Do you envy your daughter? But I’m glad I have two sons

There is a saying called “You think children are easy to take, because you don’t have a son! “ There is also a saying called: a son born in one child, a daughter born in the second child is the winner in life, and a son born in the second child is… First, in order to gather [good] words, we should pay attention to having a second child. As early as 2000, the Korean drama Enlightenment < < Blue Life and Death Love > > had a far-reaching impact on me. As a girl, I extremely envy my brother Joon-hee’s care and doting on my sister Enxi from an early age. It has always made me feel that the combination Read More …

No matter how hard or tired you are, you must take care of your own children.

My son was born at the end of 2014, when I gave lectures everywhere to prepare milk powder money for the arrival of the child. Fortunately, That year, I developed a curriculum that directly affected my concept of intergenerational rearing. I specially studied a curriculum for several communities in Beijing, Shanghai and Shenzhen-< < Chinese intergenerational rearing > >, mainly facing grandparents and grandparents, and focusing on children’s psychological development laws and scientific rearing methods. The course is very popular, but the half year from lesson preparation to lecture has strengthened one of my ideas: no matter how hard or tired I am, I must take care of my own children. Before that, I was not so sure. My peers Read More …

Not a perfect mother, but what about how?

As a specially trained psychologist and mother of two children, I am proud to say: I am not [perfect mother] and I am not interested in being [perfect mother]. Dabao was born at that time, After a year of careful companionship, Instead of quitting to be a stay-at-home mom, I didn’t always play with them all the time on weekends, nor did I spend my time focusing on things I wasn’t interested in, such as cooking. Instead, I focused on my own career development that I was more interested in. Now that Erbao was born for a few months, the maternity leave is coming to an end, and I will return to work as usual. I will try my best Read More …

Why did I choose to play with the child when he robbed his cell phone?

Many parents will be worried because their children love to rob their mobile phones: do you want your children to come into contact with them now that electronic products are so popular? One of the most troublesome behaviors for parents is that children always rob mobile phones to play with. The more they don’t give them, the more they want them. It doesn’t work to divert their attention. Some parents joke that [I don’t know who I learned from, such a big addiction]. Today, Dr. Clove invited teacher Chang Run, an education expert, who has a unique view on this phenomenon. Do you know why children rob cell phones? [Mom attaches great importance to this thing, and I also want Read More …

The child suddenly said [I’m going to kill you], how did the terrible language curse break?

When our children reach the age of 3-5, there may be a period that makes parents struggle. During this period, the children’s language seems to be [very yellow and very violent], always saying [I will kill you], [I will eat you], [I hate you] and so on, and even swearing, such as: Scene 1: One weekend afternoon, My mother held three-year-old Xuanxuan to meet and chat with her best friend in a cafe. My best friend and aunt like Xuanxuan very much, Always teasing him, But Xuan Xuan did not like this overly enthusiastic aunt, However, my best friend aunt didn’t seem to care. She still teased Xuanxuan all the time. At this time, Xuanxuan became impatient and suddenly said Read More …

The Secret of Making Babies Sleep Longer-Sleep in Separate Rooms

If there is a what that every novice mother dreams of, it must be a good night’s sleep. The problem of baby’s sleep at night has always been a big proposition perplexing newborn parents, and [room and bed sharing] and [room and bed sharing] have been controversial. How old is the baby to start splitting beds, In November 2016, AAP updated several recommendations on the safe water surface sleep environment for babies. The recommendations show that newborns should sleep in the same room with their parents before they are 1 year old 6 months after birth, but they need to sleep in their cribs or cradles, while after one year old, they begin to consider sleeping in separate rooms with Read More …

The child is not good at eating, may be mouth problems

Eating is undoubtedly the biggest headache for mothers, The baby is growing up in the critical period, how many mothers in order to let the baby eat well used up all kinds of tricks. Many mothers did not think that the baby does not eat is not uncooperative, it is very likely that the baby’s mouth has problems. Let’s talk about the baby’s possible mouth diseases, for mothers to remind. Stomatitis/rotten corners of the mouth Stomatitis is what we commonly call rotten corners of the mouth. As the name implies, it is inflammation that occurs in the skin of the corners of the mouth and the mucous membrane of the lips nearby. Symptoms The mouth is red, peeling, serious cracks, Read More …

Antipyretics banned in the United States for 40 years are still being prescribed to children in our country.

In the first few days, an editor of the editorial department gave a loud cry when he was tweeting: [Oh, my God! Why do doctors prescribe this medicine to children? ] We leaned over and had a look. It turned out that a mother complained that the doctor had prescribed analgin injection to the baby with fever. The mother still has certain identification ability. Knowing that Analgin is a what medicine, she was so scared that she almost wanted to turn around and walk away. Everyone gasped uncontrollably. Isn’t Analgin eliminated? Doctors with a little common sense all know that this antipyretic drug is not recommended for a long time. How can it be prescribed to children? After searching the Read More …

What is the difference between a 25-year-old baby and a 35-year-old baby? What is the difference in the past ten years?

I am a typical mother who gave birth late. Although I am very happy to raise my baby, I still struggle to nurse, change diapers and sleep in the middle of the night in my 30s. Therefore, whenever I see other people’s children can already get soy sauce, I am really envious: it’s good to have a baby early. Look, I am relieved now! In fact, a few years ago, I didn’t think so at all. At that time, I saw my peers suffering in the feather of marriage and raising babies. I was often glad that I could sleep until I woke up naturally on weekends, wander in the hutongs of literature and art, read miscellaneous books, and take Read More …

Behind every smart baby, there are a pair of parents who can chat.

There are about 800 Nobel Prize winners in the world, more than 20% of whom are Jews. In the Forbes Wealth List in 2015, 20% of the top 50 are also Jews. You know, Jews, as an absolute minority, account for only 0.2% of the world’s population. It is amazing to achieve such an achievement. After a lot of observation and research, the academic circle has discovered the secret of Jewish education, namely Haywata. Is Havata what? All early education emphasizes, We must communicate more with our children, Much interaction, This stimulates brain development, Connecting nerve synapses, Improve parent-child relationship, Simply put, Haywata is chatting with children. However, Haywata is consciously chatting, discussing a certain topic with content, logic and Read More …