parents!
Although sometimes Mom and Dad will take a bath with you, we cannot enter the bathroom casually when someone is using it, because it is very impolite behavior, you know?
Got it.
If a little boy is willing to play with a little girl, he can understand the different characteristics of the opposite sex. Under appropriate guidance, he can learn to get along with and respect the opposite sex earlier.
Baby, do you like to play with Xiaomei?
(Baby Shakes Head)
Did you have a bad time?
(The baby did not say)
Boys and girls can play together. Don’t be afraid. Learn slowly. You can tell your mother whether you are happy or not.
Parents can share their happy experience with the opposite sex with their children, encourage them to learn to appreciate the different characteristics of the opposite sex, learn how to get along politely with others, and remind children to take the initiative to share their happiness and sorrow with their parents.
When children play together, they often have physical contact, even private parts. Parents should make them understand that this kind of behavior is impolite.
Baby, will you be polite when playing with others?
Yes!
Then I will test you, will you rob other people’s toys?
No!
What if I meet someone else’s private parts?
Say sorry!
What if someone touches you?
… …
Mom taught you to be polite, say [please be careful] to the other party, and try not to let the other party meet again.
In this case, children usually have no malice, and contact other people’s private parts only because they are fond of playing for a while or do not understand the boundaries they should have when getting along with others.
In addition to teaching children to protect themselves and respect the privacy of others, parents should also teach their children how to get along politely with others.
Source: Hong Kong Family Education Index
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