Recently, some parents asked me: there are differences between husband and wife on whether to praise or criticize their children more. One of the reasons behind this is to protect their children’s self-esteem and the other is not to let their children blx. Is how better? I think the starting point of both parents is to hope that their children can be more capable of facing difficulties or challenges. The connotation of this ability is very wide and can be divided into two levels, including basic intelligence, physical ability and [operational ability] related to specific problems. There is also the [psychological ability] that the parents’ differences focus on. Is what [Operational Ability]? Faced with a difficult situation, the child is Read More …