Tag: Parenting

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Reading Picture Book: “Mother Buys Mung Beans”-Cool and Warm Feeling in Summer

Thanks to the domestic picture book craze in the past two years, Now few people have such misunderstanding as [picture books are books used for drawing]. Even Ding Ma believes that you are a father and a mother. The family has already hoarded a lot of picture books, and perhaps the names of many picture book masters can be named: iry carr, anthony brown, leo leoni, david shannon… they can also know a lot about their representative works, and many picture books may still be bought in original English. But you know what? In fact, some original picture books in China are also very good, and because of the [original taste] of language and pictures, they are closer to our Read More …

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Learn these tricks and teach you to easily improve your child’s EQ.

In addition to a high IQ, every parent wants their children to have a high EQ, especially in interpersonal communication. Indeed, EQ is a key factor in determining whether a person can adapt well to society and communicate with others [appropriately]. So, as parents, how can we improve our child’s emotional intelligence and make him a “social talent”? Today, I’d like to share with you how to improve children’s emotional intelligence from social skills and emotional management in cultivating children’s interpersonal communication. I. Social Skills We all know that good social skills can enable our children to obtain good social relations in the future, and social relations, to a large extent, also affect the future development. So as parents, can Read More …

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Why can Faye Wong, who is high and cold, raise two daughters who are cheerful, sunny and close?

Dou Jingtong wrote a song < > dedicated to his sister Li Yan: For Lola my ear You are lovingly don’t change A pair of half-sisters, whose parents are both big stars, will inevitably be put into the spotlight after divorce, combination and then divorce. The spectators always seem to have malicious speculation, and the sisters’ every move has attracted a lot of discussion. However, it seems that we have never seen rumors of their discord. Everywhere we only see their sweet pictures in the same frame. The love and care flowing in each other’s eyes always seem to overflow the photos. What are the secrets of child-rearing for Faye Wong and Li Yapeng? Love pervades this family. As we Read More …

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Blocking your face can make your baby laugh. Is there a little secret of what’s psychology behind this?

Although there are regional, linguistic and cultural differences, However, the way to tease the baby is very similar everywhere. Ding Ma is sure that every mother with the baby has tried this method: block her face with her hand in front of the baby, then quickly remove it, and match it with an exaggerated expression or interesting voice, so that the baby can giggle. It has been tried and tested repeatedly.

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When children learn to speak, parents must do these six things.

As a new mother, When I heard the first [mother] cry from the child, The heart must be indescribable joy and excitement. However, as the child grows up little by little, our expectation of him is not just a simple [mother]. When we see the mothers around us talking early and complacent for their children, but their babies are [golden mouth is difficult to open], when the mother’s heart must be extremely anxious. [Why is it that the children in the neighbor’s family are 2 months younger than us and can already communicate with adults without obstacles? ] [Why do children always prefer to express their needs with their body eyes, but do not like to speak? ] [Why is Read More …

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How to achieve empathy when communicating with children?

Many mothers may have such distress: when a child cannot speak as a child, I can know through his behavior and expression that he wants what. Why does the child learn to speak and sometimes communication becomes difficult? In fact, this is because with the development of children’s intelligence, they gradually have the ability to think independently, and there are differences in thinking between children and mothers. To truly understand children and at the same time let them feel understood, they must be empathetic. Is empathy good for what? Empathy is divided into cognitive empathy and emotional empathy. Cognitive empathy means understanding other people’s intentions, while emotional empathy refers to being able to feel and share other people’s emotions and Read More …

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How to cultivate children’s self-confidence?

In the eyes of many parents, other people’s children have such characteristics: natural and graceful when dealing with people, active participation in various activities, and no stage fright when performing in public……. In fact, all these performances come from the same quality, that is, self-confidence. I believe many parents will ask: [Why are other people’s children always full of confidence, while our children are always coy and always seem to lack confidence? Is this a congenital decision? ] Of course not, self-confidence is built up the day after tomorrow, and in the process of children building self-confidence, the cultivation of parents plays a vital role. So, as parents, how can we shoulder this important task and make our children full Read More …

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The more good the child is, the more worrying he will be when he grows up?

Do you have such sensible and obedient children around you? They always take their parents’ instructions as the highest instructions. Learning cow force, knowing how to save money, being honest forever, giving parents a long face, love and marriage are mainly based on parents’ ideas… Seemingly clever and sensible, such children dare not express their true thoughts from an early age. When they grow up, some will become indifferent, selfish, anxious about gain and loss, and even violent. In this society that pursues the realization of self-worth, what we really need is what? It’s independent thinking. From this perspective, the better the child, the more worrying he will be when he grows up. Children who are too good are prone Read More …

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The child was beaten, should the child be encouraged to fight back?

Many mothers will encounter such problems: What should I do if my child is beaten by other children outside? I have encountered the same problem recently. When a child is beaten, his reaction may be much smaller than you think. My son’s name is Tong Tong, and there is a boy named Kiki who is three months younger than my son in the neighbor’s house. Tong Tong and Kiki often play together. Last weekend, I took my son to the children’s playground in the community, and Kiki’s mother also brought Kiki. As soon as the two children met, Kiki slapped my son. I suppressed my anger and immediately squatted down and hugged Tung Tong and asked him if there was Read More …

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Unexpectedly, there are so many benefits of barefoot baby! Don’t worry about it any more

When children have a good time, they are especially reluctant to wear socks, barefoot on the floor, even on the marble floor, and sometimes sweat profusely. Grandma couldn’t help but feel surprised, [cold comes from the soles of the feet] ah, it is strange that it is not frozen? Sometimes they even chase behind with socks and shoes, and even take out coercion and inducements. But even if the child does put on it, the heat will last for two minutes, especially the shoes. Is it harmful for the child to be barefoot? Do socks have to be worn? Children don’t like to wear socks? Normal The baby is in the growth and development period, the metabolism itself is more Read More …