I am Chang Run, a preschool education worker.
Over the past 8 years, I have been engaged in early childhood teaching in Beijing. I have set up my own kindergarten and have also been employed as the director of the kindergarten and the director of teaching.
Among the many kindergarten situations I have dealt with, the most troubling and anxious thing for parents is the problem of the baby entering the kindergarten.
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Necessary Guide for Successful Admission of Babies
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When the baby first goes to kindergarten, it is the first time that the child and his parents are separated in a real sense. It is normal for adults not to rest assured. Many mothers have all kinds of worries before sending their babies to kindergarten:
[The baby hasn’t left me since he was young. What if he always cries? ]
[My baby is picky about food. What if he refuses to eat when he goes to kindergarten? ]
[The baby is introverted. What should I do if I go to school and be bullied? What if you are bullied and refuse to say? ]
It is not so much the problem that children have difficulty in entering the kindergarten as many parents who are really not ready. Every year during the admission season, mothers cry the most:
Some mothers were afraid of the baby crying, so they shoved the baby into the teacher’s hand and hurried away.
Some mothers were tearful first. As a result, the baby cried on one end and the mother cried with her back to the other.
I feel sad when I look at it.
I remember a stay-at-home mother was especially afraid to see her baby crying. She just came to the kindergarten to say hello to the teacher. Her face was stretched and she did not dare to look at the child’s eyes. She felt very sorry for the baby and had to wait half an hour to leave when she got back to the car.
In fact, the more worried parents are, the easier it is for their babies to be full of problems. Many parents do not realize that their actions are exactly [counterproductive] in helping their babies enter the kindergarten smoothly.
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Necessary Guide for Successful Admission of Babies
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Admission is the first step for the baby to grow up from now on. Parents need to be more calm! In order for the baby to enter the park smoothly, in addition to temporary emotional contagion, parents should help the baby to prepare for his ability and psychology before he is 3 years old.
1. Deliberately practice separation
When the baby goes to kindergarten, he cries loudly. In many cases, his parents [frighten] him to cry.
My mother wanted to tell my baby [I love you so much, I loathe to give up on you], but the subtext was:
[I don’t trust you, you can’t handle it yourself]
[I don’t trust the teachers here, they may not take good care of you]
[I don’t trust this environment, they may hurt you].
Therefore, the baby will instinctively distrust this environment and is unwilling to adapt to the new environment. There will be situations such as [crying and shouting for a mother all day long] [refusing to eat well] [refusing to communicate with other children], and of course they will not want to go to kindergarten.
If parents deliberately practice separation from the baby before the baby enters the park. At this time, you only need to infect the child with positive emotions. Let the child feel that going to kindergarten is not a bad thing. You should show that you trust the teacher and kindergarten, say hello to the teacher warmly, say goodbye to the child with a smile, and calmly tell the child if he cries: “You miss me very much, I will miss you too, see you tonight.”
2. Correctly Create Children’s Security
When some mothers comfort their children, they will say “there is nothing to cry, kindergarten is fun”. Usually the child may cry harder after listening. Although you try to tell the baby that kindergarten is not so terrible, you are actually denying the child’s feelings of [not wanting to be separated from her parents]. The child feels that you do not understand her and will be more sad instead.
The correct approach is to empathize with and understand the child’s feelings, and then according to your understanding, tell some things the child can do after you leave, [there are photos of bunny and mother in the schoolbag, you can hug them if you miss me]. He may still cry, but he will also feel more secure.
3. When you get home, everything goes as usual.
I was particularly impressed by a baby who was still crying after 3 months in the garden. My parents, grandparents have a very good attitude and ask the teacher how to cooperate every day. But the child just cried all the time, and finally found out that the problem was actually because they were too supportive and kind to help!
After returning home every day, the whole family held a meeting for the baby and told the baby like an exam: What will happen to the kindergarten tomorrow? Can you cry? What can be done? Too much pressure on the baby. This is an anxiety of “not trusting children and teachers”.
Parents don’t have to deliberately be what after school, just remember 12 words: [Trust teachers at school, business as usual at home].
I’m Chang-yun, Because of his love for early childhood education, After graduating from Tsinghua University in 2010, he founded a kindergarten of his own, and then spent two years studying at Vanderbilt University, the number one education college in the United States. During this period, in order to learn the most advanced concepts of early childhood education, he went to Harvard Kindergarten in Boston and Macquarie University Kindergarten in Sydney for immersion in-depth investigation.
Combined with my research results of preschool education for many years and the effective methods verified by 1000 + children in teaching practice, I and clove mother jointly made this set of necessary guidelines for babies to enter the kindergarten.
Can let parents take fewer detours and help their babies prepare for admission as soon as possible. Tell you what situations you may encounter when entering the park? How to deal with it so that children can adapt to kindergarten life more quickly?
Let children find happiness and confidence in the group faster.
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Necessary Guide for Successful Admission of Babies
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< < Necessary Guide for Babies to Enter the Park > > contains the following 4 rights and interests
20 audio lessons
Seven Preparations for Babies to Make Before Entering the Park
How to deal with the difficult problems after entering the park,
Teach you to choose a high-quality kindergarten.
3 test tables
Refining the Essence of Teacher Run’s Teaching Experience
Choose the right school and make the right preparation.
16 matching exercises games
Consolidate the content of the course
To better understand the development of the baby
2 Q&A Interactions
Solve practical problems hand in hand
Syllabus