Tag: Science Education

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Is it a language barrier for children to write typos?

A mother contacted me and said she suspected her son had language barriers. The child is seven years old, Recently, I have always written wrong words. The types of mistakes are surprisingly consistent. Many words with left and right structures like [yang], Now he often writes the “day” on the left, which was originally on the right, but sometimes he can write it correctly. I realized that this situation had only started for two months, so I advised the mother not to worry, to go back and observe, and told her that this little mistake was exactly the right psychological development in my opinion. This is not a psychological development problem at all. Children’s memorization of Chinese characters, Especially in Read More …

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How does the child get ADHD?

The baby can’t calm down and is always naughty and active. Losing three things and falling four things, like an adventurer; Often because the baby is naughty in class, he is invited by the teacher. Attempts to beat, scold, snub, excite, etc. still fail to work. Teachers, relatives and friends have repeatedly kindly reminded you to be alert to ADHD. You begin to panic, often a snot and tears; Still headless flies everywhere to consult what to do; … … I believe many parents have similar experiences mentioned above. Do active babies really suffer from ADHD as reminded by others? Is ADHD really as terrible as parents’ fear? Baby hyperactivity is not equal to [hyperactivity disorder] 3-6-year-old babies generally have Read More …

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The child has a strong personality, and be careful that the more he manages, the more

There is a child with an easy-going temper and a good attitude in the family. It doesn’t matter if parents don’t understand how’s rules for their children. However, if the child’s personality is too strong, parents need to know scientific and reasonable guidance methods. The way of education is wrong, and children will not obey when they grow up. If the child’s personality is too strong, when the parents will have nothing to do, they may leave the stubborn child aside, but they still cry. It is not enough to take back some promises given to them. Anyway, the child is angry and what doesn’t care. After all kinds of methods have been tried, discipline may eventually turn into quarrels Read More …

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Ten questions in the family education survey attended by 40,000 Chinese are worth pondering.

At the end of last year, the China Academy of Educational Sciences released the results of a family education survey of 20,000 parents and 20,000 primary school students in Beijing, Heilongjiang, Jiangxi and Shandong provinces and cities. The report overturned the understanding that parents used to think about in the past and paid attention to 10 issues that we had to think about. Question 1: The ultimate goal, [becoming a useful person] or [becoming an adult]? The survey shows that parents give priority to realistic factors and pay less attention to developmental factors. Parents are most concerned about their children’s health and safety (66%), followed by habit formation (56%) and daily learning (54%), while they pay relatively little attention to Read More …

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Pornographic information cannot be eliminated. How can I talk about sex with my children?

In such an era of information explosion, [sex], as an important component element, often appears in people’s vision. Although the age limit is imposed on pornographic movies and TV works, there are always some tempting fragments of a few seconds in commercial advertisements, movie trailers and even news programs. These fragments flow to children through various channels and inadvertently become their [alternative] sex education classes. Younger children may only be curious about the fragments, while for older children, parents have to find ways to deal with the strange problems arising from the fragments in their children’s brains. Although it is impossible for working parents to be under 24-hour supervision, if they are prepared in advance and think about countermeasures, it Read More …

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These imperative words may [destroy] your child.

In the past 10 years of counseling and treatment experience, I have taken over a large number of psychological counseling cases. No matter adults or children, all kinds of problems in them can clearly see the imprint of parents’ parenting style on children. Some parents may think [destroying children] is alarmist talk. They will think: How can I harm children? However, many parents are inadvertently doing things to hurt their children in the name of love. If parents can consciously avoid those possible harmful behaviors from the very beginning of raising their children, raising children will become a process for children and parents to grow up together. I will write some things that parents must avoid in the process of Read More …

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How to set [family rules] so that children will not oppose you?

Ask yourself, raising a few children and living a life of husband and son have never been my ideal in life. As for the fact that there are two babies, I have always had a strong sense of unreality. I will look at these two balls of meat and think in a trance. Is this really my birth? Ashamed to say, I am a mother with a very big nerve, and I am especially evasive about all kinds of bottle diaper theories. My baby has always been not very fine. At least [the first baby is raised by reading and the second baby is raised as a pig], and all the two small animals in our family are the result Read More …

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Is it a how experience for an only child to upgrade to a parent?

In fact, the first generation of only children are now in their 30s and many have become parents. In the cases I took over here, the parents of the only child came to consult more and more, which often made me feel that the child had a child. The following is a summary of the eight common problems of such parents for reference. If there are some, they will correct them; If there are no, they will encourage them. First, there is an awakening of independence and no ability to be independent. Case 1: The daughter-in-law lives in her in-laws’ house. She bought a duplex when she bought the house and wrote her son’s name. The old couple live downstairs, Read More …