Do you have the same experience: Clearly, he is determined to lose weight, but he will not refuse the invitation to dinner. He does not want to be disappointed and feels full of guilt after eating. Occasionally I want to dress myself up carefully, but I always feel too conspicuous and want to wear the clothes I often wear. I was chatting happily with my colleagues when I found the boss looking at you and immediately reflected: Am I wrong about what? Or did I do something wrong, what? For many people, they have many ideas of their own, but they always care more about [what others think] than about [I think], and Xiang Xiang is one of them. Don’t Read More …

How can building blocks be played? Babies of different ages have different ways of playing according to their development. 4 ~ 8 months old At this stage, babies begin to have the consciousness of grasping voluntarily. They will grasp, feel the texture of building blocks, feel different shapes and colors, and sometimes mischievously tear down various [buildings] built up by adults. If the baby grabs the building blocks and throws them out, don’t be angry, the baby at this stage just likes to throw things to play. Why don’t you play the game with the baby? Beware of the pain. Babies can play with building blocks in the following ways: Simple perception, touching with hands and biting with mouth to Read More …

Perhaps because of the influence of traditional ideas in China, few people will ask doctors for advice on sex during pregnancy, as if it is a natural thing to ban sex during pregnancy. In fact, don’t say at home, even in the West, the number of people who take the initiative to consult doctors in this regard will not exceed 20%. It seems that people all over the world avoid talking about sex during pregnancy. So can we have sex during pregnancy? Next, we will invite Mr. Tian Jishun to tell us about this problem. Sexual desire will change during pregnancy. According to medical literature, most women’s sexual desire will decline during pregnancy, while the decline of Chinese women’s sexual Read More …

Hello everyone, I am your old friend Dr. Li Shan. As an obstetrician and gynecologist, I hope every woman can better understand her body, know more reliable health knowledge and better protect herself. So I began to write, writing hundreds of answers on Zhihu, with nearly 140,000 followers and 630,000 approval. At the same time, I read nearly 1 billion popular science on other platforms and won nearly 2 million approval. At the same time, I also helped tens of thousands of women to answer their doubts. Today, one of my patients, Linlin, came to see a doctor with a B-ultrasound sheet. It turned out that her physical examination found the cervical sac, because this quarreled with her boyfriend, because Read More …

Soft, bright small ball, will bring visual and tactile stimulation to the baby. Small-month-old babies can feel the ball by looking and touching, and can also try to throw the ball when they grow up. These simple behaviors can also enrich the baby’s sensory experience. 0 ~ 4 months old At this stage, children’s upper limb strength is not very good, but they may consciously take the ball and throw it away, forming a [throwing] action. Of course, their throwing has no accuracy or purpose. It doesn’t matter, take your time, the baby is trying to coordinate his body. At this stage, the baby will clench reflexively when touching things, and cannot realize the active grasping action. Therefore, the main Read More …

Jigsaw puzzle is a [advanced] game. Identification, splicing, combination, jigsaw puzzle, jigsaw puzzle belong to this seemingly extremely simple but contains infinite possibilities of toys. Children use fine exercises to knead the jigsaw puzzle fragments and put them in the right place, which helps them to exercise their overall spatial awareness. This is a very complicated exercise, using their brains and hands. Jigsaw puzzles are very helpful to develop children’s problem-solving ability, concentration and thinking ability. However, due to the variety, children’s interests, small animals or cars should be taken into account when choosing. The design should be as good as it is. 12 months old The baby at this stage can be simply sensed by touching, looking and throwing. Read More …

The jigsaw puzzle is in the baby’s hand and can be pieced together into various patterns. This is an imaginative game, not just a simple question of fine movements. Pairing, alignment, etc. These are all more advanced skills. In the process of playing jigsaw puzzle, the baby can know what shape can be matched with what shape and how can be aligned, which is helpful for the development of spatial cognition. 13 ~ 18 months old More than one-year-old babies have further developed their minds and bodies in all aspects, begun to understand most of the life scenes, and the development of their brains is also advancing by leaps and bounds. At this stage, the baby’s sense of space and Read More …

Babies aged 0 ~ 6 need direct experience of life and indirect experience from other media. The more experience, the more children know about the world and the richer their imagination. Picture books just allow babies to explore the world without leaving their homes. 4 ~ 8 months old At that time, the baby’s sensitivity to color is improved, and picture books with bright colors and simple lines are filled with a large number of color elements, allowing the baby to [have enough eye addiction]. Babies will show great interest in the colors and contents of picture books. As their understanding of graphics further improves, they will also try to connect graphic symbols with the real world. At this time, Read More …

The ball can not only be kicked, but also thrown. Babies’ desire for the ball does not seem to disappear, and the rolling and bouncing of the ball is a very interesting phenomenon for them. This kick and throw, by the way, exercise the baby’s athletic ability. 24 months old Babies at this stage have already started to try [kick] the ball. The rolling and bouncing of the ball is a very interesting phenomenon for them. Parents prepare larger rubber balls for their children, such as at least 25cm in diameter, which are easier to kick. This kick and throw, by the way, exercise the baby’s athletic ability. Parents can also play ball-to-ball games with their babies to train their Read More …

Dolls are the longest fun companions for babies besides parents. 24 months old At this age, the baby’s gender preference for toys has begun to take shape. Boys prefer model toys that can deform and push around. Girls prefer dolls with beautiful appearance and a certain sense of substitution. Recommended toys: dolls, simulated food, simulated kitchen utensils that children can hold with four fingers, kitchen toys, etc. The babies took these dolls, It will open a magical way of playing-[pretend to play]. Popular, It’s role playing. Babies begin to try to play [pretend games], make more [social] behaviors, and substitute themselves into an illusory and real game. Don’t interrupt children because they feel childish, but try to cater to their Read More …