Tag: Parent-Child

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It’s not terrible to take [Xiong Wa] out of the house. Learn these things to get TA done.

Nowadays, the Xiong Haizi problem is not only a family problem, but also a social problem. Look at the following news reports and you will understand. In June this year, more than 40 parents jointly urged Xiong Haizi, who beat and bit his classmates many times in a primary school in China, to withdraw. In the same month, it was reported that some coffee shops and restaurants in South Korea posted signs of “refusing to bring infants in” one after another because they could not tolerate the impact of Xiong Haizi’s disruptive behavior in the shops on other customers. Reports of Xiong Haizi’s outrageous behavior are increasing day by day. How to discipline your children so that they do not Read More …

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How to train children’s ability to cope with setbacks?

Recently, some parents asked me: there are differences between husband and wife on whether to praise or criticize their children more. One of the reasons behind this is to protect their children’s self-esteem and the other is not to let their children blx. Is how better? I think the starting point of both parents is to hope that their children can be more capable of facing difficulties or challenges. The connotation of this ability is very wide and can be divided into two levels, including basic intelligence, physical ability and [operational ability] related to specific problems. There is also the [psychological ability] that the parents’ differences focus on. Is what [Operational Ability]? Faced with a difficult situation, the child is Read More …

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From birth to 2 years old, parents do this to make the baby smarter.

Mom and Dad, do you know how the baby became smarter and smarter in the first two years from ignorance to quaint? According to the theory of Swiss child development psychologist Piaget, the stage from birth to the age of 2 is called the “perceptual motor stage” of intellectual development. At the beginning of this stage, the baby only knows sucking and crying, but by the end of this stage and about to enter the next stage of development, the baby will already carry out organized and planned complex activities. During the baby’s first two years of growth, did he experience what? 0 ~ 1 month, focus on practicing reflex for 1 month When we are just born, our baby Read More …

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The more good the child is, the more worrying he will be when he grows up?

Do you have such sensible and obedient children around you? They always take their parents’ instructions as the highest instructions. Learning cow force, knowing how to save money, being honest forever, giving parents a long face, love and marriage are mainly based on parents’ ideas… Seemingly clever and sensible, such children dare not express their true thoughts from an early age. When they grow up, some will become indifferent, selfish, anxious about gain and loss, and even violent. In this society that pursues the realization of self-worth, what we really need is what? It’s independent thinking. From this perspective, the better the child, the more worrying he will be when he grows up. Children who are too good are prone Read More …

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Say you! Please don’t tease my children like this, will you?

After giving birth to the child, my cousin often complained to me about some disrespectful behaviors of the people around me: Sister, I sometimes regret having children. It’s not that I am pessimistic by nature, but that I find the environment around me too bad. If nothing else, take my daughter’s 1st birthday as an example. My mother-in-law’s friends actually used lollipops as bait to teach my daughter to scold me [bad mother] in front of me. After success, all burst out laughing as if they had picked up gold. My daughter is so young that she doesn’t understand what [bad] means in what. All she knows is that she tries to make [bad] lip sounds according to their requirements. Read More …

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The baby cried and did not hug or cry before hugging? These baby-taking [experiences] will harm the child.

When I was a parent for the first time, I would inevitably be a little in a hurry. The most hope is that someone who has come before can give me some advice. This is not true. The article “17 Unique Skills for Americans to Take Care of Children”, which is widely circulated on the Internet, seems to be able to raise a good baby according to these unique skills. However, is the fact really as simple and easy as described in the article? Don’t hug if you cry, hug if you don’t cry? After the baby is born, leaving his mother’s warm and safe uterus and facing the completely unfamiliar environment, what he needs most is that his parents Read More …

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Don’t Use Children as Toys: The Right Way to Play with Babies under 1 Year Old

Babies under one year old have new changes every day and are full of curiosity to explore the world, but babies at this time cannot express their wishes by themselves. How can we accompany our children well and let them spend this period healthily and happily? Is there something what cannot do? The most important thing is to play with the baby instead of playing with the baby as a toy. Some people may scoff at this: It is difficult for what to play with the baby? Not necessarily. Generally speaking, if adults don’t pay attention to the baby’s feelings and treat the baby repeatedly just because the baby’s response to some behaviors of adults is fun, then adults are Read More …

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A list of preparations and items for taking children on a trip.

It is not convenient to travel with children for a long time, which has become a topic in it is hard to go times. It is not a reason for a child who is too young to remember where he has been. Habit is the most important ability. For long-distance travel with children before the age of 2, perhaps the best choice is to rent a car/drive by oneself. The advantage is that you can take too much luggage, because taking children out is too much [luggage]. So what should I do? Daddy teaches you to be ready hand in hand! I. Travel Route Planning and Reservation The route planning must be done well in advance and in detail so Read More …

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Do you really know how to put the baby to sleep?

It is not easy to coax the baby to sleep. There are also many misunderstandings about the baby’s sleep. The following are some precautions to coax the baby to sleep to see if you have made any mistakes. 1. Find out the baby’s sleepiness in time, If the baby is yawning, you must know it’s time to go to bed. However, there are other manifestations, such as upper and lower eyelid fights, crying and irritability, which are also manifestations of sleeping in infants. Some babies will become especially sticky when they are sleepy, and others will be excessively excited. Babies fall asleep in a state of excessive fatigue, but they will not sleep well. It is very important to find Read More …

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Watch out! The walker may have killed the child.

Hearing the name walker, many parents think it can help their children learn to walk and think it is a good thing. This is not the case. Its danger to children cannot be ignored. What are the hazards of walker? 1. Affect children’s learning to walk It sounds ironic, how can walker delay children’s walking? As early as 2002, studies abroad showed that children who use walkers walk independently later. In the walker, In fact, the weight of the child is all concentrated in the buttocks, the legs are not hard, the toes can move a little, but will affect the development of leg strength. Children in the walker [walking] is toe landing, this is not a normal posture, long-term Read More …