Is the quality of life getting better and better after giving birth to babies an experience of how?

Before giving birth, like many expectant mothers, I also thought that the quality of life would plummet, so I welcomed the arrival of the baby with the mood of facing the hardship and tiredness. However, perhaps because the expectations were too low, now my daughter is one and a half years old, and I actually think everything is fine. Next, let’s talk about my story, hoping to give some help to your mothers. Psychological change Step 1 Be more courageous After giving birth to a child, my biggest change is that I am no longer confused, I have more courage, and I seem to have endless strength. I stopped staying in bed in the morning, and even concentrated more on Read More …

April 3, 2021February 3, 2020 bear

Is the child disobedient? Maybe it’s just because you don’t understand [positive upbringing]

Your child is slowly growing up, and suddenly you find that he is not so good. You always say “no” and he is determined to do what he is not allowed to do. Many parenting experts call this stage the “rebellious period of young children”, which is usually around the age of two and a half to three. This time is the germination period of children’s self-awareness. Some parents may use their authority to restrict and order their children, hoping to make them obey. However, there are also some parents who find that children at this stage have valuable independent needs. They are more willing to respect and accept their children’s precious autonomy, give them more choices and guide them Read More …

March 20, 2021February 3, 2020 bear

What should the child do if he has an invisible buddy?

I once saw a super loving French family light comedy < > (Chinese translation: < < Mommy is crazy > >). The movie tells the story of a lovely 7-year-old boy Albert who lost his mother in a car accident. Since then, Albert’s world has had a wonderful friend-Bogus, which only he can see. One day at school, the teacher asked Albert to say a word he knew beginning with B. Albert thought for a moment, looked at Bogus in the corner and blurted out, “Bogus.” When the teacher asked the word “what”, Albert replied, “Friend”. The teacher corrected: “Bogus means” untrue, false, what you think is true is actually false “.” Albert shouted: “Bogus is true! ] This reminds Read More …

March 16, 2021February 3, 2020 bear

Will the quality of life plummet after having children?

At seven o’clock in the morning, He woke up, Naturally, my father can no longer sleep. Waiting on him to dress, brush his teeth, wash his face, play or read in the morning, eat breakfast. While waiting on him to eat breakfast, He asked him how to arrange today. Yes, it is up to him. Although he is only over three years old, he can’t fool him many times. For example, last night he agreed to accompany him to the amusement park today, and at breakfast he asked him how he would go to the park today. He would say, Isn’t it agreed to go to the amusement park, how can words count? Dad has breakfast on weekends, Take a Read More …

January 20, 2020February 3, 2020 bear

Children around the age of two will experience rebellion. Are you ready?

There is a word in English called “terribly two”, which literally translates into “terrible two years old”. This means that when our lovely babies reach the age of two, they often give parents a headache. For example, what has to come by himself. He especially likes to say [No]. He has many ideas and always goes against the parents’ ideas. Most importantly, when the child’s will is inconsistent with the parents’ will, the child often becomes very excited, either stubborn or emotional collapse. As a result, many parents’ emotions also collapsed. Psychologically, this period is called [the first resistance period], which is normal and very important. So, how did the first resistance period come into being? How should parents accompany Read More …

December 8, 2019February 3, 2020 bear

Healthy and nutritious [vegetable omelet] will only take a few minutes to complete the baby recipe.

Good day, start with breakfast. The pace of modern life is fast, parents and friends often don’t have time to prepare breakfast for their children. Today we will make a healthy, delicious and nutritious, the most important thing is fast hand vegetable egg cake, which is very suitable for growing children. So how do you make this vegetable egg cake? It’s really very simple, you just have to follow these steps. Ingredients 1. 100 g flour Option 1: 50g ordinary flour and 50g corn flour (as shown in the figure) Option 2: 100 grams of whole wheat flour Option 3: 100g of ordinary white flour If whole wheat flour is selected, its gluten is relatively low and its nutritional value Read More …

December 6, 2019February 3, 2020 bear

Pillow baldness, hyperhidrosis, cramps… Does your baby need calcium supplement?

Baby pillow bald? Don’t sleep soundly? Sweaty? Cramps? As long as these problems occur to children, many parents feel that this is calcium deficiency and calcium supplement is required. With the help of traditional cognition and various advertisements, many parents are very concerned about calcium supplement. Then, let’s talk about the calcium supplement for children. Does the child need calcium supplement? First of all, it needs to be made clear that healthy children do not need routine calcium supplement. According to the latest 2013 edition < < Reference Intake of Dietary Nutrients for Chinese Residents > >, the appropriate intake of calcium for infants is: 0 ~ 6 months: 200 mg 7 ~ 12 months: 250 mg 1 ~ 3 Read More …

November 26, 2019February 3, 2020 bear

Children love junk food? It was definitely the parents who forced it out step by step.

Eat up all the vegetables before you can eat ice cream after dinner? Take away the chocolate without tidying up the toys? Are you still taking candy, biscuits, drinks, etc. as rewards for bribing children to do [good]? Or as a means of punishment? As a mother of two children, I can honestly admit that this method really works, and children are also very useful. However, as a professional nutritionist, I am responsible to tell you that in the long run, this method is a capital [mistake] for cultivating children’s healthy eating habits, and will offset the usual hard teaching in minutes. It is easy to eat too much calories and grow into a small fat man. It is not Read More …