Tag: Education

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It’s no problem to want [free-range] children, but there must also be rules.

There are now two words in the parenting circle that are very pictorial: [free rearing] and [captive rearing]. Obviously, these are two completely different parenting concepts. Everyone has basically the same attitude towards [captivity] and has more or less criticism. However, the understanding of the concept of “free-range support” is quite different. Today, I don’t want to give a definition to [free care] or simply criticize or support it. I just want to talk about some of my views when I saw the word. Why are parents so tired? Let’s look at a story first. A pair of precious mothers and fathers are extremely excited about their newborn baby and want the child to be the happiest baby in the Read More …

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Regarding the cultivation of outstanding children, foreigners have summed up these 12 experiences.

Many parents have such a wish: I hope the baby will cause less trouble, perform well and be a sensible [little adult] obediently. However, reality often fails to meet people’s wishes, and perhaps there is no perfect guide to teach parents how to cultivate such a child. Don’t despair first. Psychologists have done a series of studies on the families of some excellent children abroad and found that the parents who have cultivated excellent children do not rely on luck. Most of them have such commonalities. Let the children take on the housework. In daily life, we often hear: Baby, all you have to do is play with your mother and do the housework. Children may not be able to Read More …

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How should parents deal with the obstacles to competition among compatriots?

Why can she go to the movies, but I can’t? ] With the advent of the second child era, such quarrels will naturally resound again. Although the two biological children can be each other’s best playmates, it is almost impossible for them to have no bad blood. On July 13, such a piece of news was revealed: Six months ago, my parents gave birth to a second child and spent a lot of energy to take care of the baby. It is inevitable that I have neglected the eldest brother. From more than a month ago, my 10-year-old sister Xiaojin (pseudonym) began to suffer from various physical problems: headache, vomiting, unhappiness and listlessness. At first, the family took the child Read More …

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The kitchen can also become the second classroom, and children’s creativity can also be cultivated in this way.

In most families in China, it is simply impossible for children to participate in cooking. [The baby is so small, how can they cook? They are making trouble in the kitchen.] [There are so many dangerous things in the kitchen, how dare you let the little baby into the kitchen, in case of injury.] However, in kindergartens and families in Europe and the United States, it is becoming more and more popular for babies to have cooking activities and participate in the production of three meals. Is it really good to let children participate in food production? What abilities can children develop in the process of making food by themselves? Cooking education can develop children’s abilities in many aspects. 1. Read More …

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Waiting makes the baby impatient? Try these little games

I wrote this article because I saw a scene when I passed the customs at the airport: A mother and a 2-year-old child were in line. In order to attract the child’s attention and prevent the child from running around, the mother took a mobile phone in front of the child and kept playing various videos… Each video can’t be seen for 30 seconds, and the child is not interested. He starts to break free from his mother’s hand. At this time, his mother changes to another video. Before long, the child starts to say “hit, hit”. The mother responded, “Do you think you want to hit people, I still want to hit people!” ] Children aged 0-6 years old, Read More …

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Quiet and introverted children can also be winners in life. It is very important for parents to achieve these 7 points.

Many mothers observe whether their babies are extroverted when they are very young. For a long time, there has been such an argument: [children who are extroverted and lively are more conducive to growth, while children who are introverted and shy need to cultivate self-confidence.] At present, most schools and even units are deliberately cultivating extroverted personality. They believe that team cooperation and interpersonal communication all require extroverted personality, and introverts are often considered [shy and conservative]. In fact, a person’s personality is determined by nature to a certain extent, and there is no difference between different personalities. We should not label different personalities with different grades, but should let the child be in an environment suitable for his personality Read More …

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Learn these tricks and teach you to easily improve your child’s EQ.

In addition to a high IQ, every parent wants their children to have a high EQ, especially in interpersonal communication. Indeed, EQ is a key factor in determining whether a person can adapt well to society and communicate with others [appropriately]. So, as parents, how can we improve our child’s emotional intelligence and make him a “social talent”? Today, I’d like to share with you how to improve children’s emotional intelligence from social skills and emotional management in cultivating children’s interpersonal communication. I. Social Skills We all know that good social skills can enable our children to obtain good social relations in the future, and social relations, to a large extent, also affect the future development. So as parents, can Read More …

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Why can Faye Wong, who is high and cold, raise two daughters who are cheerful, sunny and close?

Dou Jingtong wrote a song < > dedicated to his sister Li Yan: For Lola my ear You are lovingly don’t change A pair of half-sisters, whose parents are both big stars, will inevitably be put into the spotlight after divorce, combination and then divorce. The spectators always seem to have malicious speculation, and the sisters’ every move has attracted a lot of discussion. However, it seems that we have never seen rumors of their discord. Everywhere we only see their sweet pictures in the same frame. The love and care flowing in each other’s eyes always seem to overflow the photos. What are the secrets of child-rearing for Faye Wong and Li Yapeng? Love pervades this family. As we Read More …

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When children learn to speak, parents must do these six things.

As a new mother, When I heard the first [mother] cry from the child, The heart must be indescribable joy and excitement. However, as the child grows up little by little, our expectation of him is not just a simple [mother]. When we see the mothers around us talking early and complacent for their children, but their babies are [golden mouth is difficult to open], when the mother’s heart must be extremely anxious. [Why is it that the children in the neighbor’s family are 2 months younger than us and can already communicate with adults without obstacles? ] [Why do children always prefer to express their needs with their body eyes, but do not like to speak? ] [Why is Read More …

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The child beat someone outside. Should we take care of this?

When children play together, there will inevitably be contradictions. When there are contradictions, some children like to solve problems with their fists. Some parents will inevitably feel a little secretly pleased when they see that their children are the beating party instead of the beating party. They feel that it is not easy to be bullied and will definitely not suffer when they grow up. However, is this really the case? You don’t care if your child hits you, the consequences will be very serious. What adverse effects will it have on children if they are allowed to hit them? 1. Poor interpersonal relationship and low social adaptability Missouri State University in the United States in a psychological study on Read More …