Tag: Rebellion

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The child said [you rely on what to control me? ] Dad, you were thinking about what?

At home and even all over the world, taking babies is almost always regarded as a part-time job for mothers. From nursing to feeding, changing diapers to coax people to sleep, from playing with them to accompanying them to reading, sending them to and from school, early education classes and interest classes… I saw almost all the shadows of my mother. We are all used to it. But habits are not necessarily good. It’s a holiday, Eva’s father. Do you finally have time to take care of the children for a few days? In our country, compared with mothers, the frequent absence of fathers in the process of accompanying their children makes many children have to experience psychological [partial eclipse]. Read More …

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Children around the age of two will experience rebellion. Are you ready?

There is a word in English called “terribly two”, which literally translates into “terrible two years old”. This means that when our lovely babies reach the age of two, they often give parents a headache. For example, what has to come by himself. He especially likes to say [No]. He has many ideas and always goes against the parents’ ideas. Most importantly, when the child’s will is inconsistent with the parents’ will, the child often becomes very excited, either stubborn or emotional collapse. As a result, many parents’ emotions also collapsed. Psychologically, this period is called [the first resistance period], which is normal and very important. So, how did the first resistance period come into being? How should parents accompany Read More …

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These four methods of educating children are not helpful to you.

Threatening Safety Education Parents are most concerned about their children’s life safety, but the most common practice for parents in China is to use various exaggerated horror stories to educate their children on safety. But intimidation will erect a barrier to children’s growth. When I was carrying out safety education for first-grade children, I found that when I asked [why can’t I do this], the answer was polarized: One answer is [because bad people will hurt you/burn you/electrocute you/burn you to death] and the other is [because bad people may hurt you/electrical appliances will make your face ugly, you have to take injections and medicine, you are also very uncomfortable/fire will burn your new clothes out, and you have to Read More …