Tag: Education

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Mom and Dad, this sentence of yours hurts more than beating a child.

The so-called [effective] way of discipline A good friend happily shared with me. Recently, she finally found an effective way to discipline: When a child is not good or wants him to obey the rules, just say to him: [If he is not obedient, he cannot play ball or watch cartoons]. As soon as he hears that these things he likes to do may be cancelled, he will immediately settle down without scolding or nagging. Hearing this, I frowned and shouted: -What a terrible method! If I were a child, I would probably hate this feeling very much and feel betrayed. -How can betrayal be involved? -Because I let you know that I like what best, and as a result, Read More …

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Don’t scold the child in a hurry, the truth may not be what you think.

Before giving birth, we all made up our minds to be reasonable, considerate and patient mothers. However, when we really raised our children, we found that our patience with our children was no longer the same under the pressure of life and work over and over again. Why are you getting dirty again? Why don’t you put away your toys after playing? How many times have I said that I will sue my mother before I shh! … … Seeing the child do something beyond our expectation, the first reaction is why he is disobedient and naughty again. Just like the following story: The bell rang and the children finished school. Mothers waited at the door to pick up their Read More …

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Please don’t say these 6 words when taking care of children.

After taking maternity leave, giving the children to the elderly during the day is the [operation mode] of the vast majority of dual-employee families in China. However, as the little guys grow up, [taking care of children] is no longer as simple as taking care of food, drink and scatter. Babies gradually understand words, can imitate and have their own ideas. At this time, [teaching] and [raising] become as important. Perhaps neither Bao’s parents nor the old people in the family realized that the following six words should be said to their children. 1. Hit the table, who told it to hurt us No matter how careful you are, babies will always fall and bump. After [Mao] ([Burst]), your baby’s Read More …

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Can you put down your cell phone and have a good New Year?

Life is really hard to leave mobile phones, and so is New Year’s Day. If you put down your cell phone, Dr. Clove may not be able to accompany you for the New Year at this moment. If you put down your cell phone, it will be very difficult for relatives and friends who cannot be reunited in a foreign land to spend the festival together. If you put down your cell phone, you won’t be able to take happy photos of your family quickly, leaving good memories. So… At least when eating, put down your cell phone. Don’t play with your mobile phone when eating, you may lose 3 kg during the New Year. Friends who are always used Read More …

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Boy, you are still a little young with your mother.

When mothers have this experience, after the babies grow up to be two or three years old and become eloquent and able to run and jump, the daily life of fighting wisdom and courage begins. Our baby likes to oppose adults, but the wisdom of living for more than 20 years is not for fun. As a hidden [soul painter], I’d like to draw some pictures to show the daily life of our family. It can only be said that it is impossible to be a mother without some [routines]. Scenario 1 ▼ Scenario 2 ▼ Scenario 3 ▼ Scenario 4 ▼ Scenario 5 ▼ Scenario 6 ▼ Scenario 7 ▼ A foreign article with his teammates, ▼ At the Read More …

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Why do children like to lie? In fact, it is the instinct of children.

Researchers in Canada have done such an experiment: They asked dozens of children aged 2 to 4 to play games and asked them not to peek at the toys in the room. When the researchers left the room, almost all the children peeked, but when the researchers asked them if they had looked, most of the children lied. Moreover, the older the children, the higher the proportion of lying. The researchers said that many children begin to lie at the age of two, but this is not a bad thing. Because the researchers also found that lying is highly positively correlated with strong logical, language and executive abilities. Even if age is not taken into account, children with stronger cognitive Read More …

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To take care of children after one year old, we must let the old man know the misunderstanding of taking babies!

Parents often complain about the conflicts caused by the elderly helping to take care of their babies, but parents have to go to work and have no time to take care of their babies. Most of them still have to ask their grandparents/grandparents. Want to ask the old man to share some of the things with her, but feel that all kinds of things can’t be put down? In fact, as long as both husband and wife have the same concept and give the elderly a good shot in advance, grandparents and grandparents can also raise children scientifically with us. What are the misconceptions that old people are prone to have when taking babies? Let’s have a look. This [is Read More …

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Daughter daughter as nanny? This is how New Zealand neighbors educate their children.

Every Sunday I go out with my husband to practice for two hours. During those two hours, the children are looked after by Maya, a 17-year-old girl from the next-door neighbor, who we pay by the hour. This is just one of Maya’s many part-time jobs. She also works as a nanny for several other families and a catering waiter in a nearby stadium. Do you think Maya’s family circumstances are not very good and she is forced to work odd jobs to supplement her family? Wrong! Maya’s father is the owner of a well-known local company. Their house is a veritable mansion with his own swimming pool and tennis court. Why did such a standard [daughter] run out to Read More …

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Is the baby disobedient? Learn these [laziness] tricks, parents take baby more easily

I believe many parents have faced such problems when taking their babies: chasing after feeding, toys all over the ground, overturned cups; However, those who are good and adorable are always the children of other people’s families. In fact, it is not difficult to make the baby [obedient]. The key is to make the baby realize that many things [I will do] [I can do] and use the baby’s sense of accomplishment to promote the development of his independence. Most of the time, treasure parents can cultivate the independence of the baby and create a [obedient] baby through some simple small skills and props. The first skill is to stop eating [chasing after feeding] Children don’t want to eat, every Read More …

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Can how save money by buying clothes for his baby?

In the years when the baby was born, it grew too fast. The new clothes just bought last autumn will not be worn in the spring of next year. Buy it! Baby’s clothes can’t be bought tightly. Although it is a good thing that the baby grows fast, it is also a big expense. However, I have also bought some experience to save money. Let’s take a look at how I saved money on my baby’s clothes. It is best to buy a bigger size. The American Academy of Pediatrics suggests that when buying clothes for newborns, buy a slightly larger size. For example, if the clothes are marked suitable for babies aged 3-6 months, then we can buy them Read More …