Tag: Parenting

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Are there any differences with the elderly in the family? This communication is much easier!

People have said: [Two strange women who have never met before can hug and cry when talking about their mother-in-law. If they can’t finish chatting, it seems that the other is their best friend in the previous life.] Looking around, in every popular group of mothers, the one who talks most is his mother-in-law. Let’s take a look at the mothers in the group talking about what. Baoma A: [When the baby was young, Her mother-in-law was afraid that he would not digest well Always chew the food before feeding it. But doing so will not only infect bacteria, It will also affect the baby’s chewing ability. When the baby is 9 months old, I began to train him to Read More …

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It’s not terrible to take [Xiong Wa] out of the house. Learn these things to get TA done.

Nowadays, the Xiong Haizi problem is not only a family problem, but also a social problem. Look at the following news reports and you will understand. In June this year, more than 40 parents jointly urged Xiong Haizi, who beat and bit his classmates many times in a primary school in China, to withdraw. In the same month, it was reported that some coffee shops and restaurants in South Korea posted signs of “refusing to bring infants in” one after another because they could not tolerate the impact of Xiong Haizi’s disruptive behavior in the shops on other customers. Reports of Xiong Haizi’s outrageous behavior are increasing day by day. How to discipline your children so that they do not Read More …

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Waiting makes the baby impatient? Try these little games

I wrote this article because I saw a scene when I passed the customs at the airport: A mother and a 2-year-old child were in line. In order to attract the child’s attention and prevent the child from running around, the mother took a mobile phone in front of the child and kept playing various videos… Each video can’t be seen for 30 seconds, and the child is not interested. He starts to break free from his mother’s hand. At this time, his mother changes to another video. Before long, the child starts to say “hit, hit”. The mother responded, “Do you think you want to hit people, I still want to hit people!” ] Children aged 0-6 years old, Read More …

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Hot Mom Sutra: A Mother’s Experience in Training Babies to Defecate and Urinate Autonomously

[Mom and Dad, I will go to the toilet by myself! [(laughing proudly) [Mom, all the children in the kindergarten go to the toilet by themselves! [a proud look] Finally, we waited for this day. In order to wait for this day to come [naturally], we gave our son full respect and unconditional trust. Little Story-Consequences of Training Children to Go to Toilet Prematurely The neighbor’s son, Kiki, is 3 months younger than our Tung Tong. However, their family has been wearing typical Chinese-style [open-backed pants] since Kiki was about 20 months old. Within 3 months, Kiki can basically take the initiative to express her need for toilet use. But the whole family spent too much extra energy on it. Read More …

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Think the baby is too naughty? Maybe you don’t know how to play with TA.

Is your baby also labeled as “naughty”? When I was in kindergarten, I was very noisy, excited, disobeyed discipline and played pranks. When I was playing in the construction area, I took advantage of everyone’s inattention to put all the building blocks into the parking lot built by other students. When I was at home, I climbed the window, tore up the book and made mischief every day. Do all these [evil deeds] often appear on your baby? What should we do when we meet [naughty] babies? In fact, the reason why a child is [naughty] is often due to the fact that his environment cannot meet his level of play and development needs. It is more appropriate to be Read More …

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What’s the use of mastering a musical skill?

For many children, music has long been an indispensable part of life. In the upsurge of all-round quality education, various music tutoring classes, interest classes and early childhood education institutions have emerged. Apart from the benefits of getting a music skill itself, from the perspective of children’s psychological development, does music also promote the development of children’s cognitive level? [Mozart Effect], Does It Exist? When it comes to the topic of music and children’s development, people first think of the once famous [Mozart Effect], that is, listening to Mozart’s music can promote children’s brain development and make children smarter. But is this really the case? The Mozart effect was first discovered in a 1993 study by researchers such as Laucher Read More …

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When the baby catches a cold, this kind of care is more effective.

The common cold is basically a virus infection. You don’t need to take medicine, but you can get well by yourself. Even if you take medicine, you can’t make the cold get better faster. When the baby has a cold, if parents do these family care work well, although they cannot shorten the course of the disease, they can make the baby more comfortable.

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Quiet and introverted children can also be winners in life. It is very important for parents to achieve these 7 points.

Many mothers observe whether their babies are extroverted when they are very young. For a long time, there has been such an argument: [children who are extroverted and lively are more conducive to growth, while children who are introverted and shy need to cultivate self-confidence.] At present, most schools and even units are deliberately cultivating extroverted personality. They believe that team cooperation and interpersonal communication all require extroverted personality, and introverts are often considered [shy and conservative]. In fact, a person’s personality is determined by nature to a certain extent, and there is no difference between different personalities. We should not label different personalities with different grades, but should let the child be in an environment suitable for his personality Read More …

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Why do babies like sucking their fingers and gnawing their feet? Psychologists’ explanations are more interesting than each other.

I believe mothers will find that the baby has a lovely little trick-sucking fingers. Some babies will suck their fingers, but also suck the back of their hands and arms. Some flexible babies will pick up their feet and chew them, sometimes even suck their fingers to sleep. Why is the baby so fond of sucking his fingers? Why does the baby love to suck his fingers? In fact, finger sucking behavior has not only attracted the attention of parents, but also psychologists have shown great interest in this behavior of babies since they got up very early. Let’s see how psychologists explain this behavior. Freud, Representative of Psychoanalysis: In my opinion, the baby’s sucking fingers is related to his Read More …

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Why did I quit all the moms

Why did I quit all the moms? I have been in my early 3 years since I gave birth to my baby. During this period, I joined many groups of mothers, but all ended up quietly withdrawing from the group. Because I am mean by nature and like to summarize, I plan to classify all the mothers I have met. After classifying, I will understand why I can’t stay in it. The first category: the second battlefield of the community aunt Scene 1: A mother casually said: “My baby loves watermelon.” A: Watermelon is cold. Never eat more. B: That’s right. We all give watermelons to our babies after they are heated up. C: Ah, summer is trouble. Always prevent Read More …