How to train children’s ability to cope with setbacks?

Recently, some parents asked me: there are differences between husband and wife on whether to praise or criticize their children more. One of the reasons behind this is to protect their children’s self-esteem and the other is not to let their children blx. Is how better? I think the starting point of both parents is to hope that their children can be more capable of facing difficulties or challenges. The connotation of this ability is very wide and can be divided into two levels, including basic intelligence, physical ability and [operational ability] related to specific problems. There is also the [psychological ability] that the parents’ differences focus on. Is what [Operational Ability]? Faced with a difficult situation, the child is Read More …

How to deal with milk allergy for babies who are artificially fed?

The word food allergy must not be too strange to everyone. I believe many people will have some friends around them who will be allergic to certain foods, such as seafood, mango, eggs, milk, etc. Of course, the simplest and most effective way to deal with food allergy is to avoid eating foods that cause allergy. But what should I do if the baby who needs milk powder is allergic to formula milk powder? Why are you allergic to traditional formula milk powder? Traditional formula, also known as breast milk milk powder, is made from milk as raw material to imitate the ingredients of breast milk, so the main ingredient in formula milk powder is still milk protein from milk. Read More …

Use [ten drops of water] to treat prickly heat? Beware of poisoning!

One of the most disconsolate things for parents in summer is that the baby has prickly heat. How itchy is the prickly heat? I believe that anyone who has grown up will never forget that feeling. Therefore, how to treat prickly heat and how to prevent prickly heat always perplex countless parents. Recently, many people have asked, can you use [ten drops of water] to prevent or treat prickly heat for your baby? [Ten Drops of Water] Ding Ma didn’t know much about this medicine either, so she hurriedly asked Teacher Ji to tell her parents about it. Can [ten drops of water] cure prickly heat? Whether this problem can be treated or not is actually known by looking at Read More …

Children’s tonsils are inflamed repeatedly. Do you want to remove them?

Otolaryngology clinics often see parents leading their children to see a doctor and complaining when they enter. [Doctor, the child’s tonsils are inflamed again. They were inflamed last month. Just a short time ago, they were inflamed again this month.] [Doctor, my child’s tonsils are always inflamed, should they be cut off? ] Why is tonsil always inflamed? Repeatedly inflamed tonsil how to do is good? Let’s explain it one by one for parents. Why is tonsil always inflamed? What we usually call the tonsil is located between the oral cavity and the oropharynx. It is like the guard of the upper respiratory tract of the human body. Viruses and bacteria will be defended and resisted by the tonsil guard Read More …

The baby moves slowly and procrastinates? These four discipline tools are very efficient.

I often hear some mother’s complaints: My child is always slow in doing summer vacation homework. Other people can finish homework in half an hour, but he actually needs two hours. My child is a headache. He starts to sleep at 9 o’clock every night. He always dawdles until after 12 o’clock. What can he do if he is not tall? I’m so worried that my baby will procrastinate in the future, right? Strange, how other people’s children, clever and sensible, can not only finish their summer vacation homework on time, but also learn piano and calligraphy. When it comes to their own children, they are like runaway wild horses, and the rules of life suddenly become disorganized? There are Read More …

Does the baby take too much when going out? A list will stop you from messing up.

Nowadays, many mothers are willing to take their children out, no matter far or near, they always have to take a lot of things. The older children are fine. If the children are younger and have more things to bring, they will often forget this and that. Thinking of the messy appearance of mothers before taking their children out, Ding Ma decided to sort out a [necessary list for taking their babies out]. Mothers will be much easier to remember these four words by comparing the list. Clothes Taking the baby to travel means that the baby needs to contact a brand-new environment, and the familiarity of clothes is very important. In addition to keeping warm, beauty, comfort, convenience to Read More …

Think the baby is too naughty? Maybe you don’t know how to play with TA.

Is your baby also labeled as “naughty”? When I was in kindergarten, I was very noisy, excited, disobeyed discipline and played pranks. When I was playing in the construction area, I took advantage of everyone’s inattention to put all the building blocks into the parking lot built by other students. When I was at home, I climbed the window, tore up the book and made mischief every day. Do all these [evil deeds] often appear on your baby? What should we do when we meet [naughty] babies? In fact, the reason why a child is [naughty] is often due to the fact that his environment cannot meet his level of play and development needs. It is more appropriate to be Read More …

The baby’s smile has many different meanings. Do you understand them?

The baby’s smile is the best thing in the world. Do you still remember the first time your baby smiled at you? I believe many people will say: [Our baby smiled at me not many days after birth.] Yes, many babies will smile before the full moon, but the smile at this time is reflective, and sometimes it may just squeeze the facial features. In fact, even the development of the simple expression of smile has to go through four different stages. The first stage: 0 ~ 5 weeks, spontaneous smile As mentioned earlier, babies will smile before the full moon. Laughter during this period is related to the instability of central nervous system activity. This stage of laughter mainly Read More …

Do these things well, the baby’s eyesight development will be better!

Most of us, open our eyes, can see this colorful world. People often say that the eyes are the windows of the soul. Vision is the higher feeling of human beings. It is not only a simple view, but also includes many complicated functions such as distance, three-dimensional, shade, color, etc. Huh? Are we what how saw? Our vision system is very similar to the imaging principle of cameras. External objects refract light, which passes through the eyeball and shines on the retina. The retina is equivalent to the [negative] in the camera, where an image is formed. The optic nerve on the retina transmits the electrical signals of the [negative] image to the visual cortex of the brain, and Read More …

Can’t teach children to wear clothes and manage toys? These picture books take you to let your children learn to take care of themselves.

As the baby grows up day by day, parents or caregivers can no longer do everything. If you think the baby is still young, clothes should be put on his body, shoes should be put on his feet, food should be fed to his mouth, toys scattered all over the floor should be tidied up for him… that is that you look down on the little ones in your home! Doing everything on behalf of the baby is actually depriving the baby of the opportunity to develop himself. There is a saying you must have heard: teaching people to fish is not as good as teaching people to fish. It means teaching people knowledge is not as good as teaching Read More …