Tag: Second Child

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Which is better, [only one] or [one more]?

Perhaps [preparing for pregnancy] and [raising] are not the topics of your current life, but having a baby is an experience that most families have. With the opening of the two-child policy, the arrival of the second child and the changes that TA will bring have gradually become matters that young parents need to consider. A few days ago, Dr. Clove and Zhihu jointly held a Zhihu Round Table to discuss the new challenges faced by parents in the process of raising a second child. Want to know more about raising a second child? Welcome to click to read the original text and go to Zhihu Round Table, Methodology for Raising Two Children. [One-child Family] is a product of China’s Read More …

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If you want to have a second child, why is it more difficult to have [two treasures] than [Dabao]?

With the opening of the two-child policy, many couples who already have one child want to have a “two treasures”. However, some people will have trouble [not being able to conceive]. Why is it that the first child goes smoothly and the second child cannot be conceived? Being able to give birth before does not mean being able to give birth now. First of all, we have neglected a problem. As we grow older, fertility will decline for both men and women. For women, the best age for giving birth is about 20-30 years old, when women’s eggs are in the best condition. After the age of 35, the function of women’s ovaries will obviously decline, the quality of eggs Read More …

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The 3-year-old brother set fire to his younger brother. How should we prevent this?

Are you a little confused when you see the title? When Dr. Clove first saw the news, he was also a little confused: Today’s children, why are they so extreme? Perhaps you don’t understand, the story is probably like this: Dabao caught a cold and stayed at home. Her mother coaxed Xiao Bao to fall asleep. She went out of the door temporarily and took the time to pull out some fresh vegetables in the field. Boring Dabao took the opportunity to run to the kitchen, play with a lighter, and then ran to the bed where his brother was sleeping, igniting the straw in the bed. Panic-stricken Dabao saw that the fire was too big to control, cried and Read More …

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How should parents deal with the obstacles to competition among compatriots?

Why can she go to the movies, but I can’t? ] With the advent of the second child era, such quarrels will naturally resound again. Although the two biological children can be each other’s best playmates, it is almost impossible for them to have no bad blood. On July 13, such a piece of news was revealed: Six months ago, my parents gave birth to a second child and spent a lot of energy to take care of the baby. It is inevitable that I have neglected the eldest brother. From more than a month ago, my 10-year-old sister Xiaojin (pseudonym) began to suffer from various physical problems: headache, vomiting, unhappiness and listlessness. At first, the family took the child Read More …

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How often do you give birth to two treasures after giving birth to Dabao? Seize the opportunity, mother and baby are healthy,

As the old saying goes, “Everything is done in advance, but nothing is done without advance.” The same is true for having children. A scientific plan is required, especially for having a second child. Are you also considering giving birth to two treasures? Then Dr. Clove suggested that you must make a good plan and calculate the time. This time interval not only determines the age difference of children by several years, but also affects the health of mothers and babies. How long is the best time interval? Generally speaking, it is a good choice to conceive at intervals of 12 to 24 months after delivery (it is better to conceive after 18 months for the first caesarean section). This Read More …

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In order to make the children happy to welcome the two treasures, doctor Ma Ma Ma did so.

Editor’s note: Dermatologist Chen Yulan successfully gave birth to a little daughter and has had both children in her family since then. To her pride, the eldest son (named “Little Carp”) took the initiative to play the role of “Brother” and assumed the responsibility of caring for her sister to the best of her ability. This is just the beginning of the story about the two treasures. Let’s take a look at how Dr. Chen made the little carp [become] a brother. [Mom and Dad are going to have another baby,] I pretended to be as if nothing had happened and said to the young carp, “What do you think? ] The carp boy was a little confused, which seemed Read More …

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Dad-to-be cheated during pregnancy? Don’t be frightened by an example.

The news of [Lin Dan’s infidelity] is not only because Lin Dan is a remarkable Olympic champion, but also because the video revealed that he cheated during his wife’s pregnancy. In fact, it is not uncommon for a husband to cheat on his wife during pregnancy. However, if we [no longer believe in love and marriage] because of such a big entertainment news, it is not necessary. Last week, the director of the garden asked the pregnant mothers for the [small things] that his husband had done for himself, and got a lot of sweet and honey-flowing messages… read them several times, it was almost hyperglycemia! These warmth and sweetness remind us directly that men have [good things]! What does Read More …

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To take care of children after one year old, we must let the old man know the misunderstanding of taking babies!

Parents often complain about the conflicts caused by the elderly helping to take care of their babies, but parents have to go to work and have no time to take care of their babies. Most of them still have to ask their grandparents/grandparents. Want to ask the old man to share some of the things with her, but feel that all kinds of things can’t be put down? In fact, as long as both husband and wife have the same concept and give the elderly a good shot in advance, grandparents and grandparents can also raise children scientifically with us. What are the misconceptions that old people are prone to have when taking babies? Let’s have a look. This [is Read More …

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The difference between Dabao and Erbao, the things that the mother of the second child must know,

As the mother of two treasures, people often ask me such questions: Is there any difference between raising two treasures and Dabao? Of course there is! As [a former person], I really have a lot to say. From birth to later nursing, the difference between Dabao and Erbao is really big. They brought me different feelings from childhood to adulthood. I wonder if your family is the same. Celebrate one’s birth A few days after Dabao was born, I suddenly had the illusion that I had never seen so many relatives in my life. Almost all my relatives and friends came to see Dabao and everyone was happy for Dabao’s birth. However, when Erbao was born, although he was ready Read More …

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After the younger brother was born, the five changes of the daughter, one more sad than the other.

I held my son in my arms and pushed open the door. My daughter looked at the baby in my hand with surprise and curiosity. I put my son on the bed where my daughter had slept and washed her hands. When I turned around and came back, I found that my daughter had quietly crossed the railing and climbed onto the bed. She was sitting beside the baby. Her little hand touched his little hand carefully, and her eyebrows and eyes were all smiling. My daughter looked up at me and marveled, “Mom, he is so soft!” ] The daughter sold her small bed to welcome her younger brother’s stay with joy. My daughter has become sensible. The family Read More …