After returning home during the Spring Festival, the child will be in a completely different diet, play, travel and social environment in peace. Mothers can know the following precautions in advance to ensure the safety of the baby!
For this reason, I prepared a guide to taking my baby home during the Spring Festival in the form of questions and answers.
Q1 Meng Ma, what are the main behaviors of relatives and friends during the Spring Festival?
1, the family should kiss the baby
Due to the low immunity of infants, the spread of germs may be caused during skin contact and mouth-to-mouth contact. In the Spring Festival of 2017, a grandfather had a pustule on his chin, in which Staphylococcus aureus infected his grandson during kissing, resulting in the tragedy of his death.
Suggestion: Teach your baby how to fly kisses.
2. If the child does not want to perform,
Don’t feel ashamed or even punch and kick your child if you don’t come to a live performance. On the contrary, if your child already has a strong desire to perform and hopes to be recognized by more people, it is a valuable opportunity for him to get exercise in front of strangers.
Suggestion: Respect the wishes of children, encourage them, but do not force them.
3. Avoid excessive jokes
There is no better way to punish people than to punish one’s heart. Language is the most powerful weapon to hurt people. [Your mother doesn’t love you anymore] [Your father was even more bear when he was a child]. These words, which seem to relatives and friends as [fun] [teasing children], are very destructive.
Suggestions: Rehearse in advance, stop in time and explain in time.
4. Pretend to want something
Many relatives and friends will pretend to ask their children to share things, and after doing everything possible to get their children to agree, they will say that they are only joking, but in fact they don’t. Regardless of the self-centered children before the age of 3, there is no need to force them to share. To say that the child shared and was rejected is actually disrespect for the child.
Suggestion: Teach children to share in advance; If the child shares the adult but does not want it, he can take it away or eat it himself, making the child’s sharing behavior a reality.
5. Candy Temptation
Relatives and friends often stuffed their children with sugar in handfuls to show their love and enthusiasm. However, if you often eat sugar and do not brush your teeth in time, you are prone to tooth decay.
Suggestion: Carry a toothbrush with you and brush your teeth in time after eating. Or negotiate to eat only 3 sugars a day.
6. Advising Babies to Drink
Many elders will also vomit-inducing toasts to their children and even dip chopsticks in white wine to feed babies who are not yet full moon.
Children in the growth and development period have imperfect liver and metabolic functions, and their tolerance and decomposition ability to ethanol in alcohol are much worse than those of adults. Even alcohol with lower degrees, such as rice wine, is easy to deposit in the body, causing poisoning.
Once alcohol is excessive, it will also affect the child’s brain development and even lead to coma and even death.
Suggestion: Reject any vomiting-inducing toasts or tasting wine for children.
Q2 Meng Ma, what behaviors do children need to pay attention to during the Spring Festival?
1. Speak dirty words
Hearing elders say dirty words and playing with other older children, children may also learn to say dirty words. If parents react strongly at this time, they will only find it fun and say dirty words over and over again.
Suggestion: Ignore it first and don’t overreact. For older children, the pros and cons can be known.
2. Crying
After returning to their hometown, it is easy for children to cry when they encounter a little thing. They know that their crying will soften their grandparents’ hearts, thus achieving their goals, they will repeat the same trick over and over again.
Suggestion: Take him directly away from the scene in the first place, then help him calm down, and then let him express his needs in words instead of crying to achieve his goal.
3. Conflicts between Children
Many parents generally adopt [forest law], that is, children are allowed to coordinate minor conflicts. However, it is better to stay away from each other and their parents when they are both outrageous.
When a child asks you for help, he must find out the reason before dealing with the problem. The key to dealing with the problem lies in flexibly meeting the different needs of children, instead of just heckling each other.
As for the problems between good friends who often play together, parents can use the method of “stop playing if they quarrel again” to let them form a community of interests and discuss how to solve the problems themselves.
4. Turn things around
When children are not aware of real rights, they may take things and money without permission. However, intentional acts should be stopped in time. Once Xiong Haizi was directly claimed 200,000 yuan for smashing the hands of relatives.
If the child turns over things in disorder, he may swallow magnets, medicines and other very dangerous items by mistake. Therefore, we must repeatedly urge and watch the child!
5. Stay away from the danger of playing.
Stay away from fireworks and firecrackers, wild cats and dogs without ropes, balloons that can float on their own, busy and dangerous kitchens, rooms with many sharp corners, high floors with inadequate protective measures, etc.
If cats catch dogs and bite, rabies vaccine should be vaccinated in time. Scalds and bumps also need to be handled correctly in time. For example, after scalding, you should rinse with running water immediately and go to the hospital as soon as possible. After the injury, ice should be applied immediately and observed for 72 hours. If the child is found to be mentally ill, he should seek medical treatment immediately.
Q3 Meng Ma, what should parents pay attention to during the Spring Festival?
1. Social etiquette
[hello, goodbye, thank you, I’m sorry, it doesn’t matter, please], these civilized and polite expressions should be taught to children by word and deed at ordinary times. Don’t whisper when eating, don’t sneeze at people or the dining table, and don’t directly grab the food on the table with your hands. Attention should also be paid to this kind of dining table etiquette.
2, Pay attention to keep warm, prevent frostbite
In order to make children wear warm clothes, it is better to wear several layers of thin clothes than only one layer of thick clothes! Generally speaking, babies over 6 months old and young babies should wear one more layer than adults.
When going out, be sure to wear warm boots, gloves, gloves and hats for children.
If frostbite occurs, take the child indoors as soon as possible and put the frostbite part in warm (not hot, not more than 40 ℃) water. You can also gently apply a warm towel to the frostbite nose, ears and lips.
After a few minutes, dip the child’s frostbitten area dry and give him some warm things to drink instead of rubbing or rubbing the frostbitten area!
3. Stay away from the game hall
Today’s game halls are all disguised as amusement parks. Coins can be used to play fishing, duck fishing and other games, but next to them is just like a game hall for adults to play!
Some pictures are really not suitable for children to watch, such as shooting, head shots and bloody first-person perspective games. There are also all kinds of noisy games.
4. Diet
Don’t spit out the food after chewing and feed it to the baby. Don’t feed the baby large nuts, whole grapes and whole balls. Be alert to drugs and chemicals like candy. Don’t give the baby sharp food during the journey. Don’t expose the baby to second-hand smoke or give the baby any food that may cause allergy.
5. Travel
Children less than 1.4 meters tall must use safety seats. Five-point seat belts, the middle lock catch should be placed in the middle of the chest, flush with the armpit; The tightness should be as good as one finger can be put into the gap.
Be careful not to let the child wear down jacket to sit in the safety seat. The child may slip out of the seat in case of accident.
When going to crowded occasions, pay attention to wearing masks for children to prevent the spread of germs.
These are all the matters that need to be paid attention to when taking her home during the Spring Festival.