Tag: Parenting

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Month Guide: Beginning of Life, Parents’ Companion

1 month When you are with your baby, you have to be very close to ta. Why? She can only see things at a distance of 20 to 40 centimeters. Because when her eyes develop, she likes to look at her face. So when she doesn’t sleep, she approaches her and whispers softly to ta. 2 months While singing and helping the baby clap his hands, Can better develop hand movement and visual ability. Slowly, ta will imitate your movements and pronunciation, develop hand-eye coordination and language ability. Later, the baby will imitate your expression. When holding the baby, you can stick out your tongue, open your mouth wide, or give the baby a big smile. In the next few Read More …

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The child has a strong personality, and be careful that the more he manages, the more

There is a child with an easy-going temper and a good attitude in the family. It doesn’t matter if parents don’t understand how’s rules for their children. However, if the child’s personality is too strong, parents need to know scientific and reasonable guidance methods. The way of education is wrong, and children will not obey when they grow up. If the child’s personality is too strong, when the parents will have nothing to do, they may leave the stubborn child aside, but they still cry. It is not enough to take back some promises given to them. Anyway, the child is angry and what doesn’t care. After all kinds of methods have been tried, discipline may eventually turn into quarrels Read More …

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Watch out! The walker may have killed the child.

Hearing the name walker, many parents think it can help their children learn to walk and think it is a good thing. This is not the case. Its danger to children cannot be ignored. What are the hazards of walker? 1. Affect children’s learning to walk It sounds ironic, how can walker delay children’s walking? As early as 2002, studies abroad showed that children who use walkers walk independently later. In the walker, In fact, the weight of the child is all concentrated in the buttocks, the legs are not hard, the toes can move a little, but will affect the development of leg strength. Children in the walker [walking] is toe landing, this is not a normal posture, long-term Read More …

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Teach you 4 tricks to make your baby fall in love with washing hands.

It is very important for children to form a good habit of washing their hands to prevent diseases and keep healthy. How can children be taught to wash their hands correctly and form the habit of washing their hands frequently? The correct way to wash hands If you want to teach your children to wash their hands, first parents should master the correct method of washing their hands. Using soap or hand sanitizer is the simplest and most effective method, with the following precautions: Wash hands with flowing water; Let soap or hand sanitizer fully rub up bubbles; Every place should be washed clean, including palm, back of hand, wrist, finger seam, nail seam, and every dead corner should not Read More …

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How to choose toys for children aged 0 ~ 6?

Toys are undoubtedly the most popular Children’s Day gift. Toys can not only bring joy to children’s games, but also from another angle, toys are also [tools] for children to engage in [work]. Learning to use tools is a remarkable sign that distinguishes human beings from animals. Therefore, choosing suitable toys and corresponding games for children can help TA explore the world and promote TA’s development, especially in fine movement, language and cognitive ability. Today, let’s briefly introduce how to choose suitable toys for children. Choose toys according to age. From March to March: Initial Exploration of Sense Perception Recommendation: Ringing bell, colored ball, rattle, rocking stick, bed bell… This stage is the initial exploration of sensory perception. At this Read More …

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These imperative words may [destroy] your child.

In the past 10 years of counseling and treatment experience, I have taken over a large number of psychological counseling cases. No matter adults or children, all kinds of problems in them can clearly see the imprint of parents’ parenting style on children. Some parents may think [destroying children] is alarmist talk. They will think: How can I harm children? However, many parents are inadvertently doing things to hurt their children in the name of love. If parents can consciously avoid those possible harmful behaviors from the very beginning of raising their children, raising children will become a process for children and parents to grow up together. I will write some things that parents must avoid in the process of Read More …

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How to set [family rules] so that children will not oppose you?

Ask yourself, raising a few children and living a life of husband and son have never been my ideal in life. As for the fact that there are two babies, I have always had a strong sense of unreality. I will look at these two balls of meat and think in a trance. Is this really my birth? Ashamed to say, I am a mother with a very big nerve, and I am especially evasive about all kinds of bottle diaper theories. My baby has always been not very fine. At least [the first baby is raised by reading and the second baby is raised as a pig], and all the two small animals in our family are the result Read More …

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Is it a how experience for an only child to upgrade to a parent?

In fact, the first generation of only children are now in their 30s and many have become parents. In the cases I took over here, the parents of the only child came to consult more and more, which often made me feel that the child had a child. The following is a summary of the eight common problems of such parents for reference. If there are some, they will correct them; If there are no, they will encourage them. First, there is an awakening of independence and no ability to be independent. Case 1: The daughter-in-law lives in her in-laws’ house. She bought a duplex when she bought the house and wrote her son’s name. The old couple live downstairs, Read More …

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If you are very busy, you can also become a good father.

In today’s society, due to the fierce competition for survival, fathers in ordinary families are busy working hard, and the important task of caring for families and educating children mostly falls on the shoulders of mothers alone. However, the weakening or disappearance of the role of fathers caused by this is very unfavorable to the growth of children. As a competent father, how should we improve? My wife sometimes criticizes me. He said that although I studied developmental psychology, I did not do many things that were beneficial to my children. In and out of my words, I was criticized for being superficial. Perhaps in her eyes, I am like many young fathers in China: In the matter of taking Read More …

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Can I play with my cell phone when I am with my baby? Come here to find the answer

Novice parents always have lingering anxiety in their hearts. This kind of anxiety is good to some extent, because it can make us constantly search for and learn all kinds of parenting knowledge, but it also tends to lead us to the other extreme: excessive anxiety, so that we are timid. Of course I was anxious too! If it weren’t for anxiety, I wouldn’t have collected a large amount of public official information, wouldn’t have doubts about any so-called expert’s arguments, and wouldn’t have shared and disseminated knowledge that I have verified to be reliable. Looking back on my own journey with Macey over the past year, the first tangle I encountered was: Can we play with our mobile phones Read More …