Should parents interfere when children choose who to make friends with?

You don’t like a friend of your child’s and think that your child always suffers from playing with him/her? Worried that the child will learn bad after him/her? Experts believe that children under 12 do need parents’ advice when choosing friends. How do you care, the answer is here. When it comes to intervention, it must intervene decisively. I really didn’t think I would interfere with children’s friendship before. I thought that parents’ interference in children’s friendship was like interference in freedom of love and marriage, and was a manifestation of autocracy. But I intervened, and I was glad I did. I told Dalin that we would not go to his classmate H’s house, not to his birthday party, and Read More …

What if the child is nervous in public?

Will your children be nervous and speechless in front of many people? When children are nervous, do you all have what methods to help children relieve their nervousness? Let’s see how this child’s parents help him relieve his nervousness. The prelude to a class speech Dalin’s school will arrange a class speech every semester from the second grade. At the beginning of the semester, the teacher will send parents a speech task statement for this semester, including the theme, the content that can be covered, the length, the speech skills that need to be learned, how parents can coach, and finally attach a speech schedule, indicating the speech date of all children. The theme of this semester’s speech by Dalin’s Read More …

Why can children always make me angry easily?

As a new father and mother, when facing our baby, we all hope to be reasonable, considerate, gentle and kind. However, the reality often backfires. Our children seem to have a kind of super ability. They can always arouse our anger [easily] and make us irritable and mad in one second. Why on earth is this? Why can children always annoy me easily? 1. We have unreasonable expectations Perhaps it is because our children behave too sensibly that we will forget that they are only children who have just arrived in this world for a few years. We may subconsciously regard them as adults, ask them to behave according to adults’ standards, and talk to them according to adults’ communication Read More …

The baby began to look thinner after six months. Is it because he did not eat enough?

In the eyes of many parents, a round face, chubby feet and lotus root-like arms and legs are standard for babies. But suddenly one day, parents found that the baby’s weight grew slowly, his face became thinner, and his body became thinner. It was inevitable that they would begin to worry about whether the baby did not eat enough or lacked nutrition. In fact, parents need not worry, this is a normal phenomenon in the process of baby’s growth and development. The reason why the baby will [lose weight] is mainly due to the following three reasons: 1. Slow growth After the baby is born, its length and weight will go through a process of rapid growth. However, with the Read More …

Curry beef suitable for children can be done this way.

If you eat too much at home, you will inevitably feel monotonous, and children will also lack interest in food. At this time, try to make a curry that is not spicy and change the taste to add some freshness to children’s daily diet. When it comes to curry, parents really don’t need to be surprised, just add a little curry powder to add the aroma of food and give children different sensory stimulation. Because curry powder itself contains many spices, this curry beef is recommended for children to eat until they are over 1.5 years old. Simply cooking a pot of curry, staple food, meat and vegetables are all together, which is also a good choice for busy parents. Read More …

How is it more appropriate to keep your baby warm in winter?

Recently, there has been another wave of cooling. When the old people in the family call, they will habitually urge their children to wear more clothes. Although he said [uh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh-huh It’s freezing cold, of course, you have to wear more clothes than usual, especially in areas where postage is not warm, so you can only rely on clothes and integrity to keep warm. However, some precious mothers and fathers also wrap their children like zongzi at home. I just want to ask: There are so many heating equipment available now, why not? Babies, especially newborns, are more suitable to stay in an environment with room temperature of 20 ~ 22 ℃ and relative humidity of 55%. If the temperature in Read More …

These are the only three points needed to train your husband to be a super dad!

Look at other people’s husbands who take care of all the baby’s affairs in an orderly way after they are busy. Look at their husbands again, there is only [Ge You lying down] at home. Maybe you have complained about your husband more than once and even regretted that you had lost sight of him, but do you know? There are very few natural dads, and most of the dads that others admire are nurtured step by step by their mothers. Ding Ma invited a second treasure mother with super dads to learn from her experience. Children are born as children, but parents are not born as parents. Today, let’s talk about how super dads were formed. First, during pregnancy, Read More …

Don’t touch these minefields when teaching your baby to speak.

Language development is a favorable tool for baby’s thinking development. 0 ~ 3 years old is an important period for baby’s language development. During this period, adequate language input and appropriate guidance can lay a good foundation for baby’s future language expression ability development. But during this period, there are always some baby’s performance that worries mothers. My daughter always talks to herself and babbles. The family does not know that she said what. When I went to early childhood education, other children interacted with the teacher. My baby what understood it and refused to say it. Mingming reads stories every day, Mingming sees what teaching the baby to learn to say, Mingming’s family is playing story machines from morning Read More …

If these things are done early, they will really harm the children.

After becoming a father and a mother, I always worry too much, for fear that my children will lose at the starting line and want to [take the first step] in all kinds of things. However, not everything is better as early as possible. Some things are done earlier, which does more harm than good to children. Add supplementary food It is recognized by all countries that the starting time for adding is after the baby reaches the age of 6 months, but considering the baby’s development, this time can fluctuate. If the baby can maintain the sitting posture and put solid things into his mouth, he will no longer instinctively stick out his small tongue and push outward, and Read More …

Infants do not need extra calcium supplement! Don’t ask me if I want to mend it again!

The topic of [calcium supplement] has been said several times before, but the momentum of parents’ giving their children [calcium supplement] has not slowed down at all because of Dr. Clove’s popular science… At regular intervals, someone left a message asking if the baby Balabala (which listed some manifestations) was calcium deficient. Do you want calcium supplement? Although Dr. Clove can understand the anxiety and uneasiness when everyone sees that their babies have symptoms that they did not have before, which are different from other babies and that we do not know, they cannot casually say that this is calcium deficiency. These are not calcium deficiency 1. Occipital baldness The baby only has a circle of hair missing from the Read More …