How to evaluate the quality of a love relationship? In fact, there is only one most accurate evaluation criterion: if both of them agree, it is really good. In the psychological counseling of love and marriage relationship, the cause of many emotional problems between partners is attributed to something called “consistency illusion”. Is what an illusion of consistency? In short, both partners think that certain behaviors and events have the same emotional significance to both of them. Couples immersed in love always believe confidently that their three views are completely the same and there is no possibility of any differences. However, old drivers all know that this is an illusion after hormones triumph over rationality. Therefore, once one partner discovers Read More …