Why do children lie? Children of different ages have very different reasons.

This morning, my 4-year-old daughter Tingting told me in an indifferent tone. [You mean what? ! When? I asked in shock. [Last Saturday morning, while you were still asleep.] She replied, and then described the detailed process. [Dad put one of your bras on him and jumped around on the sofa.] In the evening, I asked the child if her father had done such stupid things. Obviously, he did not. We laughed, But I feel uneasy. If Tingting lied to avoid punishment, Or lie in order to get extra rewards, I can understand. But Tingting has often lied and boasted in order to make some puzzling [explosive news] recently, and she never admits that those fabricated stories are false. Should Read More …

The child wet the bed again, what should parents do?

In my dream, I went to a toilet. I felt uncomfortable in the middle of the night. I felt wet sheets and bedding, only to find that I was wetting the bed. On the one hand, it is very uncomfortable to sleep in a wet bed, but on the other hand, I am afraid to tell my parents. I believe many people have had such experiences when they were young. As they grow older, most people will gradually stop wetting the bed. However, the bad memories related to bed wetting may always be remembered in my mind. After entering another stage of life, our children, like themselves when they were young, have the problem of bedwetting. How should we deal Read More …

Do you understand correctly about self-funded vaccines?

Vaccines are the umbrella for children’s health. I believe parents are also very clear about the importance of vaccination. One of the vaccine classification methods that we are familiar with is to divide vaccines into [type I vaccines] and [type II vaccines]. The first type of vaccine belongs to the planned vaccine and is paid for by the Government. Most children will be vaccinated one by one according to the vaccination plan. The second type of vaccine belongs to self-funded vaccines and can be vaccinated voluntarily. Because the second type of vaccine is self-funded and voluntary, many people will think that the second type of vaccine is not important and can not spend more money on vaccination. Some even think Read More …

Have you been disturbed by these not difficult problems in your breastfeeding?

Will official holidays lead to a decrease in lactation and affect the quality of breast milk? The secretion of prolactin will be affected by estrogen level. After menstruation recovery, the rise of estrogen level during menstruation will have a certain impact on lactation. Some mothers may have a decrease in milk volume. However, this effect is usually short-term. After the period, lactation volume will recover. Moreover, mothers do not need to worry that blood loss during menstruation will affect the quality of breast milk. Normal women lose only 20-60 ml of blood during menstruation, which has little impact on the whole human body. During menstruation, it is enough to pay attention to nutrition (increase the intake of iron-containing food and Read More …

Is the child not paying attention? Most of these trumped-up charges were arbitrarily detained by irresponsible parents.

As a child psychological consultant, working for three years, the most often heard parents express the three reasons for visiting are: insufficient concentration, poor academic performance and bad temper. Among them, concentration and performance are usually informed by parents on their own initiative, and temper problems are mostly discussed with the deepening of understanding. In fact, among the large number of visits I received due to [concentration] problems, very few children actually had attention problems. In the attention screening tests of counseling centers, these children usually showed no attention problems. This makes me begin to pay attention to what happened in what. Is it what that makes parents feel their children [inattentive]? How to distinguish whether children have attention problems? Read More …

The baby refused to eat well. Is it okay to be hungry?

Every time I eat out, I can always hear some familiar feeding sayings: Do you want to eat? Take the last three bites? If you don’t eat, you will become ugly! If you don’t eat well, you will become stupid. Do you listen to your mother or not? Have you ever felt that a child’s meal is like a stone in your heart. When the meal is finished, the stone will fall to the ground. I don’t know from when, in dealing with the problem of children refusing to eat, a big move has been popular among the people and has been forwarded by various mother and infant tubas: So [Hungry Him] Is It Really the Ultimate Way to Save Read More …

The omnipotent mother’s kiss can even handle the baby’s nasal foreign body.

As is known to all, Babies are always full of infinite curiosity about the world. Their nature of exploring often shows countless lovely looks, and they can always adorable their parents. It is good to explore the world, but babies have not yet formed a sense of danger, and sometimes they will grab what and plug it into their noses, which makes parents break their brains. Pediatricians pointed out that children between the ages of 2 and 5 like to insert certain small objects into their nostrils, and even some children between the ages of 7 and 8 will have similar [accidents]. These are stuffed into the nose [uninvited guests], and the common ones include glass marbles, peanuts, popcorn, or Read More …

Watch out! Lively and active children may also be mental diseases.

Do you have such children around you: Lively and active, jumping up and down, not quiet all day long; Or immersed in their own world every day, do not like to talk, do not communicate with people; Or violent behavior, vulgar words, aggressive, although parents and teachers have struggled [the power of the universe] are still out of control. Do you know that in fact you think [naughty] children may suffer from attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder? Do you know, in fact, do you think [clever and introverted] children may suffer from autism spectrum disorder? Do you know that in fact you think [uneducated] children may suffer from conduct disorders? People often only pay attention to children’s physical diseases, but often ignore Read More …

Children have to learn to solve their own problems in order to have a self-reliant and successful life.

Do you, like many parents, often have headaches due to the following conditions? (1) Children cry, force, unreasonable (2) Children Fight with Small Partners (3) Children do not do homework or do other things according to the teacher’s requirements Many parents may encounter such problems: The child did not behave well and ran into trouble outside. In addition to earnestly educating him that it was wrong to do so, As parents, we have to pay for the mess he has created again and again, apologize to the teacher, apologize to other children, and apologize to the parents of the children. Without face, it is useless to do so. Next time he will still get into trouble, or he will come Read More …

Eight Mistakes in Children’s Use of Antibiotics, We Must Look!

Speaking of superbacteria, parents have heard about it more or less, but for many people, they have heard about it. They always think that it is only a very serious thing for patients. Our children are lively and healthy! This [superbug] is too far away from itself to hit eight poles. But you know what? The distance of eight poles is really not a thing for bacteria. If you don’t pay attention to these rules of antibiotic use in your daily life, it is basically to cultivate [superbacteria] every minute. [Abuse] Not Just [Overuse] Many parents know that the generation of superbacteria is caused by the abuse of antibiotics. But when it comes to what abuse, a large number of Read More …