Tag: Inferiority

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Excessive narcissism is also a disease? Let’s test it

Occasional selfishness and conceit is a long-standing human nature. But real [narcissism] goes far beyond this. Narcissism is not only extraordinary [feeling good about themselves], They also never respect the feelings and thoughts of others, Ignore the needs of others. The word [narcissism] comes from a handsome man named Narcissis in Greek mythology. He is amazing in beauty. All the young girls who have seen him are deeply in love with him, but he is only infatuated with his reflection in the water. What I just said is different from narcissistic personality disorder, which is a mental problem. Are you narcissistic? Has it reached the level of personality disorder? Narcissistic people will meet a small number of the following characteristics; Read More …

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How should we accept our substandard figure?

I have always thought I was great in appearance since I was a child. I have never tortured myself desperately to lose a kilo or two of fat. For me, health is the most important thing, and appearance is the most nihilistic thing. No, no, no, I will never lie to my daughter like this in the future-when I was young, which of us did not suffer from our [imperfection] appearance?

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Do you think you don’t look good? To hell with this feeling!

When we find that we have not met the social standard of “good looking” in some aspects, we will inevitably feel depressed. No matter how beautiful people are, they will also find themselves [not good-looking] in some angles and in some costumes. However, most of us [have to endure our imperfect appearance] most of the time, and even attribute our unhappiness in life to our lack of natural beauty. I know, this feeling is uncomfortable. So, is it possible for us to start from the heart and not be affected by it? I hope today’s article can help you. Is it what? Our evaluation of [beauty] and [ugliness] has been changing with the times. At the same time, the standards Read More …

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Good old man, two-sided person, can’t say [no], are you like them, low self-esteem?

Once upon a time, there was a man whose name was Xiao Ming. Xiao Ming has a neighbor who is proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting. He will pass all kinds of competitions without hindrance. He is ashamed of his parents’ repeated use as a “model”. No matter how hard he tries, he will still be accused of not doing enough. Xiao Ming’s parents often fall into endless quarrels and battles, often throwing faces at each other. Xiao Ming can only hide in bed and shed tears silently, reflecting on whether his parents’ discord is caused by his lack of good enough. Xiao Ming’s parents are workaholics, devoting themselves to their career, ignoring Xiao Ming’s life and study, never Read More …

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Can’t say [no], feel inferior to others everywhere, what should we do?

As we said earlier, the core performance of low self-esteem is to pay special attention to other people’s evaluation. All the efforts made together are to be recognized by others and have no principles. This is the [source of negative energy] for people with low self-esteem. In order to eliminate this small flame of negative energy, what can we do about what? Learn to say no to others Helping others is a good thing, but are you really happy after every helping act aimed at pleasing others? If the answer is no, then bravely say [no]. If you cannot refuse directly, try the following three methods: Explain the reasons why you cannot help, such as traveling with your children on Read More …