After becoming a mother, poetry and distance have become beautiful fairy tales beyond reach.
Don’t say far away, even daily travel, as long as you bring baby will become difficult.
Even if everything is carefully considered, Eva will blow up at any time for various reasons.
In fact, there are some tricks to hold the baby when you want to go out.
Today, we will share these tricks with you to make it easy and pleasant to take her out. At the same time, we will give her early education to make her smarter and smarter.
Line up to cry, ride? Find the source, see the move and dismantle the move.
On the subway, in line, when waiting for a place… what do you usually do in the face of a baby who cries loudly and does not give face at all?
Most parents either suppress by force, even frighten and cheat, and try to frighten for a while. Either use mobile phones and iPad to let electronic nannies divert their attention.
Before doing so, many parents ignored the question: Why is Eva making trouble?
Only when we understand the source of Eva’s emotions and see the moves, can we be king.
- Hunger: Babies need to eat snacks at any time to supplement their strength. Timely feeding can avoid greedy insect’s upper body crying. Sleepiness: The child’s sleepiness comes, yawning and rubbing his eyes are all manifestations of sleepiness. When the time for small sleep is approaching, let the baby calm down in advance and find a quiet place to sleep. After all, sleepiness is not pleasant. If you are too sleepy to collapse and cry, you cannot control the scene.
- Boring: Adults’ vision is different from children’s, There are some beautiful scenery you can see, The little baby can only see the knees of all the people. The performance that you find interesting, Maybe Eva saw it in the clouds. When it was not on the same entertainment channel, It is hard to avoid boredom and finding fault with Eva. When Eva is tired of interest, When you are listless, quickly arrange activities suitable for your children to divert your attention. Impatience: Long drive, invisible team, bored waiting time for meals, adults can still brush their cell phones, baby has nothing to do to pass a lot of time, of course, can’t sit still. At this moment, give some sweetness, let baby smile! Seek attention: Seek kiss, embrace and hold high. When adults’ eyes are not projected on themselves, they can only attract attention at the hour. At this time, nothing can solve the problem better than playing a small game with Eva.
Only by finding the crux of the problem and prescribing the right medicine can the dilemma be successfully resolved.
Fragment Time Skillfully Utilizes Moisturizing Things Silently to Cultivate
In fact, we are used to letting Eva wait in line, take a bus and wait for meals.
These wasted [unconscious time], if made good use of, will not only appease the baby, but also enable her to exercise all aspects of her abilities, which is a good opportunity that cannot be missed.
The level of children’s ability is not only innate, but also inseparable from acquired training.
Children between 2 and 6 years old have strong acceptance of things, not only are energetic, but also learn things quickly. If the fragments of time are used, children will benefit greatly.
1. Impatient in the car, brain moving
How to take her to play different tricks in the limited space? Don’t miss the following small games.
- Look for it
-Which cars are red?
-Which license plate has the number 3?
-Which car has only two doors?
Finding the target vehicle in the vast traffic flow is a good way to train children’s attention and observation.
With such interactions, you can copy many different ways of asking questions.
- Make a note of it
Say a string of mathematics casually and let Eva repeat it.
Or ask the child:
-What’s Dad’s phone number?
-What day is Grandma’s birthday?
In the process of asking and answering questions, the child’s memory ability unconsciously improved.
If there is paper and pen, you can also let the child write it down while speaking, and in passing, you can also train her writing ability.
- Anti-one anti-one
You give instructions to Eva to do the opposite.
For example:
-You said big apples, the child’s hand should gesticulate the shape of a small apple;
-You said to raise your right hand, the child must raise his left hand;
-You said to touch the eyes, the child must touch the ears;
This kind of play not only allows children to mobilize their vision and movements synchronously, but also trains the distribution of attention and improves the brain’s ability to process various information synchronously.
2. Queuing is boring and games are fun.
The team can’t see the head and the number is far away, so play some games that you can laugh and laugh while standing still.
- Pass on
You say a word, pass it on to the children in front, and let the children pass it on to the father in front.
Then let the father say it out and see if it is consistent with what you passed on to the child.
In addition to some everyday expressions, ancient poems and words can be passed on occasionally, so that children can remember them more skillfully than usual.
- Guess
Write with your fingers in the palm of your child’s hand so that the child can guess what by touch.
Smaller children can write simple numbers or draw pictures, and then slowly increase the difficulty.
The older baby can test simple spelling of English words, which is much easier than staring at him and writing silently.
- Count
-How many people are there in front of us?
-Is the third person in front grandpa or grandma?
-Check, how many uncles and aunts are there in our row?
Through such problems, children’s sensitivity to numbers can be improved, and at the same time children’s observation can be improved.
3. Waiting for the meal for a little long, toys will help.
The food is served slowly and the children cannot sit still after waiting for a long time. At this time, interesting small toys can help a lot.
A few magnetic pieces, a pocket-sized writing board, finger toys, pocket picture books… can all make Eva find fun in it, and it is also very convenient to carry and does not take up space.
What if what toys are not prepared in the backpack? It doesn’t matter, local materials are used, and on-site props are used at any time:
- Toothpicks: An indispensable item in the restaurant. Give Eva a few, cooperate with paper towels, and let Eva play hole-piercing games. You can also give them questions to put into Chinese characters, numbers or figures, but pay attention to safe use! White Sugar Bag: Tea Bag, White Sugar Bag, Take it to Eva and count it, pose, Or play house games in the trading version. Paper cup: And the store asked for some disposable cups, Can play [guess in which cup] game, or let the baby play stack high. Menu: and waiter to have an extra menu, randomly tear into a number of small pieces, let the baby play jigsaw puzzles. Or write numbers in the blank space on the back, tear into small pieces, after disruption let the baby play number arrangement. More simply, let the baby draw graffiti directly.
The above-mentioned games can all be played in different scenes, and parents can also have their brains wide open, make various innovations, and study new ways of playing with Eva.
However, if Eva’s mood has exploded and she is not in the mood to interact with you to play games, then if there is really no way out, she can also use snacks as a [lifeline] to make Eva’s crying mouth smile through tears.
Snacks such as small puffs, small steamed buns, wheat circles and raisins are easy to carry. They eat one by one to kill time. They can also play counting games, bean games and so on to exercise fine movements.
As for everyone’s skilled electronic nanny method, it is not impossible, but we should also pay attention to the choice of frequency and content, and do not let children form the habit of relying on electronic products when bored.
Before going out, our wishes were all good, but during the trip, when the children did not cooperate and were physically and mentally tired, we often forgot the first heart of “making the baby happy”.
In fact, as long as the baby is happy, even the time of queuing, taking a bus and waiting for a meal is a good time for parent-child interaction.
Combining education with fun refers not only to learning, but also to seamlessly linking puzzle games with high-quality companionship through more companionship and more diversified and enlightening communication in daily time.
As long as you have heart and boring waiting, you can be harmonious and happy.