The season is changing soon. The temperature fluctuates greatly. There are many sick adults, not to mention babies.
At this time, the most afraid thing is that some relatives and friends bring their sick babies to visit and play with them, and accidentally infect their children.
For this kind of situation, many mothers dare to be angry and dare not speak out, because-
It’s really hard to wipe out!
Is it to maintain the superficial harmony, or is it to express one’s worries and keep them out of the door?
Dr. Clove’s article today may give you some inspiration.
Don’t disturb others when you are ill.
A while ago, when my sister gave birth to the baby, I took Coke to visit and encountered a bad worry.
Relatives also came to my sister’s house to visit the newly born baby. Only when they arrived did they find that her little boy had caught a cold and coughed badly.
Although I tried to remind in the process, I was embarrassed to speak too straight because I was a very close relative, so I could only let the children avoid intimate contact as much as possible.
But children of this age like to run and run behind their big brother, where can they listen? After their family left, their sister’s daughter (4 years old) began to have a runny nose and cough, and Coke also began to have a fever. Fortunately, the newly born baby was not infected.
After the children developed infectious symptoms, I took Coke and moved to the hotel to avoid further cross-infection. Then I told my relatives directly that I should not take sick children to families with children, especially families with newborns.
I didn’t expect the mother of the child to be embarrassed and said:
[That’s because your own child didn’t take it well. My son plays with his brother every day, kisses and hugs him. There is no infection. How can he infect you after playing for half a day? Don’t blame others for your own reasons.]
If you don’t know how to avoid it, you don’t have any guilt for the trouble you bring to others. For such people, there is really no need to go back and forth.
When my children were infected, I became a messenger.
After Coke was infected, my brother-in-law took us to the emergency department in the middle of the night because of rashes on my body, mouth and buttocks, fearing that it was hand, foot and mouth. Coke also has a history of overheated convulsion. I dare not neglect a little when I have a fever. I dare not sleep all night long. I have been monitoring my body temperature. My brother-in-law and his family are afraid that I will be tired and have to draw people to come to the hotel to help me.
After Coke’s temperature stabilized, I thought I would go home to take care of it. My brother-in-law was worried about a mishap on our way and drove me home thousands of miles away. He never stopped and hurried home again.
In a word, I thought I could talk to my newly-born sister and solve her early mastitis problem by the way. However, when Coke was infected and sick, I became a messer.
All these things happened within a week after my sister gave birth to the baby. I felt really guilty.
Rushing to see the newborn may cause trouble to others.
In their hometown, many people have the habit of visiting parturients and newborns in the first place, but for Nong Erdai, who has just entered the city, this is actually a particularly inconvenient thing.
In order to pick up and drop off, arrange meals and book accommodation, the family is already short of hands during special periods. It is really a headache to deal with these. Moreover, the parturient needs to rest during confinement. When relatives come to the house, it is completely messing up.
Because my sister’s family was going to take the baby back to his hometown to have a full moon wine after the full moon, I helped her decline some relatives’ visits, but some relatives did not listen to the advice and came.
The most exaggerated visitor went to the hospital to visit his sister when she had just given birth to the baby. Before she arrived at the hospital, she shouted in the family group: “Come downstairs to pick me up.”
You know, there were only my sister, brother-in-law and the newly born baby in the hospital at that time. Is this to let my brother-in-law throw his wife and children into the ward to pick you up? On behalf of their family, I thank you for such visits. Please don’t go again, ok?
Of course, the most intolerable thing is to bring sick babies to visit newborns.
Children’s health is more important than everything else.
When you are ill, don’t disturb others. This is the most basic upbringing.
If you and your baby are ill, don’t play in families with children. Children have poor immunity and are accidentally infected, and the whole family has to follow suit.
Not to mention families with newborns, the illness of newborns changes faster, and one of your inattention may bring them great danger.
Even if you go out, you should try to keep a certain distance from other people’s children. This kind of self-discipline is a person’s most basic quality.
As a parent, if someone visits and you find that the other person has a cold, you must not be embarrassed to refuse because of face. We will get together another day if the child’s resistance is weak. If you refuse, you can’t say it. You can leave with your child in your arms and go home after they leave for half an hour.
The health of children, after all, is more important to maintain the face of relatives.