Tag: Parenting

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In addition to urging children to eat quickly, they can also use food to exercise their mathematical thinking ability.

What do parents do when they eat with their children? If you just prepare the food, put it in front of the child and urge him to finish it, it would be too boring! To tell you quietly, the more number-talk children have with their parents in their early days, the better their mathematical thinking ability will be in the future. In other words, if parents want to cultivate their children’s interest in mathematics, the simplest way is to consciously use numbers in actual dialogues. The three meals a day is the best time to talk with children about numbers. Take advantage of this opportunity to train children’s mathematical thinking ability. Method 1: Tell the amount of food! Quite simply, Read More …

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Still struggling with how to give children sex education? These nine picture books will make you no longer distressed.

In children’s eyes, sex is mysterious, because there is no way to understand, so more and more curious; However, it is simple, different from the elegance and snow moon seen by adults, children are curious about life and sex itself. We all know that children should be given appropriate sex education. Because understanding sex is the first step for children to know themselves, protect themselves, prevent sexual abuse and construct healthy personality. However, the reality is so worrying. Most children still know nothing about sex. All kinds of bad events caused by lack of sex education in news newspapers and online headlines are also sounding alarm bells for us time and again! Although parents are much more open than before, Read More …

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Why do children lie? Children of different ages have very different reasons.

This morning, my 4-year-old daughter Tingting told me in an indifferent tone. [You mean what? ! When? I asked in shock. [Last Saturday morning, while you were still asleep.] She replied, and then described the detailed process. [Dad put one of your bras on him and jumped around on the sofa.] In the evening, I asked the child if her father had done such stupid things. Obviously, he did not. We laughed, But I feel uneasy. If Tingting lied to avoid punishment, Or lie in order to get extra rewards, I can understand. But Tingting has often lied and boasted in order to make some puzzling [explosive news] recently, and she never admits that those fabricated stories are false. Should Read More …

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Why does the baby get hot when he has teeth?

The eruption of deciduous teeth is a physiological process. Most babies do not suffer from what discomfort, but some babies may suffer from dysphoria, easy crying, love to bite, increased drooling, loss of appetite or slight diarrhea, slight allergy and other phenomena, which are normal. Parents often say that the baby will have fever during the process of teething, and even some babies will have fever every time they grow a new deciduous tooth within a certain period of time. However, does teething really cause fever? In fact, there is no direct relationship between fever and tuskiness. Because the body temperature will rise a little bit when tuskiness is long, but the average rise value is very small, about 0.12 Read More …

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Is the child not paying attention? Most of these trumped-up charges were arbitrarily detained by irresponsible parents.

As a child psychological consultant, working for three years, the most often heard parents express the three reasons for visiting are: insufficient concentration, poor academic performance and bad temper. Among them, concentration and performance are usually informed by parents on their own initiative, and temper problems are mostly discussed with the deepening of understanding. In fact, among the large number of visits I received due to [concentration] problems, very few children actually had attention problems. In the attention screening tests of counseling centers, these children usually showed no attention problems. This makes me begin to pay attention to what happened in what. Is it what that makes parents feel their children [inattentive]? How to distinguish whether children have attention problems? Read More …

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Children have to learn to solve their own problems in order to have a self-reliant and successful life.

Do you, like many parents, often have headaches due to the following conditions? (1) Children cry, force, unreasonable (2) Children Fight with Small Partners (3) Children do not do homework or do other things according to the teacher’s requirements Many parents may encounter such problems: The child did not behave well and ran into trouble outside. In addition to earnestly educating him that it was wrong to do so, As parents, we have to pay for the mess he has created again and again, apologize to the teacher, apologize to other children, and apologize to the parents of the children. Without face, it is useless to do so. Next time he will still get into trouble, or he will come Read More …

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Skillfully Use 5 Ways to Make Baby Fall in Love with Drinking Water

More and more mothers have reported that whenever they want to give their baby water, the baby is extremely resistant, curling his mouth and pushing hard with his small hands, which is even more difficult than letting the baby take medicine and injections. However, as the most important component of the human body, water accounts for 60 ~ 70% of the human body and is an indispensable substance for human physiological activities. Adults drink a lot of water every day, as do babies. On this issue, even if mothers have to do all they can and do all they can, they must make their children fall in love with drinking water. They must skillfully use the following 5 moves to Read More …

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Children procrastinate? Try this detailed scheme of rewards and punishments

Is your baby procrastinating? Not only children, but also ourselves sometimes have procrastination. Most of the time, There is only one reason why we procrastinate, that is, what we have to do is what we don’t like to do. No matter adults or children, when faced with one annoying thing, they always think in their hearts: “Even if I finish this annoying thing, there is still another annoying thing waiting for me, so why do I rush to finish this thing in front of me?” ] In fact, from the perspective of those who do things efficiently, Everyone will encounter things they don’t like to do, No one in the world can be exempted from these annoying responsibilities, and the Read More …

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Can good relations with kindergarten teachers only depend on gifts? Why not try this

Women are born to worry too much. When faced with such [big events] as their children’s upcoming kindergarten, it is inevitable to do their homework early. From the neighborhood, circle of friends, mother group to start all kinds of inquiries and exchanges; To investigate kindergarten teachers, development history, background, students, food and prices; Repeated investigation, comparison, entanglement, hesitation… Even if the final determination of which flower falls, a few days before the real admission, will still suffer from insomnia and worry all night long. Will children be bullied in kindergarten? Children’s self-care ability is not strong, will they not have enough to eat? Will you sleep without help covering the quilt? Will it be ignored by teachers and lead to Read More …

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Whether the husband is good or not, you will know if you have a baby!

Colleague S successfully gave birth to a fat male treasure weighing 8 kg, but asked me gloomily on the phone: Elder sister, how do you feel the whole world has changed after giving birth? You are a former person, tell me honestly, is there any way to live in the days to come? In the first three years after giving birth to a child, various difficulties in child-rearing, husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, career and other aspects have mercilessly hit you. Not a good mother without breast milk? How to choose between stay-at-home mothers and office mothers? The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is in danger. How can it How can the baby I have nurtured with all my Read More …