Tag: Children’s Education

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When you have two treasures, don’t say these four words to Dabao.

Over the years since the family planning policy was launched, most of us have become accustomed to the [4 +2 +1] model. After the second child was released, the original family model was impacted. When the originally unique little emperors and princesses met with a second child, how should parents balance their contradictions and conflicts? With Er Bao, what words should not be said to Dabao? You must understand the following forbidden words. Forbidden Language 1: It was the younger brother/sister you agreed to have at the beginning. At present, many parents attach great importance to their children’s education. In order to show respect, some even give Dabao the decision to have a second child. In fact, the child is Read More …

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Children have to learn to solve their own problems in order to have a self-reliant and successful life.

Do you, like many parents, often have headaches due to the following conditions? (1) Children cry, force, unreasonable (2) Children Fight with Small Partners (3) Children do not do homework or do other things according to the teacher’s requirements Many parents may encounter such problems: The child did not behave well and ran into trouble outside. In addition to earnestly educating him that it was wrong to do so, As parents, we have to pay for the mess he has created again and again, apologize to the teacher, apologize to other children, and apologize to the parents of the children. Without face, it is useless to do so. Next time he will still get into trouble, or he will come Read More …

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Does the old man take his child to speak dialect affect his child’s speaking ability?

For today’s three-generation family, it is probably the most common situation for grandparents and grandparents to help with the children. Asking the old man to help take care of the children often requires all kinds of running-in. Take teaching the baby to speak as an example, which makes some parents rather disconsolate. The older generation is used to speaking the dialect of their hometown. Some of them do not speak Mandarin very well, and even some do not speak Mandarin at all. Naturally, they can only speak dialect when taking care of their babies. Although young parents basically speak Mandarin now, there is basically no problem in understanding dialects. However, babies are different. Some adults speak Mandarin and some speak Read More …

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It’s time to enroll the children in interest classes. Which one is better?

Have you been troubled by such questions recently: [I want to enroll my child in an interest class, but how about letting him learn from what? ] I believe that all parents have seen many suggestions like the following in various parenting public numbers or parenting books: When choosing interest classes, you must consult your children. Interest is the best teacher. We must calm down and do not place too much emphasis on the [utilitarian purpose] of textual research and grade examination. We should not use snacks, gifts and prizes to tempt children to persist in learning and cultivate their [internal motivation]. It is strongly recommended that parents follow the class and observe at any time. If they find that Read More …

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[Impulse is the devil], educate children to use the right method,

Although Ding Ma often stressed through articles that in the process of educating children, this method should be avoided, but there are still many parents who firmly believe that “a filial son is born under a stick” and “a child cannot be beaten without success”, believing that beating a child is for the good of the child and to prevent the child from going astray. There are also some parents who, although they think it is not very good to beat their children, still hold them in their arms [they still have to beat them when necessary], or when their children are disobedient, they cannot help greeting them. The most common way for these parents is [spanking]. They think it Read More …

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Children are timid and lack creativity? This is all the harm… … …

[Son, I am doing this for hello. I don’t listen to the old man and suffer losses in front of me! ] As parents, they always hope to use their decades of life experience to make their children take fewer [detours] and embark smoothly on what they see as a [good road]-more money, less things, less proximity to home, high positions, light responsibilities, and a lifetime of ease. Some choices are a difficult road in the eyes of parents, such as [becoming a doctor]-many doctors always sigh with emotion and never let their children become doctors again-but how can we say with certainty that such choices are wrong? How can you predict the situation in a few decades? How do Read More …

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To give children sex education, we must teach them these three points.

In the popular variety show < < Where’s Dad Going 4 > >, a new model of “Intern Dad + Meng Wa” has been added. As guests, the father and children are not real father and son/father and daughter (Zhang Lunshuo Koala belongs to stepfather and daughter), but are actually strange men taking care of other people’s children. As a variety show with a wide audience, even if it is a program, is it really appropriate to arrange children of three or four years old to be called strange adult male fathers and let them eat and live together intimately? This is because it is not ruled out that adults with ulterior motives will imitate the way on TV to Read More …

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Please remember these seven points when playing with western babies.

In the West, no matter babies or school-age children, most of them have playdate–play at least once a week. Usually, the children are taken by their parents to play together in their own or other people’s homes, and sometimes they can also make an appointment in parks and other places. A typical playdate at home has a relatively fixed duration, with snacks, suitable toys and games arranged for children and accompanying adults. Usually there is a tidying-up session attended by all children before the end, more like an informal mini-party. Different from the parties that we often go to classmates’ homes to do homework and find classmates on holidays, western families attach great importance to playdate and even say playdate Read More …

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Electronic products are used correctly, which may be a treasure for children.

Mothers often ask: “What should children do if they are always rushing to play with mobile phones?” Can what’s method be used to correct it? ], there are many similar problems. However, why is the first reaction of parents to correct when it comes to [children’s exposure to electronic products]? At this moment, someone will jump out and explain: Electronic products hurt eyes. Electronic products occupy the time of study. Electronics are addictive. At first glance, electronic products seem to be really heinous crimes. In fact, playing with electronic products is not necessarily a bad thing. Today, let’s redress the grievances of electronic products. Electronic products are a good learning tool. Computers or similar products are very important tools, and Read More …

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Seven Good Habits to Make Children Success [One Step Faster]!

Successful education for children starts with the cultivation of good habits. -Ba Jin If children have only talent but lack good habits, they may miss key opportunities and cannot become winners on the road to success. From children completing jigsaw puzzles independently to arranging their own homework time, the cultivation of good habits is everywhere. Although success is not the ultimate goal of life, success in the secular sense is also a choice to achieve a happy life. It is really important to cultivate good habits in order to make children stand out from their peers. Dr. Stephen Covey was once called [one of the 25 most influential Americans] by Time magazine in the United States. His book “Seven Habits Read More …