In modern society, Most of the children are [little emperors] [little princesses] in the family. Self-centeredness is a common condition for children. Many parents worry about their children before they enter the kindergarten. The child left the care of his parents, I can’t take care of myself. I met Niu Niu during my home visit before entering the park. He is a warm little boy. But Niuniu is going to kindergarten. I found that he was still drinking water at home with a water bottle with a sucking mouth. I asked Grandma to learn that Niu Niu’s parents were busy with their work and were mainly taken care of by grandparents. As a result, the children [like how and how]. This kind of phenomenon is mostly caused by the following reasons: there are many phenomena of “helping to take care of children from other generations”, the elderly are easy to dote on their children and lack correct guidance; The only child enjoys exclusive treatment at home, and the parents do not teach him in time, resulting in the child’s lack of awareness of sharing. [Arrangement] is a serious phenomenon, Many parents will do what their children can. Many parents worry that they usually have little education. When I get to kindergarten, I can’t always be with my children. Afraid of delaying the development of the child. In fact, Observe children with care and tolerance, This is the right first step. Don’t be afraid that the child can’t do it well. Trust and encourage children. Before entering the park, Parents can prepare from these six aspects. Parents can refer to the following points to cultivate their children. Help children adapt to the collective life in kindergarten. 1. Teach children to be polite. When guests come to the home at ordinary times, The child can be prompted to say hello to the guest. Encourage children to speak boldly to others. 2. Cultivate children’s awareness of sharing. Parents can cultivate it through a few small things. For example, let children take out their favorite snacks to eat with their families, Invite the children from the neighbor’s house to visit, Play with toys together. 3. Learn Basic Life Skills Children use small spoons and cups to eat and drink in kindergartens. Therefore, parents can teach their children to eat with spoons first, Do not rely on cups, suction nozzles, straws, etc. 4. A typical example of encouraging children to express their ideas is, In the collective life of kindergarten, When the child wants to defecate, Tell the teacher. Parents usually teach their children, Dare to ask for help and how to ask for help in case of difficulties. 5. Tell your child the situation in kindergarten in advance. When your child first arrives in kindergarten, he will feel fresh because of the new environment. Often they don’t obey the order very much. Parents can tell their children in advance that kindergarten life is how, Let children know the basic rules. 6. Communicate actively, It is an important part of kindergarten work to cooperate with teachers’ work [home and kindergarten] communication construction. When parents have problems, they can actively contact teachers. Teachers treat every child equally. But also to help parents, Promote the growth of children. After entering the park, The teacher will take these six methods. When the child carries the small schoolbag, Parents will certainly be happy for their children to go to school. However, children and parents will also have [separation anxiety]. Kindergarten teachers usually adopt the following methods. Alleviate the uneasiness of adults and children. 1. Prepare for children in advance. Teachers will make home visits before entering the park. When meeting for the first time, they will take the initiative to greet and communicate with their children, Close the distance with children, Simplify the feeling of strangeness. 2. Soothe children’s uneasiness. Children will be anxious, agitated and agitated because they leave their families. Crying incessantly, At this time, teachers will hug the children. Then use toys or games to attract children, Give children more security, Let them like kindergarten. Special hint, Some parents saw their children crying seriously after sending them to kindergarten, I feel sorry for my child. I can’t help worrying about it. So he looked aside. In fact, this is very unfavorable for children to adapt to collective life. This makes it difficult for children to stay in kindergarten at ease. Parents should learn to let go. Trust children, Trust teachers, Reduce or stop this kind of behavior. 3. Let children help each other. Teachers sometimes adopt the method of “big with small”. Let older children help younger brothers and sisters, It can also eliminate children’s uneasiness. At the same time, Children can also learn some communication skills, Such as sharing, taking turns, humility, etc. Learn to play and get along with each other slowly. 4. Learn Basic Life Skills Teachers will teach their children how to hold spoons correctly hand in hand. Prompt children to drink more water, Teach children to use ordinary cups. When the children first arrived at kindergarten, Teachers often prompt children to go to the toilet, This will help them learn to express their requests. 5. Consolidate the results. After about a month or so, Children’s crying will be reduced, Gradually adapt to kindergarten. Teachers will remind parents to continue to encourage their children to attend kindergarten at home. Such as praising children for their bravery, seriousness and rapid progress, Teachers will also work with parents to cheer up their children. During holidays, Teachers will advise parents to try their best to ensure that their children’s work and rest rules at home and at school are consistent, If let the child take a nap, prompt the child to drink more water, at night to suggest sleep, Don’t wait too late. 6. Keep in touch in various ways Teachers will keep in touch with parents and children through parent-teacher meetings, home visits or the Internet. Know the situation, Communicate parenting methods. Summarize that learning to adapt to collective life is the only way for children to grow up. Kindergarten can provide a good living environment for children. When children are at home, parents should also let their children [do their own things] as much as possible and conform to the development law of their children’s age. Parents should learn to [let go], trust and encouragement to make children grow up healthily and happily.
