Tag: Parent-Child Relationship

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Do you really know the consequences of beating children? Parents were silent after watching… … …

When I took the bus, I saw a three or four-year-old child crying, probably because he did not want to go to kindergarten. In my opinion, children of this age group are in the experience period of separation and anxiety, unwilling to separate from their parents and refusing to invest in a relatively unfamiliar environment, which is perfectly normal. The mother’s husband was angry and shouted at the child’s father: “You don’t care!” ] The child’s father was quite executive. He picked up the child and put it on his leg. He slapped his ass. The crying came to an abrupt end. After the whole car was silent for three seconds, the child’s mouth gushed with explosive cries. The child’s Read More …

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The kitchen can also become the second classroom, and children’s creativity can also be cultivated in this way.

In most families in China, it is simply impossible for children to participate in cooking. [The baby is so small, how can they cook? They are making trouble in the kitchen.] [There are so many dangerous things in the kitchen, how dare you let the little baby into the kitchen, in case of injury.] However, in kindergartens and families in Europe and the United States, it is becoming more and more popular for babies to have cooking activities and participate in the production of three meals. Is it really good to let children participate in food production? What abilities can children develop in the process of making food by themselves? Cooking education can develop children’s abilities in many aspects. 1. Read More …

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Waiting makes the baby impatient? Try these little games

I wrote this article because I saw a scene when I passed the customs at the airport: A mother and a 2-year-old child were in line. In order to attract the child’s attention and prevent the child from running around, the mother took a mobile phone in front of the child and kept playing various videos… Each video can’t be seen for 30 seconds, and the child is not interested. He starts to break free from his mother’s hand. At this time, his mother changes to another video. Before long, the child starts to say “hit, hit”. The mother responded, “Do you think you want to hit people, I still want to hit people!” ] Children aged 0-6 years old, Read More …

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Think the baby is too naughty? Maybe you don’t know how to play with TA.

Is your baby also labeled as “naughty”? When I was in kindergarten, I was very noisy, excited, disobeyed discipline and played pranks. When I was playing in the construction area, I took advantage of everyone’s inattention to put all the building blocks into the parking lot built by other students. When I was at home, I climbed the window, tore up the book and made mischief every day. Do all these [evil deeds] often appear on your baby? What should we do when we meet [naughty] babies? In fact, the reason why a child is [naughty] is often due to the fact that his environment cannot meet his level of play and development needs. It is more appropriate to be Read More …

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Quiet and introverted children can also be winners in life. It is very important for parents to achieve these 7 points.

Many mothers observe whether their babies are extroverted when they are very young. For a long time, there has been such an argument: [children who are extroverted and lively are more conducive to growth, while children who are introverted and shy need to cultivate self-confidence.] At present, most schools and even units are deliberately cultivating extroverted personality. They believe that team cooperation and interpersonal communication all require extroverted personality, and introverts are often considered [shy and conservative]. In fact, a person’s personality is determined by nature to a certain extent, and there is no difference between different personalities. We should not label different personalities with different grades, but should let the child be in an environment suitable for his personality Read More …

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Reading Picture Book: “Mother Buys Mung Beans”-Cool and Warm Feeling in Summer

Thanks to the domestic picture book craze in the past two years, Now few people have such misunderstanding as [picture books are books used for drawing]. Even Ding Ma believes that you are a father and a mother. The family has already hoarded a lot of picture books, and perhaps the names of many picture book masters can be named: iry carr, anthony brown, leo leoni, david shannon… they can also know a lot about their representative works, and many picture books may still be bought in original English. But you know what? In fact, some original picture books in China are also very good, and because of the [original taste] of language and pictures, they are closer to our Read More …

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Blocking your face can make your baby laugh. Is there a little secret of what’s psychology behind this?

Although there are regional, linguistic and cultural differences, However, the way to tease the baby is very similar everywhere. Ding Ma is sure that every mother with the baby has tried this method: block her face with her hand in front of the baby, then quickly remove it, and match it with an exaggerated expression or interesting voice, so that the baby can giggle. It has been tried and tested repeatedly.

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How to achieve empathy when communicating with children?

Many mothers may have such distress: when a child cannot speak as a child, I can know through his behavior and expression that he wants what. Why does the child learn to speak and sometimes communication becomes difficult? In fact, this is because with the development of children’s intelligence, they gradually have the ability to think independently, and there are differences in thinking between children and mothers. To truly understand children and at the same time let them feel understood, they must be empathetic. Is empathy good for what? Empathy is divided into cognitive empathy and emotional empathy. Cognitive empathy means understanding other people’s intentions, while emotional empathy refers to being able to feel and share other people’s emotions and Read More …

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How to cultivate children’s self-confidence?

In the eyes of many parents, other people’s children have such characteristics: natural and graceful when dealing with people, active participation in various activities, and no stage fright when performing in public……. In fact, all these performances come from the same quality, that is, self-confidence. I believe many parents will ask: [Why are other people’s children always full of confidence, while our children are always coy and always seem to lack confidence? Is this a congenital decision? ] Of course not, self-confidence is built up the day after tomorrow, and in the process of children building self-confidence, the cultivation of parents plays a vital role. So, as parents, how can we shoulder this important task and make our children full Read More …

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In addition to urging children to eat quickly, they can also use food to exercise their mathematical thinking ability.

What do parents do when they eat with their children? If you just prepare the food, put it in front of the child and urge him to finish it, it would be too boring! To tell you quietly, the more number-talk children have with their parents in their early days, the better their mathematical thinking ability will be in the future. In other words, if parents want to cultivate their children’s interest in mathematics, the simplest way is to consciously use numbers in actual dialogues. The three meals a day is the best time to talk with children about numbers. Take advantage of this opportunity to train children’s mathematical thinking ability. Method 1: Tell the amount of food! Quite simply, Read More …