As a new father and mother, I don’t love my baby enough on the one hand, and I have all kinds of worries on the other hand, fearing that I don’t do well enough to delay the growth of my baby.
In fact, this baby raising is also a growth for the novice parents. Today, Dr. Clove will talk to you about the mistakes that the novice parents often make. It is good for everyone to study hard together and correct them in time.
Step 1 Kiss your baby mouth to mouth
There are many ways to express love, and there are also many ways to kiss the baby. To express love by kissing the baby’s mouth directly will only increase the risk of the baby’s illness.
Pathogens are everywhere, and many people may be latent infected. Infants and young children are still weak in various abilities and are more vulnerable to infection. The American Academy of Pediatrics also solemnly suggests that any form of saliva sharing should be avoided with infants.
2. Shave your head in hot weather
People don’t want to be young monks!
Hair is a natural umbrella for children. Even if you shave your small bald head and become a [young monk], it will not have the effect of cooling down. On the contrary, the possibility of sunburn, accidental injury and mosquito bites will increase due to the loss of hair.
3. No matter how hot it is, you cannot blow the air conditioner or turn on the fan for your baby.
Can’t you open it when it’s hot? Open? Then what won’t open it to the baby…
Although the baby is small, they also have all kinds of feelings like us. It is still necessary to turn on the air conditioner properly to reduce the temperature. Generally, it is OK to keep the temperature difference between the air conditioner and the outdoor temperature at 5 ~ 7 degrees.
4. No matter how hot it is, you can’t bare your feet.
You really don’t have to worry about cold from the soles of your feet.
In such hot weather, the baby’s socks and feet are wet. How can mothers bear it?
5. Babies should sleep in the same bed with adults.
Although it is said that sleeping together feels closer, in the long run, children have their own independent space to sleep, which is more beneficial than harmful to children and the relationship between husband and wife.
The advice of the American Academy of Pediatrics is that babies and their parents share different beds in the same room, and the baby’s bed can be placed closer to their parents. Wait until the age of 2 to 4, you can sleep in separate rooms at an appropriate time.
6. Adults chew things for children to eat.
The baby can eat by himself. It doesn’t matter if he eats slowly. It is also a kind of saliva sharing if he chews it up directly. It is really not recommended.
7. Mom can’t nurse if she has a cold.
It is really not recommended to have intimate contact with the baby if you catch a cold, especially not to kiss the baby, but you can choose to wear a mask and wash your hands frequently. Mothers who catch a cold can also continue to nurse.
8. Always feel that the baby lacks calcium and supplements calcium all the year round.
Pillow baldness, late teething, easy waking at night, excessive sweating, unstable walking and low size… These are not manifestations of calcium deficiency! For babies under one year old, normal nursing can meet the child’s demand for calcium and does not require additional supplements.
9. Babies under full moon cannot go out
The outside world is wonderful, and the baby also needs to go out and have a hi…
If you are really worried, pay more attention when going out, maybe the baby will be very happy when going out.
10. Sleep and grind your teeth, and the worms crawl in your stomach?
Many younger children have bruxism, which usually disappears with age, such as when they are about 6 years old, without too much intervention.
11. Diapers are airtight, open-backed pants are cooler, and it is better for children to urinate with excrement.
Open-backed pants are unhygienic, indecent and detrimental to children’s privacy. Is what good?
12. No sleepiness, no sleep
If it is time to go to bed, the baby looks not sleepy, having a good time and having a good time, which may actually be one of the manifestations of excessive fatigue.
It might as well be in a quieter environment, maybe he will start yawning.
13. Never let the baby eat hands
If the baby only eats occasionally and does not bring bad influence to his what, parents need not stop it specially. If it is found recently that the baby suddenly eats hands and becomes serious, parents should consider whether what has increased the emotional pressure of the child.
14. Always think that the child does not have enough to eat and feeds the baby as soon as he cries.
A child crying does not mean he is hungry.
Of course, hunger is definitely an important reason, but it is also necessary to consider whether to change diapers. Is it too cold or too hot? Is the body pressed somewhere? Is the environment too noisy? Did you get bitten by mosquitoes?
The child cried, first find out the reason, and then it is better to satisfy him as needed.
15. Babies must wear more than adults.
Babies within one month can wear a little more, one more layer than adults. For babies over a month old, it is OK to decide how much to dress by touching sweat.
However, the part touching sweat is not the hand or forehead, but the back.
16. The baby has no strength without salt, so salt must be added to the supplementary food.
Before the baby is one year old, all food does not need to be added with any form of salt, including various monosodium glutamate, children’s soy sauce, etc.
Adding salt too early is a burden to the baby’s kidney.
17. Snoring indicates that the baby sleeps soundly.
No matter adults or children, snoring is never as simple as [sleeping soundly].
If the call is slight and uniform, it will not affect the baby’s sleep, and there will be no problem. However, if snoring is caused by some special circumstances (such as curved nasal septum and hypertrophy of turbinate), and it is also an influence on the baby’s sleep, parents should pay attention to it.
18. Leave the baby halfway through the bath.
If you have other things to do when taking a bath, you must hold the baby together and don’t leave the baby alone under any circumstances to avoid accidents.
19. When the baby cries, he does not hug or cry before hugging.
After the baby is born, what the parents need most is care, hug and love, especially for the younger baby, hungry can’t take food by himself, sleepy can’t sleep in bed by himself, excrement and urine can’t handle by himself… It seems that they can only cry…
20. Touch your hands and feet to judge whether your baby is cold or not.
As mentioned above, if you want to know whether the baby is hot or cold, you touch your back, not your hands and feet.
Most cold hands and feet are only a self-protection mechanism of the body, not what’s wrong with the body.
21. Rub your body with alcohol to cool down.
Alcohol wiping the body can really cool the baby, but this practice may make the baby alcoholic poisoning, is it worth it?
22. Pinch your nose to make it stiffer.
If this method really works, should those plastic surgeons be laid off…
If this method really works, what about those who have collapsed their noses?
23. Cut eyelashes to lengthen them
Everyone’s eyelash length and curl are determined by genes, which is life.
24. After six months, the milk is not nutritious.
After 6 months, breast milk really cannot fully meet the needs of the baby’s growth and development, but this does not mean that breast milk will have no nutrition after 6 months. Breast milk is still the vast majority of nutrition sources.
25. Always give your baby boiling water, rice soup and broth.
Nutrition is not in soup, but mainly in vegetables, meat and rice. I am keen to eat these, which is Kengwa.
26. To prevent miliaria, polish pollen, corn flour, ten drops of water and toilet water…
When the baby has prickly heat, the treatment principle is 6 words: cleaning, cooling and keeping dry. There are two main products used: calamine and talcum powder.
27. Babies should use walker to learn to walk.
The walker is just a pleasant name. As early as 2002, studies abroad proved that children who use the walker walk independently later.
In addition, because the baby has no ability to control the movement of the walker, it may also bring other dangers.
Therefore, let’s throw aside what we have already bought and save the money for what we haven’t bought yet.
28. Draw the curtains during the day
No need.
29. Coptis chinensis water can remove [fetal poison]
Does the baby have no what fetal poison and exclude what?
Most babies are visible to the naked eye. The so-called “abnormal” is officially said in medicine. If parents are really worried, they may as well ask a professional doctor.
For example, some babies have greasy, grayish yellow scales on their heads, and some even scab. This is a common skin disease in medicine and is not what’s fetal poison.
30. It is only the mother’s responsibility to take care of the baby.
Taking care of the baby is-
The Common Responsibility of Mom and Dad
Well, that’s it.