If you turn on the flash to take photos, is the baby at risk of [blindness]? Can you still have a good time basking in your baby?……

When the baby comes to a family, his parents want to take photos and record every moment of his happiness, anger, sadness and happiness, and there are all kinds of fancy sunshine babies in the circle of friends. Some even spend a sum of money to take photos in the studio. At the same time, another group of parents with delicate thoughts hesitated with their cameras-alas, will they be blind if they are flashed into their eyes by flash lights? There was also a lot of news on the Internet earlier, saying that some newborn babies were blinded by flash lights, and the macula (an important area of the retina of the eye) even burned a hole. So is it Read More …

How can the baby eat not be fat? How should parents assess whether their children are developing normally?

Mother often comes to ask: My baby eats a lot, but even how to eat it is not fat, thinner than the children of the same age in the next house? What a hurry! How can we make our children fatter?…… However, Dr. Clove consulted a professional nutritionist and said that the so-called “baby does not eat fat” by many mothers may be an untrue phenomenon. Many babies are likely to be in a healthy state, neither fat nor thin, which is exactly the right thing. It is because many parents subconsciously think that their children are healthier when they are chubby that they are always worried that there is something wrong with their children looking thin. Today, Dr. Clove Read More …

How to achieve empathy when communicating with children?

Many mothers may have such distress: when a child cannot speak as a child, I can know through his behavior and expression that he wants what. Why does the child learn to speak and sometimes communication becomes difficult? In fact, this is because with the development of children’s intelligence, they gradually have the ability to think independently, and there are differences in thinking between children and mothers. To truly understand children and at the same time let them feel understood, they must be empathetic. Is empathy good for what? Empathy is divided into cognitive empathy and emotional empathy. Cognitive empathy means understanding other people’s intentions, while emotional empathy refers to being able to feel and share other people’s emotions and Read More …

How to cultivate children’s self-confidence?

In the eyes of many parents, other people’s children have such characteristics: natural and graceful when dealing with people, active participation in various activities, and no stage fright when performing in public……. In fact, all these performances come from the same quality, that is, self-confidence. I believe many parents will ask: [Why are other people’s children always full of confidence, while our children are always coy and always seem to lack confidence? Is this a congenital decision? ] Of course not, self-confidence is built up the day after tomorrow, and in the process of children building self-confidence, the cultivation of parents plays a vital role. So, as parents, how can we shoulder this important task and make our children full Read More …

The more good the child is, the more worrying he will be when he grows up?

Do you have such sensible and obedient children around you? They always take their parents’ instructions as the highest instructions. Learning cow force, knowing how to save money, being honest forever, giving parents a long face, love and marriage are mainly based on parents’ ideas… Seemingly clever and sensible, such children dare not express their true thoughts from an early age. When they grow up, some will become indifferent, selfish, anxious about gain and loss, and even violent. In this society that pursues the realization of self-worth, what we really need is what? It’s independent thinking. From this perspective, the better the child, the more worrying he will be when he grows up. Children who are too good are prone Read More …

The child was beaten, should the child be encouraged to fight back?

Many mothers will encounter such problems: What should I do if my child is beaten by other children outside? I have encountered the same problem recently. When a child is beaten, his reaction may be much smaller than you think. My son’s name is Tong Tong, and there is a boy named Kiki who is three months younger than my son in the neighbor’s house. Tong Tong and Kiki often play together. Last weekend, I took my son to the children’s playground in the community, and Kiki’s mother also brought Kiki. As soon as the two children met, Kiki slapped my son. I suppressed my anger and immediately squatted down and hugged Tung Tong and asked him if there was Read More …

Physical Function Development and Nursing of 2 ~ 3 Months Baby

2-3 months is really the cutest time for the baby. When making him laugh, his fingers can be spread out and folded on his chest to play. He can grasp clothes, hair and occasionally eat his fingers. Today, we will tell you what changes have taken place in the baby’s physical function between 2 and 3 months old and what special care we should give to these changes. Lie prone can raise your head and chest. One of the most important improvements for the baby in these two months is the enhancement of neck strength. Less than two months later, when you let him lie prone in a place, he will struggle to look around, perhaps only for a second Read More …

In addition to urging children to eat quickly, they can also use food to exercise their mathematical thinking ability.

What do parents do when they eat with their children? If you just prepare the food, put it in front of the child and urge him to finish it, it would be too boring! To tell you quietly, the more number-talk children have with their parents in their early days, the better their mathematical thinking ability will be in the future. In other words, if parents want to cultivate their children’s interest in mathematics, the simplest way is to consciously use numbers in actual dialogues. The three meals a day is the best time to talk with children about numbers. Take advantage of this opportunity to train children’s mathematical thinking ability. Method 1: Tell the amount of food! Quite simply, Read More …

Still struggling with how to give children sex education? These nine picture books will make you no longer distressed.

In children’s eyes, sex is mysterious, because there is no way to understand, so more and more curious; However, it is simple, different from the elegance and snow moon seen by adults, children are curious about life and sex itself. We all know that children should be given appropriate sex education. Because understanding sex is the first step for children to know themselves, protect themselves, prevent sexual abuse and construct healthy personality. However, the reality is so worrying. Most children still know nothing about sex. All kinds of bad events caused by lack of sex education in news newspapers and online headlines are also sounding alarm bells for us time and again! Although parents are much more open than before, Read More …

How should children take drugs? Starting from Children’s Medication Video

CCTV’s 2016 advertisement for children’s medication, Touched the hearts of countless parents. Although this is a marketing video, some of its viewpoints also lack scientific basis, but regardless of the routine of drug dealers, this video also does reflect some problems existing in the current drug use for children. Taking this opportunity, Ding Ma couldn’t help but want to talk more about the drug use for children with his parents. There are more than 3,500 kinds of pharmaceutical preparations in our country, of which only 60 kinds are for children. Among the only 60 kinds of special drugs for children, there are also many cases of wrong use. According to the results of China’s 6th census, the population aged 0-14 Read More …