Mothers probably have a common understanding that there are always people around them who keep saying:
Why are you still wearing diapers? You’ll have a red ass!
How expensive diapers are! Piss can save a lot of money!
The sooner a child learns to urinate, the easier it is to take it.
How can there be so much harm? Didn’t you always bring it here when you were a child?
Yes, yes, it has always been our old tradition to urinate with excrement, but is the old tradition necessarily right?
Today, let’s have a good talk about how bad it is to turn excrement into urine.
Putting excrement into urine is not conducive to children’s physiological development.
The standard posture for excrement and urine is as follows:
- Big hands hold the child’s two thighs and open them in a splayed shape, revealing their private parts. Let the child’s hips and waist rest on his stomach; With the [hush-hush-] or [hmm-hmm-hmm-hmm-hmm-hmm-hmm-hmm-hmm-hmm-hmm-hmm-hmm-hmm-
According to the Internet, urinating in this posture will lead to children’s rectocele and anal fissure. In fact, there is still some controversy over this statement. For the time being, there is no relevant research and evidence to prove that the two are indeed related.
However, modern science has proved that giving children excrement and urine too early will indeed hinder the formation of children’s consciousness of autonomous defecation.
Children learn to control urine and defecation, which is a gradual process. He must be able to sense urine and defecation before he can coordinate his muscle tissue to control defecation and urination.
However, children usually have to be about 4 years old before they can learn to control their defecation and urination skillfully.
Many parents are still quite proud of their children’s ability to urinate at once and feel that their children are [taking the lead].
This is really nothing to show off. Children will defecate and urinate on their own sooner or later, and diapers will not save much money. Besides, children who urinate do not choose to excrete according to their own urination intentions. It is only a conditioned reflex made according to adults’ actions and hisses.
Accustomed to urinating, children can’t feel the filling of bladder, so they won’t learn to control it by themselves. When they grow up, they will easily habitually hold their urine and even wet the bed.
Just like many adults, when they hear the sound of “shh-shh-shh” again, they still feel full of urine. This is the profound influence left by excrement and urine when they were children.
Putting excrement into urine is not conducive to children’s psychological growth.
1. Causing children to lack security,
Children have the right to freedom of excretion. During what, children rely entirely on their own will to pull urine. Adults’ forced training will make children feel insecure and feel [waiting to be called] at any time.
2. Destroy the child’s concentration
Most of the time, adults give their children excrement and urine out of a kind of pre-judgment psychology-it’s time to pull it, regardless of whether the children are doing what, and pull it directly.
Maybe the child is concentrating on building blocks, maybe he is socializing with his friends, so his concentration is roughly interrupted, and it is difficult for the child to concentrate again.
On the one hand, parents hope to cultivate their children’s concentration, and on the other hand, they destroy their children’s concentration with [kindness]. Isn’t this contradictory?
3. It is not conducive to the establishment of children’s privacy awareness,
The excrement and urine, the general partner is open-backed pants.
Many parents will think that their children are breathable and cool in open-backed pants. However, open-backed pants will not only pollute their children’s private parts, but also easily hurt them.
The deeper harm is not conducive to the establishment of children’s privacy awareness.
Some parents said: [What do children know when they are so young? ]
Wrong! Children around the age of 2 can distinguish between men and women, and people around the age of 3 have begun to have the concept of privacy.
Exposing the child’s private parts at will will make him not pay attention to privacy protection. Today, when child sexual abuse cases occur frequently, it undoubtedly creates opportunities for criminals.
Is this really what we want to see?
Putting excrement into urine is a social issue related to civilization.
It is a private act to urinate with excrement, but we often see in the news that so-and-so parents urinate with their children in public, thus being criticized and rejected by the surrounding masses. Buses, subways, restaurants, parks and grasslands… are really pulling whenever and wherever they want.
Giving children defecation and urination anywhere in public places exposes not only low literacy but also lack of public morality.
Parents can not abandon their children’s excrement, but not everyone can accept it.
Some people will say: children can’t help but be young!
-Isn’t a pair of diapers solved?
Others said: Just take a urine, as for?
-Can’t you walk a few more steps to the toilet?
In order to make it convenient for children and themselves to be labeled as [uncivilized] [dirty] and to be looked down upon by all eyes and eyes, why?
Follow the child’s wishes and stop peeing with excrement.
The child is not a pet, he is an independent individual.
The child cannot speak, but it does not mean that he has no feelings or thoughts.
Parents should give corresponding respect to children, even infants who are babbling.
Whether pulling urine or poop, it is a natural process. To teach children to go to the toilet, they can wait until they are 1.5 years old. There is really no need to [promote the growth of seedlings].