The first year as a mother is a spiritual practice.

It is often said that being a mother is a woman’s second [rebirth]. Maternal love is instinct, but not everyone is born to be a mother. Everyone grows up in stumbling. Today’s story is the story of Dr. Clove’s old friend, Teacher Tang Wei, who recorded his first year as a mother. I believe you can also see your tears and laughter inside. Written in the first year Yesterday was the baby’s first birthday, and Eva suddenly shook off my hand and took a few steps by herself, which made me very happy. [One small step for the baby, one big step for the mother], watching the baby toddler, sighing and sighing, the cute and soft little monster who only Read More …

Over the years, I have only raised one child and achieved nothing else.

I don’t know if you have ever felt the same way. Taking care of children has become the whole of your life. Every day’s work is like coping with it. All the energy will be released when you get home from work. When asked, are you busy with what recently? You have to answer: [What else can you have? Busy children.] In such a moment, have you ever lost nothing? The article brought by Dr. Clove today is a mother’s thinking. Once, she was immersed in the quiet [trap] of the years. Fortunately, she jumped out of the comfort zone in time. Over the past few years, I have heard more than one mother say such words: think about these Read More …

To my daughter: Thank you for making me a better self,

The child, like an intruder at first, disrupted our original rhythm of life. Later, the child was like a pressurizer again. Let’s learn parenting knowledge and do more efficient information screening at the age of motherhood. Later, the child became a guide, allowing us, who became mothers, to find a direction to stick to. Do you also want to say thank you to your baby? Although babies are not the whole of our life, they do bring tremendous changes to our small days. The article I want to share today is a thank-you letter from my mother to my daughter. The mother said: Life is like a doughnut, with circles and gaps. Fortunately, everything is sweet. This is a thank-you Read More …

Is halitosis a bad stomach?

Halitosis is not a serious disease in what, and no one will die of halitosis. However, halitosis has seriously affected the normal life of many people. For example, good young men and women may lose as soon as they meet… In fact, there are a lot of popular science about halitosis, but many people have not realized that the vast majority of halitosis is an oral problem. Many people’s minds are full of the concept of “stomach fire halitosis”. Halitosis can be seen everywhere in digestive clinics. There are also many doctors who hold the view that Helicobacter pylori causes halitosis. Therefore, I often meet patients with open mouths in outpatient clinics and say: I have an old stomach trouble, Read More …

Whether to go back to work after giving birth is the best answer I have ever seen.

Every mother struggled more than once after giving birth to her baby: Is it work? Or take care of the children at home? Especially at the end of maternity leave, the feeling of reluctant to leave the baby and worrying about work is simply too uncomfortable. Full-time baby? Or return to work? Which choice is better? Dr. Clove invited Dr. Wang Yirui, a doctor of clinical psychology and also a mother, to have a good talk with us on this topic. No matter which choice, we have to face [gains] and [losses] Without exception, I have also seriously considered this issue and want to see the thoughts of women with higher education at home and abroad. Marriage, financial difficulties and Read More …

Simply 3 postures to save your waist

In many popular science articles on lumbago, the previous picture is very popular. This picture is called “waist stress table with different postures”. The little people on the top of the straight bar make different postures, and the numbers on the straight bar indicate the estimated stress value (kg) of the [lumbar intervertebral disc] under the corresponding postures. Most of the data on this map come from corpse research, animal mechanics experiments, in vitro material tests and other methods. Finally, a mechanical simulation model relatively close to the actual situation is established to estimate the mechanical distribution of an undetectable area under different postures. However, the kilogram value estimated in the figure is not accurate, and factors such as posture, Read More …