Before becoming a mother, many mothers always [left ear goes in and right ear goes out] when they heard three aunts and six grandmothers nagging about all kinds of parenting troubles and secrets. However, after becoming a mother, they found that some words really made people want to turn against each other every minute. It was not that we were too stingy, but that these words were really too [poking the heart]! And you must have heard of it!
Today, Clove’s mother invited a mother to speak (vomit) and (trough) her most annoying words.
[Your milk is not good]
As for the bad worries about breast-feeding, almost every mother can write a history of blood and tears that is not heavy. Together, it is estimated that she can circle the earth 180 times!
Eva’s milk is not good for anything. Eva cried and the milk was less hungry. Eva woke up in the middle of the night, milk thin no matter full; Eva has eczema and diarrhea, which is caused by your eating at sixes and sevens. Keep milk, baby stick mother is not good, weaning, so young have no milk to eat how shameful…
My mother-in-law, mother-in-law, mother-in-law, aunt and aunt next door, please, can you not pay attention to my milk! Am I easy? Me!
Since I became a [cow], my body has long become a floating cloud, and I try my best to eat every day for fear of insufficient milk. Nipple mastitis, with tears and no medicine to continue to carry; Eva milk more than a dozen times a night, no matter how sleepy she is, she has to struggle to get up at night. I have to pinch my watch to suck milk at work, and the leaders look at me with plays in my eyes…
And these efforts were easily erased by a sentence [milk is not good]? !
This sentence is simply stabbing the hearts of these breast-feeding mothers. No matter whether or not they are fed or how they are fed, the baby and the mother are the two people who have the most to speak.
Imagining that [milk is not good] is the biggest denial to mother.
[Your children are dressed too little]
When autumn and winter arrive and take the children out of the house, there will be all kinds of voices: [Why do you wear so little? [Why don’t you wear a hat? [Why don’t you wear cotton trousers? ]
Although I know this sentence is a concern, as a mother, how can I not know how much clothes a child should wear most appropriately? Do you have to wrap the children’s three layers inside and three layers outside into zongzi, and feel comfortable when touching the children’s palms and sweating?
We give children less wear, not in order to pursue good-looking, appropriate increase or decrease clothes to the baby is the most helpful to adapt to the environment, increase resistance. Wear too much children will have heat covering syndrome, wear too thick will induce eczema and prickly heat, sweat wet close-fitting clothes are more likely to catch a cold, appropriate temperature, is the most comfortable match for the baby.
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[Your child is too thin/short]
Gee, it was not easy to take her out with her friends [socializing] without smog. This careless remark by others really made people feel blocked.
Every time I hear this sentence, I want to retaliate: [I wish your child a height of 180 and a weight of 180 in the future, and even his little brother can grow to 18cm.]
Children’s height and body development are closely related to genes, and their respective development is unique, comparable to what? The child is not cutting leeks, but also uniformly high and heavy?
There are always [kind people] who recommend all kinds of calcium, iron, zinc, selenium and vitamins to me. [If you don’t like eating, it must be calcium deficiency, so it is good to supplement it.] [If you don’t sleep well at night, it is zinc deficiency. Eat this.]
Children’s nutrition cannot be supplemented indiscriminately. As long as children’s diet is normal, they will not lack nutrition.
My children are a little thinner and shorter, but it is not enough to be in good spirits within the normal range. I really don’t need to bother everyone.
[People’s children can climb/walk/talk, why can’t your children? ]
When children were young, they were heavier than their weight and heavier, and they began to be compared with all kinds of things. Why is it so difficult to have children?
[Other people’s cities are XX, but your family can’t do it yet], I have a fairy-like polite smile on my face: Good, good, your children have different talents, let my children abandon themselves.
In the process of children’s development, No matter talking or walking, there is a learning process, which cannot be promoted. Some babies can speak very early, while others only slowly begin to pronounce when they are two or three years old, because each baby’s pronunciation organs and language perception ability are different. Comparing [other people’s children] is naked misleading.
Or that sentence, as long as it is within the normal range, earlier and later how? Can you still win the world championship?
[Even wearing diapers? ]
What? If you don’t wear diapers to your baby, what should you wear?
[Diapers will cover the baby’s buttocks], [Diapers will affect the baby’s development], [Wear open-backed pants, you can urinate excrement, and wash your pants more in a big deal]…
Real loves diapers, innocent lying gun, to say with baby’s three great inventions, diapers can definitely occupy a place.
Is the baby’s ass red? Is that because you don’t change frequently enough and affect your development? That’s a rumor out of thin air. Don’t wear diapers? The baby is either naked or peeing his pants, either of which makes people [unable to look straight at].
Yes, I am lazy. Is there a problem with laziness? Is it not good for me to spend more time with my children when I change my pants and wash diapers? Sanitary, convenient and safe, this is my choice.
[The children are so old, how can they still…]
The most annoying fixed nagging sentence pattern, children are so old, why still eat pacifiers, eat fingers, stick to mother, don’t use chopsticks, delicate love to cry, etc.
Clearly, it is a baby’s hobby and is labeled as a defect.
Children eat pacifiers by hand because they need emotional and psychological attachment. Eating pacifiers and fingers before the age of 4 will not have a great impact on the face shape. Sticking to my mother is because I usually accompany her too little, which is the embodiment of love! What’s wrong with not using chopsticks and not affecting eating? Is there a problem with the spoon? What’s wrong with crying? Not even expressing emotions?
Every mother knows her children like the palm of her hand. They may have some small habits that are difficult to get rid of, but these do not affect their children’s health. We all see them in our eyes and really do not need to be reminded repeatedly.
Also, please [raise your mouth], don’t say this in front of my baby. Children are sensitive and fragile by nature. The more you say, the more sensitive the children are, the more they think about it, the harder it is to change.
When the time comes, I really can’t quit. I can’t change it. Be careful that the children complain about you.
[We were raised the same way in those days, isn’t it okay?]
Every time when children eat, nurse, urinate and other issues, the hearing of this [famous saying] makes people’s heads big.
How many families, because of this sentence, noisy chickens fly dogs jump, malodorous…
Yes, in your time, there was a shortage of materials. Eggs, brown sugar and millet were [nutrition]. It was not easy to bring up children safely. However, it has not been possible for 30 years that the old feeding method can really make children grow up smoothly, but this does not mean science and health.
Just like when making supplementary foods for children, the old man thinks that [children need to eat more salt to be strong and eat more to be especially fragrant], but the kidneys of infants under one year old are still unable to handle a large amount of sodium, and premature intake of salt has various risks and hidden dangers, which will also increase the risks of hypertension and cardiovascular diseases in the future.
Times are progressing, and we are also progressing together. Is there a problem?
[Look at you, how easy it is to take care of children at home.]
Ha ha, friends who said this sentence, tomorrow, please come to my house to experience? Is it a feeling of how to take a baby alone 24 hours a day?
It’s much harder to take the children at home. You can also watch videos, chat and eat snacks at work. Taking babies at home means sacrificing all your time and turning on the all-day standby mode to deal with the little demons at home.
It is already very tiring to listen to the screams of the children piercing the eardrums and accompany the children to vent their excessive exuberant energy. It is not easy to arrange the children’s daily life and study and education.
Therefore, please don’t say the word “how easy” in front of your mother. If it weren’t for your wholehearted love for your baby and family, how could your mother be willing to sacrifice and risk everything?
If we respect our efforts and efforts to bring up our children, don’t say “relaxed” in a teasing tone. This is the most basic respect and recognition for stay-at-home mothers.
It is not easy to be a mother, and every day’s life is a war without gunpowder smoke. I hope these words, which make people want to blow their hair, will not appear in our ears again, because we dare to say without cowardice [I may not be the most perfect mother, but I must be the mother who loves children most! ]