When I was pregnant, my husband wanted to share the same room. What should I tell him?

Perhaps because of the influence of traditional ideas in China, few people will ask doctors for advice on sex during pregnancy, as if it is a natural thing to ban sex during pregnancy. In fact, don’t say at home, even in the West, the number of people who take the initiative to consult doctors in this regard will not exceed 20%. It seems that people all over the world avoid talking about sex during pregnancy. So can we have sex during pregnancy? Next, we will invite Mr. Tian Jishun to tell us about this problem. Sexual desire will change during pregnancy. According to medical literature, most women’s sexual desire will decline during pregnancy, while the decline of Chinese women’s sexual Read More …

Too much sexual experience is worn out? That’s not how cervical cysts come from!

Hello everyone, I am your old friend Dr. Li Shan. As an obstetrician and gynecologist, I hope every woman can better understand her body, know more reliable health knowledge and better protect herself. So I began to write, writing hundreds of answers on Zhihu, with nearly 140,000 followers and 630,000 approval. At the same time, I read nearly 1 billion popular science on other platforms and won nearly 2 million approval. At the same time, I also helped tens of thousands of women to answer their doubts. Today, one of my patients, Linlin, came to see a doctor with a B-ultrasound sheet. It turned out that her physical examination found the cervical sac, because this quarreled with her boyfriend, because Read More …

Baby Toys Recommendation-Ball

Soft, bright small ball, will bring visual and tactile stimulation to the baby. Small-month-old babies can feel the ball by looking and touching, and can also try to throw the ball when they grow up. These simple behaviors can also enrich the baby’s sensory experience. 0 ~ 4 months old At this stage, children’s upper limb strength is not very good, but they may consciously take the ball and throw it away, forming a [throwing] action. Of course, their throwing has no accuracy or purpose. It doesn’t matter, take your time, the baby is trying to coordinate his body. At this stage, the baby will clench reflexively when touching things, and cannot realize the active grasping action. Therefore, the main Read More …

Baby Toys Recommendation-Jigsaw Puzzle

Jigsaw puzzle is a [advanced] game. Identification, splicing, combination, jigsaw puzzle, jigsaw puzzle belong to this seemingly extremely simple but contains infinite possibilities of toys. Children use fine exercises to knead the jigsaw puzzle fragments and put them in the right place, which helps them to exercise their overall spatial awareness. This is a very complicated exercise, using their brains and hands. Jigsaw puzzles are very helpful to develop children’s problem-solving ability, concentration and thinking ability. However, due to the variety, children’s interests, small animals or cars should be taken into account when choosing. The design should be as good as it is. 12 months old The baby at this stage can be simply sensed by touching, looking and throwing. Read More …

Baby Toys Recommendation-Jigsaw Puzzle

The jigsaw puzzle is in the baby’s hand and can be pieced together into various patterns. This is an imaginative game, not just a simple question of fine movements. Pairing, alignment, etc. These are all more advanced skills. In the process of playing jigsaw puzzle, the baby can know what shape can be matched with what shape and how can be aligned, which is helpful for the development of spatial cognition. 13 ~ 18 months old More than one-year-old babies have further developed their minds and bodies in all aspects, begun to understand most of the life scenes, and the development of their brains is also advancing by leaps and bounds. At this stage, the baby’s sense of space and Read More …

Baby Toys Recommendation-Picture Book

Babies aged 0 ~ 6 need direct experience of life and indirect experience from other media. The more experience, the more children know about the world and the richer their imagination. Picture books just allow babies to explore the world without leaving their homes. 4 ~ 8 months old At that time, the baby’s sensitivity to color is improved, and picture books with bright colors and simple lines are filled with a large number of color elements, allowing the baby to [have enough eye addiction]. Babies will show great interest in the colors and contents of picture books. As their understanding of graphics further improves, they will also try to connect graphic symbols with the real world. At this time, Read More …

Baby Toys Recommendation-Ball

The ball can not only be kicked, but also thrown. Babies’ desire for the ball does not seem to disappear, and the rolling and bouncing of the ball is a very interesting phenomenon for them. This kick and throw, by the way, exercise the baby’s athletic ability. 24 months old Babies at this stage have already started to try [kick] the ball. The rolling and bouncing of the ball is a very interesting phenomenon for them. Parents prepare larger rubber balls for their children, such as at least 25cm in diameter, which are easier to kick. This kick and throw, by the way, exercise the baby’s athletic ability. Parents can also play ball-to-ball games with their babies to train their Read More …

Baby Toys Recommendation-Dolls

Dolls are the longest fun companions for babies besides parents. 24 months old At this age, the baby’s gender preference for toys has begun to take shape. Boys prefer model toys that can deform and push around. Girls prefer dolls with beautiful appearance and a certain sense of substitution. Recommended toys: dolls, simulated food, simulated kitchen utensils that children can hold with four fingers, kitchen toys, etc. The babies took these dolls, It will open a magical way of playing-[pretend to play]. Popular, It’s role playing. Babies begin to try to play [pretend games], make more [social] behaviors, and substitute themselves into an illusory and real game. Don’t interrupt children because they feel childish, but try to cater to their Read More …

Are you at high risk of pregnancy? These kinds of people are very dangerous to get pregnant!

Some people say that every mother and child are friends of life and death. Every mother faces countless unknown dangers in the process of pregnancy and childbirth. Especially among them, there are such a group of high-risk parturients who are more dangerous than others from the beginning of pregnancy. What is a high-risk pregnancy? [High-risk pregnancy] refers to the high risk of pregnant women and fetuses, which may lead to dystocia or endanger the safety of mothers and infants. The situation of high-risk pregnancy includes pregnant women suffering from various acute and chronic diseases and pregnancy complications, adverse environmental and social factors, etc. The word may sound horrible, but to doctors, it only means paying closer attention to the situation Read More …

Gray profiteering contraceptive surgery has sneaked into your side.

Hello everyone, I am your old friend Dr. Li Shan. You can call me Sa Jie. As an obstetrician and gynecologist, I hope every woman can better understand her body, know more reliable health knowledge and better protect herself. So I began to write, writing hundreds of answers on Zhihu, with nearly 140,000 followers and 620,000 approval, helping tens of thousands of women to answer their doubts. So today, I would like to talk to you about subcutaneous implantation contraception. The skin-buried contraceptive method in beauty salons does not conform to relevant laws and regulations. Subcutaneous implantation contraception may not be well understood by many women. To tell the truth, subcutaneous implantation contraceptive method is not done much in hospitals Read More …