When the word [milk sleep] appeared in front of your eyes, did you immediately recall those fears dominated by the night…
One night after another, I was awakened by the baby’s crying, and one night after another I choked back the sleepy night milk, torturing not only my body and mind, but also my family members who worked together at night.
[Abstaining from milk sleep] is the good wish of every family with babies.
The article shared today comes from a capable mother who took two days to get rid of the [sleeping slag] baby.
How did she do it? Let’s have a look.
My daughter is Wang Yuxin,
I’m going to give her no milk sleep.
I am ready to fight her for a long time.
But it succeeded the next day!
First, why do I have to give up milk sleep?
I always thought everyone knew that milk didn’t sleep well,
It turned out that many people were accustomed to sleeping with milk.
Neinei thought it was normal to wake up at night for about 3 times.
It is normal to wake up at the age of 1 or 2 at night,
My husband also solemnly asked me, why?
1. Things are getting worse and worse
After entering the milk sleep period, I actually had a quite comfortable life.
As soon as everything is stopped, Neinei will take care of it, relaxed and happy.
But the situation is getting worse and worse.
For example, it is more and more delayed until the collapse to sleep in milk.
For example, from 3 times to 5 times
For example, one second or smile, the next one cries and collapses.
For example, the hugs and pats were thrown off, and the more you cried, the harder you worked.
2. Milk Sleep Babies Sleep Less and Shallow
Frequent nursing causes the baby to sleep less,
Sleep uneasiness, easy to panic, irritability, emotional instability.
Every day when I get up, my eyes are swollen.
Wang Yuxin’s children sleep peacefully and only accept milk sleep.
Babies who sleep in milk are easy to wake up and cry at night.
At the same time, waking up at night and crying strengthen milk sleep.
Wake up crying, eat and sleep, wake up crying, eat and sleep,
The cycle goes back and forth, getting worse and worse.
And the whole sleep baby woke up and fell asleep on his own.
In fact, adults are the same,
Wake up and fall asleep,
You don’t even know you woke up.
Therefore, the baby who sleeps at milk lacks sleep.
I understand it as poor sleep quality.
Think about it should also affect development.
3. Not good for teeth
Milk sleep is not good for tooth development.
When the milk goes to bed, brushing your teeth before going to bed is nonsense.
Milk sleep is easy to buck teeth, dental caries, etc.
Think about your baby,
A smile is a mouthful of decayed teeth…
Think of her again,
In the future, when teeth decay and cry…
4. All kinds of pitiful mothers with milk back
Working mothers are not easy,
Get up early and go to work in the dark,
I can’t sleep well at night.
And couldn’t help it,
An hour of nursing time is running out,
What about weaning?
5. Winter is coming soon
It was cold,
I’m going to catch a cold.
It was cold,
The blanket and quilt were wet.
It was cold,
Milk sleep, mom, you know,
Just fell asleep… … …
Second, to abstain from milk sleep and wake up at night, one must first firmly believe in
Here, I would like to thank my colleague Fang,
She is the mother of a 14-month-old baby,
Her baby went to bed early.
Her presence is an inspiration.
The following is our dialogue:
Me: My daughter has flatulence.
Fang: There is what here. My daughter still has colic.
Me: My daughter was delivered by Caesarean section.
Fang: There is what here. My little sister went to sleep after giving birth to her confinement by Caesarean section.
Me: My daughter has a bad temper and cries.
Fang: There is what here. Not all children are like this.
As for crying, I am worried that if I cry too much, I will feel more insecure and have what’s psychological shadow. Especially when I cried from 2 am to 4 am on the first night, my other two colleagues added this:
Colleague Yao: My daughter used to sleep with my grandmother without brushing her teeth, which was also super crying. Later, when she slept with me, I must ask her to brush her teeth. She is used to it now. She also insisted with her grandmother that she would not eat after brushing. Once I forgot to take potion and had to brush her teeth again before sleeping.
Colleague Chen: My son, my husband and I are very good at taking care of each other. We all play by ourselves. When we see his grandmother, we must open our hands and hold them, or we will cry.
I feel like bullying anyone who is easy to talk to.
Success belongs to the persevering.
To eliminate physiological crying, what you need is persistence.
Wang Yuxin’s children are more than 7 months old,
It’s time to get rid of milk sleep.
Think of sleeping as a skill to learn.
The baby cries but she hasn’t learned this skill yet.
Give her the opportunity and time to study,
Under one year old is the golden sleep study period,
Your connivance and repetition are the greatest harm to the baby.
Sleeping is not an innate ability, it is an ability that develops from the fetus to the age of 1. If you miss that extremely important 12 months, there are opportunities to remedy it, but the older the baby, the greater the obstacles to developing this ability.
Three, do a good job in getting rid of milk sleep, wake up at night preparation work
Step 1 Convince your family
My main persuasion is my husband.
During the day, my parents took it with them, and there was no problem of milk sleep.
The most important thing is that there is no way to do it.
My husband and I took it at night.
Husband is the main force to play and hug,
However, he is good at switching between his right-hand man and his pig teammates at will.
We should do a good job in communication.
2. Choose a day when your baby is in good condition.
This is important,
If the state is not good and prefers to maintain the status quo,
Otherwise, it is easy to repeat if you cannot stick to it.
This is even worse.
Wang Yuxin’s recent condition is generally good:
Not in tussle stage
Not sick
Fart more than 4:00 in the morning, but it’s not serious.
More than 6 o’clock in the morning fixed defecation
I fall asleep around 8 o’clock every day.
Neinei can basically fall asleep smoothly after waking up at night.
Often smile happily
3. Identify what needs improvement and your bottom line.
Since we have to stop sleeping with milk,
Just one step at a time.
Don’t sleep in your arms.
No pacifiers.
Try not to nurse at night.
Don’t appease the seahorse and other light.
In addition, although we should quit sleeping with milk,
But I still have to insist on breast milk for a period of time.
So I have to give it to my children.
Not in the middle of the night,
I’ll fix it in the evening and in the morning.
Not lying down,
Then sit on the sofa.
Try not to nurse at night because you will form a habit.
After two or three times, the baby will wake up regularly to eat milk,
It is time for two or three years old to feed milk once in the middle of the night.
The reason why you don’t have to lie down is that you can’t deepen the connection between lying down, eating milk and sleeping.
You should form good habits before you are one year old.
The older you get, the harder it is.
In addition, we sleep weaned, not weaned.
I’m still sleeping with you.
Step 4 Choose Winter
First, it was said before that milk sleep in winter was all kinds of bad.
Second, it is said that winter is suitable for abstaining from milk, which is certainly suitable for abstaining from milk and sleeping!
5. Cut your baby’s nails in advance
It’s important.
It hurts me when I go crazy indiscriminately.
She also caught the bleeding herself.
6. Analyze the current situation of waking up at night,
First time: more than 9 o’clock
Second time: more than 11 o’clock
These two may be job checks,
More than 2 o’clock for the third time: farting
More than 4 o’clock for the fourth time: habitual feeding
Four, quit milk sleep two days have happened?
1. Miss Devil on the first day
Participants: My mother, husband, I
Execution Time: Friday
I had taken a leave on Monday to prepare for a three-day War of Resistance on Saturday, Sunday and Monday.
As a result, Friday happened to be the right time.
During the day, my mother said the baby was very good and slept for two hours in the afternoon.
In the evening, when I came home from the meeting at 8 o’clock, she actually fell asleep.
When I washed up, the baby woke up.
She looked at me with a smile and patted the bed happily.
She crawled around with a smile and was in high spirits.
I think today is a godsend.
When will it be better not to quit milk and sleep at this time?
So, play with you first.
As a result, the milk powder was added to ensure that they were full.
As a result, I found yawning and started to turn off the lights several times.
Cry as soon as the lights go out.
Hug, pat, sing, cry more and more energetic.
No matter her, she has been crying.
Half an hour later, the light was turned on and the husband took it away.
My husband is waving around, looking at the stars, looking at the moon and looking at the mirror.
My husband said that the swallow sang so much that I was going to sleep.
An hour later, he fell asleep with his arms in his arms.
Time for the first time to fall asleep: around 8 o’clock
The first time I woke up at 21: 00, I fell asleep again at 23: 00.
2: 00 for the second time and 4: 30 for the second time.
After sleeping for three hours, Wang Yuxin’s children woke up again.
More and more crying, hug sleep failure.
Put it on the bed again and collapse.
Eat cotton towels.
Continuous tumbling.
Hit the bed bar.
Pull your hair.
Grab the face.
Ear scratch bleeding.
Chew my chin.
What eats them all.
Repeat the action of lying on your back and then lying on your side.
Two hours.
I think, after waking up for more than two hours, I may be really hungry.
Sleep in milk and go to work during the day …
I almost gave up the process and had a headache all day.
But fortunately I held on.
Wake-up time: 7: 30 a.m.
2. The next day was an angel
Participant: I
Soothing means: gutta-percha, singing, giving hands to head, baby’s own shoes now taken off
6: 30 Sit and kiss
Have fun with you.
Eat milk powder at 7:30 to make sure you are full.
Gentle bedtime interaction
Time for first sleep: around 20:00
The first time I woke up at 2:00, I fell asleep again: for a while.
Wake up at 4:00 for the second time and fall asleep again at 4:12
Wake up by my father at 4:20 and fall asleep again at 4:30
3. Seriously and briefly analyze……
There was nothing to say on the first day, because the resistance was fierce.
All I can do is try all the means I have learned to think of.
Then the most important thing is:
Hold on!
I can’t bear it!
The next day, this is the key.
Those measures of appeasement have been tailored and worked.
Gutta-percha: Since you want to chew, I will give you something suitable to chew. I will give you the same gutta-percha.
Singing: I made it up by myself [Wang Yuxin sleeps with his mother, 1234567] is the tune of doll and bear dancing. The name is added because she is sensitive to her own name and will pause when she hears it. 1234567 is because my mother can’t sing when she sleeps with her baby. She counts from 1 to 200. Then, she will sing very slowly, with a long interval between words. It will not last long if there is no sound. It is also called singing again.
Give your hand to your head: It turned out that you must hold my arm when you fall asleep. Of course, on the first day, this was completely useless and was immediately thrown off.
The baby took off her shoes now: she relied on them when she woke up at 4 o’clock. The gutta-percha was useless. She took off her shoes and chewed them. There is a ball on the shoes.
The most critical point: sleep with you all the way.
Only in this way can the situation be dealt with in a timely manner.
4. Four o’clock is a big hurdle.
Specifically manifested as
Tossing and turning at 4:00, short, turn over and open your eyes.
4:20 Hit your head, cry, toss and turn, eat shoes
I am prepared in my heart to feed me if I fail.
Because it was this point the day before and I ate a lot.
Because four o’clock is the morning milk, and the second best thing is to settle for it.
Because 20: 00-4: 00 is a little long.
But I also know that if I feed this time, I may have to eat milk at 4 o’clock every morning until I am 2 or 3 years old. I don’t want to.
In fact, she was still fine and was going to sleep a little.
But the pig teammate’s father couldn’t sleep, turned on the light and made noises.
Pig teammate’s father also came in three times to try to comfort him.
I firmly said go away, the critical moment.
Fortunately, it was brilliant enough.
A little postscript:
When I finished writing this article, it was already the third day. I fell asleep at about 8: 30. I cried over and over for more than five minutes and fell asleep. Then I tossed and turned for an hour at the 4 o’clock mark.
Here again want to mention pig teammate father, really can’t make a sound, father thinks he is light-hearted, but judging from the crying of Wang Yuxin’s children, she heard. Never stop trying to fall asleep to make a short cry, came a long tone of telling grievances and complaining, and turned his head to the source of the sound.