There are about 800 Nobel Prize winners in the world, more than 20% of whom are Jews. In the Forbes Wealth List in 2015, 20% of the top 50 are also Jews. You know, Jews, as an absolute minority, account for only 0.2% of the world’s population. It is amazing to achieve such an achievement. After a lot of observation and research, the academic circle has discovered the secret of Jewish education, namely Haywata.
Is Havata what?
All early education emphasizes, We must communicate more with our children, Much interaction, This stimulates brain development, Connecting nerve synapses, Improve parent-child relationship, Simply put, Haywata is chatting with children. However, Haywata is consciously chatting, discussing a certain topic with content, logic and purpose. It regards children as equal individuals in communication, pays attention to listening and encourages expression. From the perspective of language acquisition, the information arrival rate is very high, and children’s harvest is especially great.
Can Havata Bring what to Children?
Haywata is a kind of chat learning method that pays attention to the child himself, conforms to the child’s current ability, and promotes the child to develop to the next stage. Can such [chat] bring what to the child?
Better language skills
Children are exposed to their mother tongue from birth, Starting from the recognition of sounds, they are constantly absorbing language, so children can understand more language than they can speak. The basis of language ability improvement is language input, more input will have the opportunity to trigger more output, and more efficient output will come from more feedback and more practice, which are all related.
Stronger social ability
Haywata emphasizes the communication and learning between people. Everyone is a book. In the turbulent era when Jews are suffering from war, their education still maintains a high standard, which is inseparable from the idea of learning from others. The current experience of people, coupled with the accumulation of historical wisdom, makes Jewish children take a wider path.
Better self-expression
Hayvolta emphasize listening and express, It encourages children to express their views bravely, There is an equal dialogue between parents and children, that is, children who have received Havotta education since birth have many more opportunities to practice expression than other children. This is not only conducive to the development of children’s language and intelligence, but also easier to become leaders after entering group life.
How to do Havotta with children?
Listen patiently and express from the points of interest to children.
Children who hear more and speak less in infancy will still react slowly. They need more time to think, search for words and organize languages. It is recommended to wait 5-10 seconds when children need to respond and 20-39 seconds when children need to answer questions.
When talking to children, We hope that he can receive as much information as possible and reduce the loss of information. Therefore, in the expression in the dialogue, he should pay attention to the amount of information conveyed and give one new thing at a time. Discussions starting from children’s daily life are easier for children to accept, and discussions starting from children’s interests are more willing to go deep.
Dialogues that fit the theme and consciously extend questions.
Early children have insufficient vocabulary and knowledge, It is difficult to express opinions on specific topics, This is very normal, we can also follow him to discuss other topics, do not need to think about our own topics all the time. Asking questions is a good way to integrate ideas. Conscious questioning can subtly give children a global view of the problem, which is also the reason why parents should guide from a higher dimension.
Pay attention to multiple dimensions of events and cultivate the ability to solve problems.
Children themselves can easily use their own experience and understanding to see things, while truly mature thinkers can consider all aspects of the whole incident and discuss different perspectives of different people with children in the dialogue, which is of great benefit to the development of their social ability.
Allow children to solve problems creatively. Even if children’s ideas seem absurd, don’t judge them by what adults call right or wrong. Give children the opportunity to see the different consequences of language and strategy. Language discussion is always metaphysical. Only when children see the consequences of language can they have a deeper understanding of experience.
Expression, attempt and verification are one by one. If you want your child to grow up, you must do every link. The process is far more important than the result. Upgrading your thinking in the discussion is the best harvest for your child.
The important thing for Havotta is to stick to it
Havotta education is not a new topic, Behind it is the parent-child relationship, careful companionship, patient support, And it fits parents’ intuition very well. But the idea is easy to say, Specific to the actual practice day by day is difficult, the secret of the Jewish people’s large-scale success, I think there is one more thing that everyone has not said, that is, the parents’ persistence. No matter how good the method is, it cannot be compared with the parents’ persistence. When you start to persist and persist, the child will win at the starting line.