Before giving birth, everyone may have kept pets more or less. Even, some pets spend more time with us than our loved ones.
However, when the baby comes, what should the Xiao Mao and puppies that once accompanied us do?
Is it for friends or will it continue to be raised? What kind of choice will you have?
We have received such a reader’s contribution on pets and children.
After adopting pets, the mother became pregnant and gave birth one after another, but she did not give up her puppy.
If you fail to prepare for pregnancy, you simply satisfy your husband’s wish to have a dog.
It still has to start when we planned to have Eva.
We asked for a baby for 7 months, but none of them were successful. The two were nervous and tired. My husband and I discussed it for a while. We don’t want it for the time being.
My husband is a dog control and likes dogs very much, but I have no interest in dogs. In addition, they usually go to work and have no time to take care of dogs, so he has not kept them.
However, under this nervousness of “failure of the baby”, he especially wanted to have a dog to place his expectation on the baby, which took me a long time. For this reason, my husband proposed to give up smoking, clean up and get up as soon as possible.
I finally let go.
I can feel that he is very happy.
Soon, we adopted a 2-month-old Border Collie from a friend, the female dog with the highest IQ. The day after we brought it home, we took the dog for a comprehensive physical examination, similar to the physical examination of human beings. We had to take blood tests, check skin and mouth, prepare a vaccine for the growth period, and regularly carry out in vivo and in vitro deworming.
After a series of physical examinations, the dog had no problem, just a little anemia but the whole was very healthy, so he prescribed some blood enriching drugs and came back to feed them every day.
Husbands who do not like online shopping began to buy milk powder, dog food, molar sticks and insect repellent for dogs online.
After a series of health care homework was finished, it was finally time to name her. The husband said that this is his pet dog, so call it [dog], and said that she would be trained to watch her baby in the future.
Relatives and friends around us all advised us to give the dog away.
I have passed this, but my mother-in-law has had a hard time. My mother-in-law is still supervising our baby.
Dogs have been home for a week, and my husband dare not let my mother-in-law know. Although we don’t live together, my mother-in-law will come back occasionally.
If she doesn’t tell her about the dog in advance, when she finds out, it is estimated that there will be a [fishy wind and torrential rain]. Otherwise, my husband won’t be so afraid of her in this matter.
So I advised my husband to say in advance that he agreed with me, but he didn’t want to say it. Finally, I spoke to my mother-in-law about keeping a dog.
Hearing this, her mother-in-law became angry and said directly:
[You want children! I can’t have a dog! Besides, you also don’t have time, anyway, I won’t help you raise it, and you don’t want to leave the dog with me in the future.]
Although we know that we have dogs and want to postpone having children for the time being, our mother-in-law has not relaxed her supervision over our children…….
On another occasion, my classmate and I made an appointment to see another friend who had already given birth to a baby (the baby has been 6 months old). She knew that we had a dog and cared about it very much. When we entered, we quickly changed our slippers and washed our hands.
I also specifically told her that the dog had been examined and was very healthy, and I had changed clothes when I came. Although she didn’t say what again, I still didn’t take the initiative to hold the baby and kept a certain distance from the baby while playing.
However, during the meal, my classmate finally couldn’t help it and said to me, “Ready to have children or not to have dogs, it’s really bad and unhealthy……”
My classmate’s mother also advised me and asked me to send the dog back to my parents’ home.
After a meal, I didn’t have the chance to explain.
Two months after the dog got home, I was pregnant.
It’s really that people are not as good as heaven. The second month after the dog got home, I was pregnant.
Because there are dogs and dogs, my husband asked me to have a virus test (blood test) specially. The results show that everything is normal and there is no problem. Then let’s continue to keep dogs and dogs.
However, when friends, classmates and colleagues around me gradually learned that I was pregnant and still had a dog, they urged me to give the dog away and said that the dog was not good for the child…….
At some point, I was a little shaken, but my husband was very persistent and sensitive. He always told me what he saw on the Internet, the examples of pregnant dogs and the things about keeping babies and dogs among some dog friends, so I didn’t have to worry.
My husband took good care of the dog and dog. He regularly bathed her, dewormed her mouth, vaccinated her, and wiped her feet and buttocks every time she came back from a walk……
Although I wavered, I have not been embarrassed to speak.
I don’t love dogs, and her feelings are getting deeper and deeper.
Just a few days ago, my husband was on a business trip, and I took care of the dog by myself. I regard this as a task and finish it.
I took my dogs to the large lawn where the dogs gathered in the community, where I met many dogs and their owners.
There are many puppies like dogs here. The owner brought water and toys, just like taking care of a child.
There are also two special couples. They have no children and have two and three dogs respectively. They can communicate well with the dog. The dog also expresses the emotion to his mother [his father lectured him, and he is very angry with his father now]. The mother will come forward to reconcile them.
It’s really interesting. The owner sleeps with the dog at night, just like he regards the dog as his own child.
Although I still can’t understand their love for dogs, I know that I can’t do this to dogs. I am not only responsible for her, but also love her and care for her. She deserves to have such a considerate owner like other dogs.
I have also met some families with pregnant women, babies and dogs, just like me. Knowing the existence of these people, my heart suddenly relaxed.
Gradually, my attitude towards dogs changed.
One month before the expected date of delivery, my husband was on a business trip, and my mother had not come to take care of me (I had not told my mother about the dog), so I took care of the dog at home alone for those two days.
When I came home from work, I walked the dog that I had been holding back for a day. When I came back from walking, I helped her wipe her feet, wipe her body and feed her with water. I couldn’t help eating. I was psychologically unbalanced and had to wait on her first…….
A person should take a bath and go to bed early after eating at home, but after taking a bath, he accidentally fell down… although the fall was not heavy, he still felt very wronged.
The dog heard the sound of my fall and rushed to me. I looked up and saw her looking at me nervously, as if to ask: “does it hurt?” Does it matter? ]
I felt her inner concern and felt much better in an instant. My husband is not at home these two days, and she is also very good.
When my mother came, she was anxious at the first sight of the dog, [why still have a dog? Can I have a dog here? ]
My mother kept urging me to send the dog back to my husband’s house or let her take it back… I knew no, and my husband wouldn’t agree, so she told her what happened during her husband’s business trip.
I said, “The dog is also my companion, and I am not so afraid with her.”
After all, it was my mother, and she didn’t say what either. Let’s do it. He told me to watch the baby and don’t let the dog bite him and catch him. It was a thing of the past…….
Near the expected date of delivery, I went back to my husband’s house to give birth. In order to take care of the dogs and dogs conveniently, I also brought the dogs and dogs back. However, my parents-in-law did not like dogs, and they lost their hair in time for the change of season. My parents-in-law also quarreled with dogs and dogs……
No one likes dogs. I am in poor health and cannot take good care of dogs. Sometimes I forget to pour water for her.
Dogs and dogs also rebelled, eating, picking up tables and digging out soil from flowerpots… because these dogs and dogs were not beaten less by their mother-in-law.
Whenever this happens, I regret bringing the dog back, thinking that I can take better care of her.
After the baby was born, he lived a good life of one baby and one dog.
Later, the baby was born. Surprisingly, the baby is not allergic to dogs.
After the birth of the month, I am ready to take the baby alone. My parents-in-law also tried to do our ideological work. Let’s send the dog to my mother or simply give it away.
My husband is very firm, I also some loathe to give up, so let us.
Fortunately, the baby grew up day by day and showed more and more love for dogs.
Dogs and dogs have always liked this younger brother very much. They always want to take advantage of our inattention to add baby’s little feet and always lie prone in front of the baby’s rocking chair to guard him.
The baby likes to watch the dog lying beside him, or just watch her run around and occasionally feel the dog, but at present the baby is still young and will slowly learn to eat hands and feet, so we still don’t agree that the baby and the dog are so close.
This point is still matched by dogs and dogs. Even if they lie prone beside the baby’s rocking chair, they keep a certain distance so that the baby cannot reach it.
My husband often goes to work, and I basically take my baby and dogs to play in the community. The babies who are still in their infancy all like to watch dogs and dogs, and the parents will hold the baby to watch.
Several parents envy that we can have babies and dogs at the same time, because they and their children like dogs very much and come to play with dogs every time.
One day when my husband left work early, I pushed the baby and the dog to meet him at the gate of the community. He said he felt like a star.
My husband and I said that the dog is very good. When I am at home, the baby sleeps and I cook. If the baby wakes up and I can’t hear, she will go to the kitchen to find me. If the baby cried, the dog was more anxious than I was, and rushed to the baby’s bedside to watch.
If someone knocks at the door or the phone rings and I don’t respond, she will come to me and be regarded as my qualified little assistant.
Although there is no scientific proof that dogs and babies cannot live together, As we all know, many families abroad have dogs and babies together, However, I know that there are still many people who cannot accept the baby living with the dog. There are still many children who beg their parents to raise a puppy no matter what. The parents will not agree. I also know that many families with dogs have given up on them because of the arrival of the baby.
However, for us, dogs and babies are both our good children. Dogs and dogs are very special to accompany babies. She will become the closest partner of babies and will also teach babies love and responsibility, loyalty and selflessness.
Therefore, no matter what others think, we will take good care of the dogs and babies. We also hope that every angel baby will have the care and companionship of the dogs and have a happy childhood.