When children cry, parents with high emotional intelligence will do these three things.

As soon as many parents hear their children crying, they will instinctively be nervous and their hearts will beat faster. They will immediately enter the [fire extinguishing mode] and wish to coax the baby well. Although parents are easy to explode when their children lose their temper, in fact, this is the key time to cultivate emotional intelligence. Why do you say that? We invited 8 years of kindergarten experience and countless Chang Run teachers to analyze in detail. EQ mainly includes the ability to deal with one’s own emotions, the ability to effectively identify other people’s emotions, and the ability to guide one’s next actions. Children over one year old begin to have self-awareness and gradually develop various emotions. Read More …

Whether the baby is sleeping dregs or sleeping gods can be seen at this stage.

There is a kind of collapse, which is called [compared with those who have never slept well, those who sleep backwards will make people doubt life more]. When many mothers talk about their children’s sleep problems, they all mention [sleep retrogression]-babies who have slept regularly, excluding the causes of eating, drinking, pulling and scattering diseases, and suddenly waking up frequently makes people collapse. In fact, this stage of 3-5 months is the first sleep retrogression period in the baby’s life, which determines 80% of the baby’s sleep quality in the future. It is called the watershed between [sleeping slag] and [sleeping god] babies. Today, Dr. Clove invited sleep consultant Zhu Xiaojie to talk about how to deal with this most Read More …

How do office workers relax? Teach you 5 tips for massage

As the saying goes, [the massage is well pressed, the husband comes home early, the massage is well pressed, and the wife smiles beautifully]. Nowadays, there are more and more white-collar workers. Faced with heavy work pressure, office workers are prone to a series of problems such as neck leaning forward, shoulder stiffness, waist soreness and backache. So how can family members massage and relax each other after returning home? Today, Dr. Clove found two younger brothers to be models to demonstrate the daily relaxation and massage movements, and made a set of moving pictures to make the teaching performance more intuitive. The first move is neck massage. I’m afraid this area behind the neck is the pain of many Read More …

Dry goods are coming (Phase 42) How does the baby cough?

The atomization effect is the best for these coughs. Atomization has a remarkable effect on cough caused by asthma, laryngitis, acute laryngitis and other diseases. Especially in the acute attack period of asthma, inhalation of hormones and drugs for rapid bronchial relaxation can effectively relieve wheezing symptoms. If the baby has cough variant asthma, asthmatic bronchitis, increased airway reactivity, etc., atomization is also recommended for treatment. However, for cough caused by other diseases, atomization has no advantage in what. For example, cough caused by simple acute upper respiratory tract infection, even if the cough is severe, I am afraid it will not have a very good effect. Before atomization, parents can do the preparatory work Although there will be no Read More …

Dry goods are here (No.43) Don’t let eating hands ruin the baby’s beauty.

Why does the baby like to eat hands? Baby eating hands belongs to human primitive reflex. The appearance of sucking reflex from the age of 8 months can help the child to suck breast milk smoothly after birth. However, this is only an instinctive behavior, and the child does not realize that he is eating his hand or why he wants to eat his hand. Eating hands is also the exploration demand for growth. For babies aged 4-7 months, the fine movements of their hands develop rapidly. At this stage, they like to explore external things through their hands and mouths. Eating hands can stimulate the baby’s oral cavity, promote its brain development and make the baby smarter. Eating hands Read More …

Dry Goods Coming (No.44) Infectious Diseases in Children Needing Key Prevention

Rotavirus enteritis Most of them are found in infants aged 6 months to 2 years old, and the onset peak is in autumn, so it is also known as infantile autumn diarrhea. The main manifestations are diarrhea, Stool is yellow water or egg pattern, stool volume is large, water is large, frequency is large, generally 5 ~ 10 times/day, severe cases exceed 20 times/day, fever, vomiting, respiratory tract infection and other symptoms are often accompanied by 1 ~ 2 days at the beginning of the disease. A few can develop into severe cases, such as pneumonia, myocardial damage, liver damage, severe dehydration and so on, which can be manifested as poor spirit, shortness of breath, cold limbs, convulsions and so Read More …

Dry goods have arrived (Phase 45). Has your baby been vaccinated with this year’s flu vaccine?

The elderly and children need additional protection The resistance of the elderly and children is relatively poor. Facing influenza, they need additional protection-vaccination against influenza. Influenza vaccine is an inactivated vaccine, that is, a killed virus. Injecting it into the human body will not infect the human body, but also can promote the human body to produce antibodies and resist the invasion of the virus. Normally, the number of cells in the blood that produce protective antibodies reaches a peak on the 7th day after the flu vaccine is injected, and the vaccine begins to protect the human body. After that, when the human body comes into contact with the flu virus, it will not be infected. Does influenza vaccine Read More …

Dry Goods Coming (Issue 46) Baby’s Nose Can Tell You That

White watery nasal mucus Clear water nasal mucus is most common in the early stage of upper respiratory tract infection, both viral and bacterial. This is because the pathogen multiplies in large quantities in the nasal cavity, stimulating congestion and swelling of nasal mucosa, thus secreting more nasal mucus, with the aim of washing away the pathogen in the nasal cavity as soon as possible. At this time, don’t think about helping the baby stop nasal mucus as soon as possible, but try to let nasal mucus flow out and [detoxify] as soon as possible. Yellowish-green nasal mucus There are many reasons for yellow-green nasal mucus, but don’t think it is bacterial infection to give children antibiotics without authorization! Generally Read More …

Dry Goods Coming (No.47) Four Mistakes of Supplementary Food and Vegetables

Myth 1: Vegetables should be cooked rotten In fact, the longer vegetables are cooked, the more nutritional losses will be, and the lower the [color value] will be, the less attractive they will be to babies, so do not cook vegetables for too long. What if the baby can’t chew green leafy vegetables with [tendons] like spinach if they are not cooked for a long time? For such vegetables, it is recommended that everyone use the [oil boiling] method: after a small amount of water is boiled, add a small spoon (about 3 ~ 5 grams) of vegetable oil, put the washed vegetables into the cover and boil for 2 ~ 3 minutes, then cut or cut them up after Read More …

Does not [discharge residual milk] cause cancer after weaning?

Whether breastfeeding or milk powder feeding, mothers have to face a problem: weaning. Dr. Clove has received many questions from mothers: [Don’t drain residual milk on the waist]. It seems that as long as it is a beauty salon or a monthly center, there will be this [chest recovery project]. Under the propaganda, mothers are worried and scared. Do you want to discharge residual milk or not? It is said that breast cancer and mastitis will occur if residual milk is not discharged! If you don’t discharge the residual milk, the breast will block the second child and there will be no milk! I searched the Internet casually and almost scared my chin to the ground: Residual milk = cancer? Read More …