Tag: Dating Violence

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Does your pressure come from [dating violence] that we ignore?

Have you ever met such a lover? Leaving you is a torment for him/her. He/she likes to look through your cell phone from time to time, ask who you have been out with, and even hope you can tell him every detail of your life. He/she always likes to order you to do this and that and solve all kinds of life problems for you in the name of [for hello]. Even some important life decisions, such as quitting, changing jobs, making friends, etc. He/she will make you feel embarrassed or even ashamed in front of your friends for various puzzling reasons, and even control what kind of friends you meet and associate with. He/she has a bad temper and Read More …

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Why do some people still find it difficult to leave after suffering [abuse] in love?

In the last article, we listed some abusive behaviors in unhealthy love relationships, and many people can’t wait to ask: I also know that something is wrong with our love relationship, but we just can’t get rid of it. What should I do? “ In fact, you should know that you are not alone in feeling this way. Many people, when they are in an unhealthy love relationship, will have complicated and contradictory psychology, which is difficult to separate from the party who abuses them, which is very common. So, why is it so difficult to get out of an unhealthy relationship? The idea of [leaving] is contradictory and painful. In a relationship, we may have experienced each other’s meticulous Read More …

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If you or your friends are in a [sadomasochistic] relationship, how can you get away?

Earlier we talked about the manifestations of dating violence. Why is it so difficult to get out of such a [sadistic] relationship (you can click to view it separately)? Now let’s talk about how to get out. To get out of an unhealthy love relationship, we first need to understand what a healthy love relationship is like. What is a healthy relationship? A healthy relationship does not have a unified appearance, but it must be made up of these key factors. Step 1 Respect each other On the one hand, healthy relationships are based on mutual respect for each other. Mutual respect can be reflected, but is not limited to: Personal privacy; Personal economic control; Personal freedom. Remember, in a Read More …