The story of recollection starts from the hometown where [I] lived before I was three years old, which is a small city in Japan, Xiaocang.
One night, I was suddenly awakened by my father who broke into the house drunk. Dad pushed away to try to protect my mother and forced two bunches of roasted chicken skewers into my mouth.
In my mind, this is the only short and happy memory of my father, mother and childhood.
Shortly after that, my mother left my alcoholic father and took me back to Zhufeng’s hometown at the age of three.
Although life is hard, my life has never lacked the maternal love that my mother cares for me-
For me, I worked hard in my aunt’s shop. For me, my mother gave up the chance to fall in love with an uncle again.
For me, my mother always sets the alarm clock and gets up in the middle of the night to stir rice bran so that I can eat delicious pickled pickles in the morning.
For me, my mother insisted on moving out of my grandmother’s house after I went to junior high school.
I grew up in my mother’s meticulous care, but from time to time I would sneak to my father’s place during school holidays.
Once my father helped me make a model of the boat but refused to fill it with colors. Although I don’t understand why, it was the time when I thought he was most like my father.
At the age of 15, when I was rebellious, I finally left my mother for boarding high school.
On the train, I opened the luggage my mother had prepared for me and found new underwear and lunch boxes inside, and an envelope with 10,000 yen in it.
Eating the rice balls and pickles made by my mother, tears poured out uncontrollably.
Now, I am about to leave my mother and start a new independent life.
High school youth was squandered doing nothing. I was about to graduate when my father suggested and my mother supported me to take an examination of a university in Tokyo to study fine arts.
I came to Tokyo with dreams and dreams, but I still don’t understand the hardships of my mother making money for my school. I lived in Tokyo’s college life for four years and lost myself. Until one day, I had to admit to my mother that I was just loafing around in college, and I couldn’t finish my career if I went on like this.
I hope to hear my mother blame my voice, perhaps it can make my heart feel better, but my mother just read it softly and repeatedly, why not work harder?
In the end, my mother said to me firmly:
If you repeat the grade for one year, Mom will work hard. You must read well until you graduate.
One day, I called my mother again to ask for money, only to learn that my grandmother was seriously ill and my mother had thyroid cancer and went to the hospital for surgery.
My grandmother’s death and my mother’s illness made me suddenly realize that if I continued to do nothing like this, I would not be able to prevent the most precious family affection from passing by.
So I began to work hard. Not only did I gradually pay off my debts, rent a new house, publish a book, but I also made a new girlfriend.
My mother has worked hard for me for half her life, and now it is time to take her to Tokyo to enjoy happiness with us. Fifteen years after leaving my mother in high school, we once again lived together in a mixed building in Tokyo.
Different from before, my girlfriend and friends gathered here together to eat the dishes cooked by my mother.
I also took my mother and girlfriend to see the Tokyo Tower and promised to take them to the top once.
This is the first time since I came to Tokyo that I feel happy every day.
However, the happy time is always short, and the results of my mother’s cancer reexamination come out. On the way to the hospital for treatment, I took my mother’s hand for the first time.
When I was young, my mother took my hand and walked in the streets, streets and railways for fear of losing me.
Now holding my mother’s hand, I just understand how precious this maternal love that has always accompanied me is to me, and I hope that holding my mother’s hand will never let go.
However, the pain of treatment was beyond our imagination. In the end, my mother and we chose to give up treatment and let her spend her last time in the ward of Tokyo Hospital.
There are me, my father, my mother’s sisters, my girlfriend and friends here. Although they are in the ward, they always radiate the warmth of home.
On her deathbed, my mother still remembered me and my father. My mother has been paying for me all her life. Now, she can finally stop worrying about me.
Life is just like this, the bland majority, occasional misfortune, and little happiness mixed.
The love of my mother in the movie continuously permeates and moistens [me] bit by bit. When I was about to lose it, I realized how happy I was.
But at this time, he had no time to do any more what for his mother, and even his promise to take his mother to the top of the tokyo tower would never be realized.
Why don’t you take advantage of the moment to enjoy family affection, friendship and love and cherish everyone around you?
In the movie, my mother died of thyroid cancer. Cancer is also the second leading cause of death in China. Therefore, effective prevention and early detection of cancer are particularly important.
Dr. Clove has been sharing some knowledge about health with everyone. One thing has always been stressed, that is, as you get older, you need to pay more attention to physical examination.
Cancer screening is the examination method for finding cancer or precancerous lesions before symptoms appear.
Physical examination
Through observation and touch, check whether there are masses and abnormal lesions in specific parts.
For example, doctors can screen for breast cancer by touching breasts and armpits, and for rectal cancer by touching the inner wall of rectum in anus.
Imaging examination
During physical examination, tissues and organs inside the body can be examined by X-ray films, B-ultrasound or CT.
Simple X-ray films and B-ultrasound can basically be used to screen five common tumors: lung cancer, gastric cancer, esophageal cancer, liver cancer and rectal cancer. Esophagogastroscopy and colonoscopy can not only visually see lesions, but also obtain biopsy.
Detection of tumor markers
Tumor markers are secreted by malignant tumor cells, or a kind of substances produced by the body’s reaction to tumors. These substances exist in tumor cells and tissues, and can also enter the blood, so blood can be drawn to find them. Generally, they are mostly used for screening high-risk groups, and it is not recommended that ordinary people do such tests routinely.
Some tumors also have special examinations. For example, cervical smear and HPV examination can help detect cervical cancer at an early stage.
In addition to regular physical examination, the cultivation of healthy living habits is also of great significance to the prevention of cancer.
Tell close relatives and friends around you to form good living habits and enjoy life.
With those who love each other, it is actually a very happy thing to experience the happiness in ordinary days healthily.