Tag: Psychology

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How high is Holmes’ IQ?

< < Sherlock > > appeared on the big screen on January 4, 2016. This time, the detective duo [crossed] to the Victorian era. While lamenting the excellent production and exquisite details of the production team, many of us inevitably ask ourselves silently like Watson: Is it even a little possible for me to become as smart as Sherlock Holmes? To answer this question, we must first understand one of the main measures of [intelligence] in our time: IQ. How high is Holmes’ IQ? Many people know that people with high IQ are smart, but they do not necessarily know what abilities [IQ] reflects. Originally, the word [IQ] was coined by Binet in 1905. He designed some tests to evaluate Read More …

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Am I suffering from postpartum depression: Edinburgh Postpartum Depression Self-Rating Scale

In general, Edinburgh Self-rating Postpartum Depression Scale (EPSDS) was performed 6 weeks after delivery, But if necessary, It is also applicable to 3 days or 3 months after delivery. There is no strict time limit. Please read the following topics carefully. Four answers to each question, Choose the answer that best reflects your feelings in the past 7 days. I feel happy. And I can see the interesting side of things (1) as before-0 points (2) less than before-1 points (3) obviously less than before-2 points (4) completely unable-3 points 2. I am optimistic about the future (1) as before-0 points (2) less than before-1 points (3) obviously less than before-2 points (4) completely unable-3 points 3. When things go Read More …

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Four suggestions to stop being helpless when your child loses his temper.

Anger is a normal human emotion. Everyone has the right to be angry, and children are no exception. However, out-of-control anger can lead to physical and behavioral problems, making children aggressive and even making behaviors that hurt themselves and others. Therefore, even children should learn to manage their anger. Why should children learn to manage anger? In one’s life, aggressiveness begins in early childhood. Children in this period cannot express their emotions through words. Compared with other times, aggressiveness is easier and stronger. It is necessary for children to learn to control their emotions in early childhood, otherwise the increasingly aggressive emotions may affect their future relationships with classmates, friends and family. A study also found that 1/7 of the Read More …

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The Third Mistake of Good Mothers: Labeling Children

Criticizing education is one of the most inevitable problems in daily family education. However, sometimes, parents’ casual words are likely to have a great impact on their children. How to criticize education so as not to hurt children or even have the opposite effect? Labeling has no effect and side effects. Labeled critical discourse is the most common in daily life, and the typical ones are:

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The second misconception of a good mother: regarding love as education

At the parents’ meeting every semester, some parents will use such words as the final reply to me when discussing their children’s problems with me: at this time, their faces are always hung with expressions of expectation and some helplessness. My mood is very complicated about this. Should I tell the parents the truth or let them continue to hold such expectations [waiting]? [Waiting] Is a Wrong Expectation I first heard similar words when discussing the child’s problems with a mother. The situation was that the child made a mistake and was criticized by the head teacher. Parents feel that although the fault lies with their children, But [not at this point], It is wrong for the head teacher to Read More …

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One of the Mistakes of Good Mothers: Too Tolerant of Children

There are many things on the Internet like [don’t do this to children], Or the saying that “children can be better if they do more of this”. All want to be a good mother, However, on the way to being a good mother, It is likely that some common mantra, old people’s classics and some [positive energy] on the Internet have gone wrong. Accompanying children to grow up is a beautiful word. But I wish to tell mothers and expectant mothers that, The journey to raise children is difficult, There are many bumps and trivial details, It doesn’t happen overnight. Don’t fail to fulfill your responsibility as a parent in the first place, Give correct guidance to children, He also Read More …

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Correct the name of depression: all happiness that does not face pain is hooliganism.

Recently, people often come to ask me if I can share some psychological related topics. Every time I happily agree, I say that I will share the theme of [depression]. The organizer always looks reluctant and asks: Can you talk about something positive and energetic? I feel awkward, Because in fact, I personally think that among the many psychologically related topics, The so-called [depression] and [unhappiness], Is the most [positive energy] and light. So, I always want to give [depression] a good name, to spin silk from cocoons, See its value. Outstanding people, When I was in college, It is also popular to write letters by hand. Every time I write a letter, I greet each other with my friends: Read More …

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What should I do if I have a bad memory?

Doraemon has a magic weapon called “Memory Bread”, As long as you print it on a book and eat it, The content of the text can be remembered. In fact, Memory is certainly not that easy. We often complain about forgetting. I hope I can remember more things to guide my future study life. But from an evolutionary point of view, forgetting helps us filter out some unimportant information to reduce the burden and remove negative information to avoid depression. However, many times, there are some things that we do not intend to forget. What is the reason for these forgetfulness? Memory fading can be compared by cell phone number, I don’t need a mobile phone number for half a Read More …

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The countdown to the exam, you need this kit before the exam.

The entrance examination is approaching, Dr. Clove invited nutrition, psychology and gynaecology experts to present this pre-test kit. Help the majority of examinees to pass the examination period physically and mentally. Anxiety before the examination, Don’t try your best to approach the exam 100%, Candidates are prone to the following two kinds of excessive anxiety: 1. Too much effort in May, The preparation for the examination has turned white-hot, Many examinees tighten their nerves every day. But this has only one consequence. It is that people become [nerves]. In fact, The college entrance examination is like a marathon, We are only in the last lap now. Candidates are advised to: Hard use 8 points, Leave 2 points for relaxation and Read More …

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Talk to your children about sex. It’s the best protection for them

In today’s society where sexual information is everywhere, talking about sex with adolescent children as parents is actually a kind of protection for children, allowing children to reserve more knowledge and to suffer as little harm as possible. So, are you ready to have a talk about sex with your children? Let’s take a look. We should pay attention to what during this conversation. Give teenagers enough respect, Nowadays, teenagers are often labeled as lazy, exotic and irresponsible. Of course, It also includes promiscuity. Adolescence can be said to be the most unpleasant period in life: Without what autonomy, one must go to school every day, and one’s leisure time is stuffed with various arrangements by parents. As a teenager, Read More …