Tag: Parenting

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Always feel that the baby is disobedient? It’s all because you didn’t do these three things.

You are patient and talk about picture books [with both voice and emotion]. The baby can’t sit still for 3 minutes and runs around the house. You have taught the four numbers of 1, 2, 3 and 4 for more than half a year, but the baby just doesn’t know that 4 is bigger than 1. … … Most of the time, mothers are very helpless and feel that they will never be at the same point as their babies. Sometimes it takes a lot of effort to teach things that the baby will do after a while. Sometimes the baby can’t understand the simple truth. Do mothers feel exhausted but helpless? So how can we educate our babies and Read More …

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Is it better for infants to drink what water?

The healthy growth of the baby is the greatest wish of parents, ranging from what milk powder to what water (six months ago, there was no need to drink water directly! Don’t force the baby to drink water! ), will make parents especially worried. Some people say that children cannot drink mineral water because [it may contain minerals that are not conducive to the health of the baby]; Some people also say that drinking pure water is not good because [lack of minerals will lead to malnutrition]; There is even [baby water] on the market, saying it is [strictly aseptic] [low sodium, no burden on the body] [can improve the solubility of milk powder]… Then the question arises, what kind Read More …

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Seven Good Habits to Make Children Success [One Step Faster]!

Successful education for children starts with the cultivation of good habits. -Ba Jin If children have only talent but lack good habits, they may miss key opportunities and cannot become winners on the road to success. From children completing jigsaw puzzles independently to arranging their own homework time, the cultivation of good habits is everywhere. Although success is not the ultimate goal of life, success in the secular sense is also a choice to achieve a happy life. It is really important to cultivate good habits in order to make children stand out from their peers. Dr. Stephen Covey was once called [one of the 25 most influential Americans] by Time magazine in the United States. His book “Seven Habits Read More …

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The artifact of age reduction after giving birth to the baby turned out to be……?

Pregnancy and childbirth are very important changes in many mothers’ lives. Before giving birth, everyone hoped that after giving birth, they could still keep fit and give consideration to their careers. However, after giving birth, they found that our life had completely changed because of the arrival of children. Nursing, changing diapers, taking a bath, coaxing sleep… everything is mother, mother, our time and energy seem to be completely occupied by this little guy. But does this necessarily mean that we can only revolve around the children? Are we the only ones to worry about the children? Look at the following stories of mothers, maybe you will know what to do. What carries everything on its own. Do you still Read More …

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Should parents interfere when children choose who to make friends with?

You don’t like a friend of your child’s and think that your child always suffers from playing with him/her? Worried that the child will learn bad after him/her? Experts believe that children under 12 do need parents’ advice when choosing friends. How do you care, the answer is here. When it comes to intervention, it must intervene decisively. I really didn’t think I would interfere with children’s friendship before. I thought that parents’ interference in children’s friendship was like interference in freedom of love and marriage, and was a manifestation of autocracy. But I intervened, and I was glad I did. I told Dalin that we would not go to his classmate H’s house, not to his birthday party, and Read More …

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What if the child is nervous in public?

Will your children be nervous and speechless in front of many people? When children are nervous, do you all have what methods to help children relieve their nervousness? Let’s see how this child’s parents help him relieve his nervousness. The prelude to a class speech Dalin’s school will arrange a class speech every semester from the second grade. At the beginning of the semester, the teacher will send parents a speech task statement for this semester, including the theme, the content that can be covered, the length, the speech skills that need to be learned, how parents can coach, and finally attach a speech schedule, indicating the speech date of all children. The theme of this semester’s speech by Dalin’s Read More …

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Why can children always make me angry easily?

As a new father and mother, when facing our baby, we all hope to be reasonable, considerate, gentle and kind. However, the reality often backfires. Our children seem to have a kind of super ability. They can always arouse our anger [easily] and make us irritable and mad in one second. Why on earth is this? Why can children always annoy me easily? 1. We have unreasonable expectations Perhaps it is because our children behave too sensibly that we will forget that they are only children who have just arrived in this world for a few years. We may subconsciously regard them as adults, ask them to behave according to adults’ standards, and talk to them according to adults’ communication Read More …

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How can different toys play with babies?

Christmas is coming again. Have you decided to prepare what gifts for your children? If you haven’t thought it over yet, consider the following options. 1. Building Blocks How can building blocks be played? 1. 4-8 months At this stage, babies begin to have the consciousness of grasping voluntarily. They will grasp, feel the texture of building blocks, feel different shapes and colors, and sometimes mischievously tear down various [buildings] built up by adults. If the baby grabs the building blocks and throws them out, don’t be angry, the baby at this stage just likes to throw things to play. Why don’t you play the game with the baby? Beware of the pain. 2. 8 ~ 12 months At this Read More …

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How to choose picture books? How do you use it?

Thanks to the “picture book craze” in China in the past two years, many parents are no longer unfamiliar with picture books. Thanks to the efforts of many children’s reading promoters, parents also have a certain understanding of the importance of reading. Many impatient parents, baby is not big, picture books have been hoarded a lot. But do you know the correct way to open picture books? Why do you want to call parent-child reading instead of picture books? Is early parent-child reading good for children? What if children always like to read the same book over and over again? Today, Ding Ma talked with everyone about [parent-child reading]. Why do you want [parent-child reading]? The most essential meaning of Read More …

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As much as you know about life, children love life as much as you know it.

01 When I was 20 years old, I often exchanged dreams with Dalin. I said: Dalin, I will try my best to make money. I hope that one day my parents can move out of the house with less than 100 square meters. I also hope that when I am 40 years old, I can give my child a suite so that no matter who he is with in the future, he will not sleep on the street. Dalin said: You think so far. My dream is that no matter how big the house is, I will have a good life. It is good to do a job you like and not lose food. Every day when you go out, Read More …