[Are you happy with me? ]
Whenever this time, most of the answers will be [well, quite good] or [not bad]. There are still many people who feel that they are too lazy to answer this question.
One of my former consultants told me this: “I have been with my husband for 5 years, but the climax is what, which I have never experienced before.”
As a doctor of philosophy in sexology and a registered clinical sex expert in the United States, in my 20 years of experience, I have found that most women have been in a [passive situation] in the matter of sex.
There is also a view that it is very natural that the tide should be like that given by men. Just relax and enjoy the tide given by men.
According to this [divine] logic, one should not take the initiative to obtain the tide at all, but should wait for the men to give the tide. If the men’s method makes you reach the tide, you are frigid.
Is this really the case? As an independent individual, women can pursue the pleasure they want.
Today, I’ll talk to you about the 4 tips that make you [do your best] and write them down in a small notebook.
First, correctly understand the climax
Research data show that only about 30% of the performance can reach the tide in vaginal intercourse. In other words, there is no way to obtain tide from vaginal intercourse, which is the real experience of most people.
However, some women will dislike stimulating the clitoris at the same time of sexual intercourse, but the truth is that if the clitoris is not stimulated, most sexual methods will reach the tide in vaginal intercourse.
Clitoris is the only organ in the whole body that is only responsible for producing sexual reactions. Similar to male penis, clitoris will become hyperemic and erect in the state of sexual arousal.
The effect of simple [piston movement] on women’s orgasm is relatively limited, but the vast majority of women can directly or indirectly stimulate clitoris to produce orgasm.
Second, full foreplay
I think that sex should not be divided into foreplay and afterplay. Sex should be organized. Foreplay is part of sexual arousal and also part of sex. Foreplay is to arouse lust.
Women need an average of 20-30 minutes of sex to reach the top, while men usually need less than 10 minutes. Men do not have to erect straight in foreplay. The key is to immerse each other in joy and excitement, not simply the desire to insert.
The length of foreplay can be adjusted according to the interaction between the two sides and the mood of the day. It can be used to convey lingering feelings with eyes. It can also help the partner to enter the play by creating romantic scenes and whispering love words.
To enjoy this process, cultivate a pleasant habit, let men fall in love with this feeling. In this way, when he enters, he will not only have strong lubrication in theory, but also be more pleasant in theory.
Seeing such a fully released and opened you and full of sex, even if you don’t ask for it next time, he will fall in love with foreplay crazily.
Three, love to call out
Cry as you please, whether it is gasping, sobbing or shouting, or even a little exaggerated.
Sound is the best feedback. Call it out to let him know that you like him to do so and present him with the sexiest sound.
If you try not to speak, you may cause orgasm to be interrupted or delayed. It is easy to wake up from the current pleasure immediately by distracting yourself at the critical moment [or stop yelling, my voice is strange].
However, if the sound insulation effect of the room is not very good, it is better to bite this < Xinhua Dictionary > > in your mouth.
Four, try all kinds of fantasy
In the process of sexual life, any sexual fantasy is reasonable and helpful for orgasm.
The fantasy object may not be the person (or even the person) with whom you are now, and there is no need to have any psychological burden. All you have to do is let your brain relax completely, and you may feel natural as soon as you turn the corner.