What are the psychological mysteries in the movie “Brain Secret Service”?

The film Inside Out covers a lot of core knowledge in cognitive psychology and developmental psychology, and can be described as an excellent work combining education with fun. I am sure that you don’t need to watch my long list of wordy things below and will fall in love with this movie deeply, because watching the movie itself is a kind of enjoyment and doesn’t need rules and regulations [background knowledge]. However, if you want to know a little psychological knowledge after watching the movie and read this article, you will better understand the little mystery hidden in the movie. Why is it an 11-year-old girl? In the film, the age stage of the little protagonist is a milestone in Read More …

Alcohol Screening and Counseling-An Effective but Neglected Health Service

Do you know how many words in Chinese describe [drinking] or are related to [drinking]? Just a single word, there are these: wine, mash, drunk, drunk, mellow, drinking, pouring, drinking, preserving, cheer, pot, cup, cup, exhausted… We have no way to find out whether there are corresponding words in English to express people’s love for wine, but perhaps we can get some information from the numbers: 38 million At least 38 million adults across the UK have the problem of drinking too much. 1/6 Only 1/6 of them will consult medical personnel or other health professionals about drinking. 25% People who drink too much can reduce their alcohol consumption by 25% after alcohol screening and simple counseling. Drinking too much Read More …

Excessive narcissism is also a disease? Let’s test it

Occasional selfishness and conceit is a long-standing human nature. But real [narcissism] goes far beyond this. Narcissism is not only extraordinary [feeling good about themselves], They also never respect the feelings and thoughts of others, Ignore the needs of others. The word [narcissism] comes from a handsome man named Narcissis in Greek mythology. He is amazing in beauty. All the young girls who have seen him are deeply in love with him, but he is only infatuated with his reflection in the water. What I just said is different from narcissistic personality disorder, which is a mental problem. Are you narcissistic? Has it reached the level of personality disorder? Narcissistic people will meet a small number of the following characteristics; Read More …

Should children be punished for their mistakes? Does foreign [Time-Out] work?

Parents of children aged 3-5 often face a very tangled question when their children make mistakes-should they punish their children? If children are punished, what is more appropriate? Is there anything what needs to pay attention to when using these methods? Never corporal punishment of children For corporal punishment, many parents know that it is not good, but more parents still hold the mentality of “beating when necessary”. First of all, corporal punishment is a kind of punishment with low efficiency and high cost, which cannot be equated with the punishment to be mentioned in this article. Secondly, the purpose of punishment is to make children understand the rules and recognize mistakes, but corporal punishment will make children repeat it Read More …

For the sake of their children, divorced parents must not make 4 mistakes.

Divorce is a matter for two adults, but a broken marriage may have a profound impact on children. However, both parents can relieve their children’s pressure in appropriate ways. How can we explain these situations to our children and help them deal with them? What are the mistakes you may make? Let’s talk about what divorced parents should do. How told the children the news of the divorce? It is best for both parents to tell their children about the divorce. Honestly and simply state the facts and skip those unbearable details. You can say: It is very difficult for your mother (or father) and I to get along any more, so we think we’d better live separately. Make sure Read More …

Don’t regret missing the golden age of language development: 4 Simple Ways to Cultivate Baby’s Language Expression Ability

Many parents asked me how to improve their children’s social skills. The problem is simple and complicated. It is said that it is simple because on the surface, the social ability in childhood seems to make children more cheerful and more fond of making friends. Said it was complicated, It is because the cultivation of children’s social ability is closely related to their own temperament type, family environment and social environment. There can be no formulaic method. Social skills are a series of comprehensive skills that people need to communicate and interact with each other in work and life. These include language skills, It also includes executive power, decision-making power and self-confidence. For children of different ages, With regard to Read More …

Children have emotional and behavioral problems. Do you know what to do?

Children’s emotions and behaviors are abnormal. I don’t know how to deal with them. There is always a way to stop the soldiers and hide the water from the earth. We all know that children are often very emotional and sensitive, but do you know why? It is because children do not have the ability to understand the complexity of the adult world. At the same time, they also lack the ability to express their emotions and feelings. Does the child’s worsening emotional imbalance keep you awake at night? Don’t worry, looking down, our list of children’s emotional problems may help them get out of trouble as soon as possible. How is the child mood disorder return a responsibility? When Read More …

Adjusting good mood is more conducive to lowering blood pressure.

As the incidence of hypertension is getting younger and younger, many patients are in fast-paced work and tense interpersonal relationships, and the impact of these psychological pressures on blood pressure is also very large. Long-term stress, depression, anxiety and other adverse psychological states can lead to elevated blood pressure and increase the risk of cardiovascular diseases. Relaxation is simple to say, but it is not so easy to relax if you are really under the pressure of all kinds of work and life. When faced with pressure, you can try the following methods to minimize the impact of psychological pressure on blood pressure. Give yourself more positive encouragement When faced with pressure, many thoughts will flash through our minds, both Read More …

Does your pressure come from [dating violence] that we ignore?

Have you ever met such a lover? Leaving you is a torment for him/her. He/she likes to look through your cell phone from time to time, ask who you have been out with, and even hope you can tell him every detail of your life. He/she always likes to order you to do this and that and solve all kinds of life problems for you in the name of [for hello]. Even some important life decisions, such as quitting, changing jobs, making friends, etc. He/she will make you feel embarrassed or even ashamed in front of your friends for various puzzling reasons, and even control what kind of friends you meet and associate with. He/she has a bad temper and Read More …

How should we accept our substandard figure?

I have always thought I was great in appearance since I was a child. I have never tortured myself desperately to lose a kilo or two of fat. For me, health is the most important thing, and appearance is the most nihilistic thing. No, no, no, I will never lie to my daughter like this in the future-when I was young, which of us did not suffer from our [imperfection] appearance?