What kind of person do you want your child to be? Many people have asked me. Once upon a time, my answer was: grow up freely and live as she likes best.
When asked more specifically about how, I would say: There is a craft that can mix food and live happily. Have three to five friends to go to the vast world; Our parents are healthy. As parents, we can walk around smartly without hindering each other and report our trip happily. As well as a person who likes himself, he happens to like him. He is not lonely when he is young and not lonely when he is old.
But now, I would like to say more, I hope you will become a happy ordinary person, live a good life in an ordinary way, live a white-haired life, in your small house, can think of your past young time, think of us who may have left at that time, no regrets, no regrets, all smiles.
I hope you know that you have more skills than mediocrity in all aspects.
Son, I don’t want you to become a master or a top talent, nor do I want you to stand at the highest point and tell others that the real excellence is how’s. I hope you are qualified to make the craft you have valuable in your hands.
Many people say that craftsmanship is always a bit impure when used for eating. It seems to tarnish the original intention and holiness and have a stench of copper. However, as long as the first heart is still there, what’s wrong?
There are many ways to live in this world, just choose what you want.
The old man who has been to the streets of Australia and can do magic did not know that one year he would use the magic he was best at as a child to become his way of life. He said, when everything comes, there is nothing to panic about. I can do magic.
Just like Bill Gates dropped out of school and finally became the richest man, I especially agree that Bill Gates succeeded because he was Bill Gates, not because he dropped out of school. When he was in high school, he could make money by programming. His craft was actually enough to make him not worry too much about his livelihood.
There is a good craft, because you don’t have to rely on whom, don’t have to depend on whom. Perhaps your poise in wandering the Jianghu lies in your craft.
In the education system of the Chinese people, there are still all-round education. I recognize the way to enter a higher school, such as the senior high school entrance examination and the college entrance examination, because this is the only fairest education road at this stage. It is best to be able to learn solidly. If it is really mediocre, it doesn’t matter. After all, people can’t be the same, everyone has his own appearance.
Spending time on things you like is the greatest meaning of your life.
I hope you know that the world does not treat you gently all the time.
Children, the outside world is very big and cruel. Even if everyone has a gentle side, they may not be so gentle to you.
San Mao has a saying to the effect that friends need to be classified. And you also need to classify all the people around you. Some people can be closer to themselves, while others can be farther away. Everyone is courteous, but not everyone must be enthusiastic.
I do hope you have Lin Huiyin’s aura, but I also hope you have Zhang Ailing’s arrogance and San Mao’s idle atmosphere, not to be who, but to land in this world with color and flesh and blood.
When I was eleven or twelve years old, two things touched me very much. One thing was that the girl sitting behind me took my clothes and littered the world. My grandmother bought them for me. I cried there, but she laughed there. Another thing is that the two girls, without my consent, desperately rummaged through my schoolbag. They just wanted to see that there was what in the schoolbag. Then, they poured everything in my schoolbag all over the floor, but I didn’t accuse them.
At that time, the head teacher saw it and she asked me, Why are you so cowardly?
I said, I am afraid they will cry and treat me badly.
She said that the premise for you to love others is to protect yourself first. Later, I learned that many times, we are always too stupid to take care of our emotions, but we keep worrying about others.
In the world, there are all kinds of people, just like someone will come out of the blue without mercy, just like you try your best to take her well, but in the end you are sentimental, just like you galloped across the workplace and found that many people may have knives in their hands. When the knives fall, you must prepare armor.
Dostoevsky’s “Bullied and Insulted” has a saying: Once a person realizes that he is a fool, he is no longer a fool.
And I want to say that once a person sees the world clearly, he knows that gentleness and non-gentleness are the truth and facts of the world.
Therefore, prepare your armor not because you don’t trust others, but to protect yourself. No one may take over your dust and rain, but as long as you protect yourself, you can dry all your blood and tears, live without disappointment and confidence.
I hope you know that loneliness and companionship are the meaning of life.
Son, I don’t think a person must be lonely or live in groups. I just want to say that when a person is lonely, he should have a good life, and when many people are accompanied, he should also have a good life.
Before, I was always worried about being alone. Later, I learned to enjoy loneliness.
We must always be prepared for everything. Perhaps one day, we will only have one person to stay in an empty world. Being alone with ourselves is our ability. A person gets up, a person brushes his teeth, a person makes breakfast, a person goes out to make a living, and when he comes home from work, he is tired to death, only to find that there is no one.
Maybe you didn’t even have a person to talk to at that time. Even your parents who love you most may make you feel unable to tell them your inner anguish.
Try to enjoy loneliness. Read books, watch movies, do something you like, and live a safe day.
It would probably be fine if someone were with you.
You may marry him, live a safe life, and chatter endlessly in daily necessities, soy sauce, vinegar and tea. Or live all over the world, wander everywhere, and then be with him. As long as you are happy, it is good. Maybe there will be children, maybe you don’t want them all your life, as long as you feel happy, it is happiness.
It is best to have warmth, at least give more warmth to yourself, to the people you like, and to everyone you are willing to be cared about and care about you.
Children, I hope you can be a happy ordinary person. [What you are happy about, what you like, what you want] is not to make you selfish, but to make you at least free from the hardships and worries of life, to fly your heart into the vast world and not to indulge in money and power.
Everyone has a different definition of happiness, and I just hope you don’t have to be too rich and have enough food and clothing. Don’t be too gentle, a little sharp; There is no need to tangle too much, there are many things to put down. Don’t be too lofty, be a warm person.