Tag: Education

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What about Xiong Haizi hitting people? Three schemes to deal with [the disease]

What if the child hits someone? Severely criticizing education, it seems that the child is still too young to do it himself. Ignore it and think it’s just a child’s unintentional behavior, and worry that he will do it again next time. In the future, his character will become more and more irritable. Faced with this situation, many parents are neither light nor heavy, and it is very difficult. It is quite common for children aged 3-5 (preschool age) to have aggressive behaviors. In fact, from the different attitudes of parents, we can already feel that children aged 3-5 should be treated differently in their aggressive behaviors. Is what expressed behind the child’s attack? How should parents deal with it Read More …

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[Playing Silly] Parents Raise Independent Babies

Perhaps your child is still very young, but one day he will go to kindergarten and receive a series of classroom and social education. In the process of children’s role change, parents will find that their children have various maladjustments and will encounter various problems. Next, let’s talk about the what problems that all kindergarten children will encounter. Differences between Kindergarten and Family Environment Case 1 Penis has been in kindergarten for two months and has good relations with children and teachers. However, when he needs what, he often only points with his hand in a hurry and does not know how to tell the teacher. When the teacher’s help is not what he really needs, he will easily get Read More …

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Can prenatal education make children smarter?

Fetal education, as its name implies, is the education of the fetus in the womb. In order to make their [babies] grow up healthily, [don’t lose at the starting line], many parents have started prenatal education since pregnancy: touching their stomachs, telling stories, listening to music, counting and arithmetic… So… Can prenatal education really make children smarter? Before answering this question, let’s look at the popular [benefits of prenatal education]. 1. Develop the fetal brain? There is no basis. Advocates of prenatal education often say that [the potential of the fetal brain is endless]. They cite the findings of neuroscience research that the number of neuronal synapses responsible for communication increases at birth, peaks at age 3, and then decreases. Read More …

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Is it really so difficult for children to do their homework well?

Many parents find it difficult to understand why their children just don’t like to do their homework. It seems that it is obviously a very simple thing and only needs to be completed on time, but the children are repeatedly procrastinating, full of mistakes and even refusing to do their homework. Many parents explain this as their children are too lazy or do not listen to lectures in class, followed by scolding or attending cram schools. However, the result is often that cram schools are not effective and scolding is ineffective. Homework problem, what should I do? What do parents think of their children’s homework? More than half of the parents who come to me to consult their children’s problems Read More …

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The child said [you rely on what to control me? ] Dad, you were thinking about what?

At home and even all over the world, taking babies is almost always regarded as a part-time job for mothers. From nursing to feeding, changing diapers to coax people to sleep, from playing with them to accompanying them to reading, sending them to and from school, early education classes and interest classes… I saw almost all the shadows of my mother. We are all used to it. But habits are not necessarily good. It’s a holiday, Eva’s father. Do you finally have time to take care of the children for a few days? In our country, compared with mothers, the frequent absence of fathers in the process of accompanying their children makes many children have to experience psychological [partial eclipse]. Read More …

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The Third Mistake of Good Mothers: Labeling Children

Criticizing education is one of the most inevitable problems in daily family education. However, sometimes, parents’ casual words are likely to have a great impact on their children. How to criticize education so as not to hurt children or even have the opposite effect? Labeling has no effect and side effects. Labeled critical discourse is the most common in daily life, and the typical ones are:

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The second misconception of a good mother: regarding love as education

At the parents’ meeting every semester, some parents will use such words as the final reply to me when discussing their children’s problems with me: at this time, their faces are always hung with expressions of expectation and some helplessness. My mood is very complicated about this. Should I tell the parents the truth or let them continue to hold such expectations [waiting]? [Waiting] Is a Wrong Expectation I first heard similar words when discussing the child’s problems with a mother. The situation was that the child made a mistake and was criticized by the head teacher. Parents feel that although the fault lies with their children, But [not at this point], It is wrong for the head teacher to Read More …

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Children have emotional and behavioral problems. Do you know what to do?

Children’s emotions and behaviors are abnormal. I don’t know how to deal with them. There is always a way to stop the soldiers and hide the water from the earth. We all know that children are often very emotional and sensitive, but do you know why? It is because children do not have the ability to understand the complexity of the adult world. At the same time, they also lack the ability to express their emotions and feelings. Does the child’s worsening emotional imbalance keep you awake at night? Don’t worry, looking down, our list of children’s emotional problems may help them get out of trouble as soon as possible. How is the child mood disorder return a responsibility? When Read More …

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One of the Mistakes of Good Mothers: Too Tolerant of Children

There are many things on the Internet like [don’t do this to children], Or the saying that “children can be better if they do more of this”. All want to be a good mother, However, on the way to being a good mother, It is likely that some common mantra, old people’s classics and some [positive energy] on the Internet have gone wrong. Accompanying children to grow up is a beautiful word. But I wish to tell mothers and expectant mothers that, The journey to raise children is difficult, There are many bumps and trivial details, It doesn’t happen overnight. Don’t fail to fulfill your responsibility as a parent in the first place, Give correct guidance to children, He also Read More …

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How to use picture books to help children manage their emotions?

Children’s emotional management ability gradually matures in the interaction with the environment. Reading picture books with children can also help children learn to manage their emotions slowly. Next, let’s take a picture book < < Don’t Let Grey Pigeons Drive Buses > >, which is commonly used in children’s psychological counseling, as an example to see the practical application. The story is very simple. The reader is entrusted by a bus driver to guard his car for a while, with special emphasis on not allowing a pigeon to drive the bus. After the driver left, the pigeon came on stage and tried every means to make the readers agree. This is a picture book about emotional expression, which mainly tells Read More …