Six Suggestions for Parents of Second Child: Help [Dabao] Accept [Er Bao]

With the gradual opening of the two-child policy, the current situation can be said to be that some people are happy and others are sad. For example, the following example is more typical. A Mother’s Question 问题: My son is three years old, and I gave birth to another daughter in August this year. Before we conceived, we did a lot of ideological work for our son, but it didn’t work very well. Without fully doing the work, I was pregnant with a second child. Now we buy anything for our daughter, and our son won’t let us use it. We all say it belongs to him. What should we do? 应对: STEP 1 Hit To be honest, I beat Read More …

Dabao is not good to Er Bao. It’s not that he doesn’t understand. In fact, it’s all the parents’ fault.

Editor’s Note: Not long ago, there was a news report that a 13-year-old girl was extremely capricious because she was spoiled by her family. After learning that her mother was pregnant with a second child, she forced her parents to give up her second child by suicide. In the end, her mother had to choose to have a baby. Although some parents may not be willing to admit it, from the psychological theory of family relations, Dabao’s resistance to the two treasures is the whole blame, but in fact it is still up to parents to bear the blame. This pot is divided into two types: Short-term pot: Parents failed in their communication with Dabao in the event that Dabao Read More …

Why can Faye Wong, who is high and cold, raise two daughters who are cheerful, sunny and close?

Dou Jingtong wrote a song < > dedicated to his sister Li Yan: For Lola my ear You are lovingly don’t change A pair of half-sisters, whose parents are both big stars, will inevitably be put into the spotlight after divorce, combination and then divorce. The spectators always seem to have malicious speculation, and the sisters’ every move has attracted a lot of discussion. However, it seems that we have never seen rumors of their discord. Everywhere we only see their sweet pictures in the same frame. The love and care flowing in each other’s eyes always seem to overflow the photos. What are the secrets of child-rearing for Faye Wong and Li Yapeng? Love pervades this family. As we Read More …

When you have two treasures, don’t say these four words to Dabao.

Over the years since the family planning policy was launched, most of us have become accustomed to the [4 +2 +1] model. After the second child was released, the original family model was impacted. When the originally unique little emperors and princesses met with a second child, how should parents balance their contradictions and conflicts? With Er Bao, what words should not be said to Dabao? You must understand the following forbidden words. Forbidden Language 1: It was the younger brother/sister you agreed to have at the beginning. At present, many parents attach great importance to their children’s education. In order to show respect, some even give Dabao the decision to have a second child. In fact, the child is Read More …