Recently, < < Piggy Page > > was searched because a mother sent such a [black material]:
Seeing such comments, parents mostly responded [ha, ha, ha, ha, ha].
Take the words of one netizen, what’s wrong with learning pig barking? Discrimination against pigs? After all, they are harmless imitations and will not cause what harm to children.
However, in my opinion, Piggy Page is actually an adult movie. Children can watch it, and adults should watch it even more.
Why? Let’s talk about it one by one.
The family has a second child and a bowl of water is even.
Now many families are ready to have a second child, and the Page family happens to have a second child.
George and Page are not much different in age. Page sometimes behaves like a big sister, but more often, she is just a wayward little girl.
Once Page and George were playing with the ball. Page deliberately threw the ball out of George’s reach. George cried and his mother said, “You can’t tease George like this.”
Note that Mother Pig did not use the word “bullying”. While disciplining Page, she also took care of her feelings.
Page wanted to play the ball by himself, so he said George was too young to play the ball. Dad said George was big enough, so he played the ball behind George’s back and Page’s back.
Page felt unfair, Dad said, “I just helped George.”
Finally, Mom took Page on her back, Dad took George on her back, and the family played the ball happily.
If this happens to other families, the result may be different.
A friend of mine is also the mother of a second child. Before the second child was born, she said that she would never mistreat her eldest daughter. But when she really saw the conflict between the second child and the eldest child, the second child cried and would always habitually say such words as “you are the sister, why don’t you let the younger brother?”
Such scenes should not be too common, but there are not many parents who can really achieve a bowl of water level, skillfully resolve the conflicts between siblings, and take care of each child’s emotions, just like pig mothers and pig fathers.
Set an example and set a good example for children.
In Page’s house, housework was never a matter for Mother Pig.
Although Father Pig is very busy with his work and even has to work overtime on his birthday, he often helps cook and wash clothes.
George and Page also often give a hand and do what they can.
When going to the supermarket, Page and George will help find the things to buy according to their parents’ instructions.
When tidying up the room, the whole family will participate, and the pig father and mother will also encourage the children to work together.
In addition, one of the most common scenes in the animation is that pig father and pig mother read books and newspapers together.
Parents are children’s mirrors. Children will imitate what you are.
Some parents, who never read books but ask their children to study hard, think their children are not good at homework when watching TV. How is this possible?
There are also some parents (especially father, ahem) who never take part in family affairs and throw the task of taking care of children and family to their mothers, but they are not bashful to say [I am too tired from work, just accompany you].
Excuse me? ? ? Isn’t Father Pig tired from work? Are you with your wife and children, or are your wife and children with you?
Maintain principles, gentleness and firmness towards children.
Although Page’s parents love their children very much, they are very attitude on the issue of principle.
Generally speaking, it is gentle without losing principle, firm but full of love.
Once it was almost bedtime, but Page and George were not sleepy at all and made a request to jump into the mud pit.
Let’s take a look at the two promises and three refusals of mother pig in the face of this situation.
Mother Pig readily agreed to the children’s request and made an appointment to play until I asked you to come back and take a bath. (First Promise)
It was time to take a bath. When Page and George expressed that they wanted to play for a while, Mother Pig gently refused them. (First Rejection)
When Page brushed his teeth after taking a bath and wanted to play tricks to postpone bedtime, Mother Pig gently refused the child again and promised Page that Dad would read you a bedtime story. (Second Rejection + Second Promise)
When Page took out a pile of picture books for Dad to read, Mother Pig said gently, “Dad can only read one for you.” (Refusal for the third time)
Finally, the children went to sleep on time with satisfaction.
This scene, seemingly simple, contains clever parenting skills and philosophy:
First, she was gentle and patient all the time. In the face of her children’s repeated push, mother pig did not get angry.
Second, he is good at psychological warfare, interspersed with two promises in three rejections, not only attacking children, but also sticking to his own principles. It is really clever.
In real life, many mothers either blindly satisfy their children or go to the other extreme of intimidation.
One of my best friends can be said to be the more patient kind of mothers, and the children’s requirements will basically be met.
Every night before going to bed, the child will have all kinds of strange requests to postpone going to bed. After that, he will say that I want to watch cartoons for 10 minutes. After that, he will play with his baby bear for a while. He will finally coax him to wash and say that he wants to eat something.
My best friend always satisfies her children and never refuses. As a result, the daily bedtime battle drags on longer and longer, and her patience is smoothed day by day.
Finally one day, she broke out and shouted at the child, “Why are you so upset? Let you sleep, you sleep! The suddenly frightened child could not stop crying.
There are still many educational caution machines in Piggy Page. For example, Page and George had a sudden whim when they were eating and said they would go to the lawn to play. Mother readily agreed, but asked them to finish breakfast first.
When going to the supermarket to buy things, only take the items listed on the shopping list. Page wants potato chips, and her mother will also prompt that there are no potato chips on the shopping list.
Pigs’ father and mother can always gently and firmly refuse the children’s demands, but they can always give in timely and skillfully to some non-principle issues.
Very not easy to take the children together to tidy up the room, and was messed up by two little guys for a second, they were not angry, but said with mirth: “at least it was clean for a while.” Because in their eyes, this is not what’s big deal.
Husband and wife love each other, respect each other and understand each other.
Although Mother Pig is at home full-time, she also has her own part-time job.
Father pig respected her free work. When the child wanted to see mother pig work, father agreed, but first told them not to disturb her, because mother pig has a lot of important work today.
Father Pig never said, “You just take the children at home!” Stop working, I’ll give you how much it costs! ]
The most abusive dog is the birthday of pig father and pig mother.
On Mother Pig’s birthday, Father Pig decorated the living room for Mother Pig, prepared a new skirt, and also called Grandma Pig and Grandpa Pig to take care of the children. After buying tickets for the drama, he would accompany Mother Pig to watch the drama together to give Mother a free and liberated night.
No what gift is sweeter than a sudden return to the world of two!
On Father Pig’s birthday, Mother also prepared new boots for Father Pig and dug a big mud pit suitable for Father Pig’s size with the children so that Father Pig could jump around like a child.
Parents’ love is the best gift for their children. This is fully reflected in pig father and pig mother.
They all know clearly that what they need most is what. Because they know each other, they love each other.
The mainstream view of psychology holds that in a healthy family relationship, the most important thing is the relationship between husband and wife, even exceeding the relationship between husband and wife, children and parents.
Now it is often said that [widowed child-rearing], fathers should of course reflect on why the responsibility for child-rearing is shifted to mothers. And mothers can also think about whether they pay too much attention to their children and neglect their husbands, thus pushing them completely away from the matter of child-rearing.
There is a question in Zhihu that is [your parents have a love story in how], and one of the netizens’ answers is impressive.
She said, “The greatest wealth my parents gave me is not only how much they love me, but how much they love each other.” Although her emotional path is not smooth, she has always maintained a positive attitude towards love, [I think, in fact, it is also because love is full of energy, so it is especially easy to believe that she will be happy! This is the foundation that my family has laid for me].
Parents love each other, which can help children learn how to communicate harmoniously with the opposite sex.
Parents love each other, which can help their children grow up to be more confident and charismatic.
Parents love each other, which can make your other half more willing to participate in the care of children and family affairs.
May we always love each other, and may our children grow up under the nourishment of the love of both parents.