For natural childbirth, 1,000 mothers have 1,000 descriptions and experiences, but one feeling must be the same, that is, pain!
For mothers who choose to give birth smoothly, the experience of giving birth is like a [strange upgrade].
Today’s article comes from a young mother’s sharing. She used [eight levels] to describe the pain she experienced during the whole process of natural childbirth.
On November 3, 2015, she gave birth smoothly without pain.
The first floor: It’s really not very painful, even don’t need to hum.
The pain began at 11 o’clock in the evening on the 2nd. At first, it was only a little dull pain in the lower abdomen. It was irregular. It hurt once every ten minutes, a bit like dysmenorrhea. The pain was really light and lasted for about two hours. During this period, I could still brush with my mobile phone…
At the moment, my heart is very calm. I feel that this kind of pain is really what … it doesn’t affect my handsome appearance at all. I am still the most energetic pregnant woman in Xiamen.
The second layer: there is a little pain, reaching the level of frowning.
At about 2: 00 a.m. on the evening of the 3rd, the labor pains began to shorten and broke out once in about five minutes.
The manual the doctor gave me said that if the labor pains were shortened to about five minutes, I could go to the hospital. So I woke up my husband and my mother. The things had already been packed. We put on our clothes and went to the mother and child.
At the moment, my heart was a little excited, and then the pain began to increase, but it was also the kind of pain when ordinary constipation occurred.
What hides the pain is more the excitement of [ah, I am going to the battlefield at this moment].
The third level: needs to be adjusted by breathing, but it is still only the degree of occasional hum twice.
At about 4 o’clock in the morning on the 3rd, I arrived at the mother and child. The doctor measured my fetal heart and examined the uterus. As a result, I only opened a little more than one finger. He ordered me to go to the delivery room to rest and said that when I arrived at 8 o’clock, I would like to see if artificial water breaking should be arranged. I felt uncomfortable lying on the maternity bed, so I lay down on the sofa in the small living room.
About the labor pains will be shortened to less than 4 minutes and will come once each time for about 30 seconds, which is almost as painful as someone punched the lower abdomen. When the pain occurs, you need to pay attention to breathing, which will relieve a little bit.
At the moment, I have occasionally snorted one or two times, but it is still a normal appearance. I can get up and go to the toilet and drink water by myself.
By 6 o’clock, I couldn’t sleep, so I updated an article with my mobile phone, about 1,000 words…
The fourth layer: the labor pains began to gather slowly and the pain prolonged, but the degree was acceptable.
Slowly dawn, the interval between labor pains also began to get shorter and shorter, about 3 minutes less than once. I need to bite my teeth to not cry out.
During the breakfast brought by the nurse, my mother called me to eat some, saying that I was afraid I would not have the strength to eat later. I had no idea to eat at all, so I sat up and ate a few mouthfuls of porridge and dumplings.
The pain in the lower abdomen began to worsen, similar to dysmenorrhea at the most severe time. People had already begun to curl up. Breathing methods did not seem to work, and the degree of relief was quite limited.
At the moment, I have begun to sweat with pain, my eyebrows are wrinkled all the time, and I don’t want to speak… The whole person feels very lax, and my consciousness is concentrated in my lower abdomen, but I haven’t reached the point where I need to shout, and I can still maintain my dignity.
The fifth floor: After the artificial water break, my whole body collapsed.
At 8: 00 a.m. on the 3rd, the doctor came to check and decided to break the water artificially.
The amniotic fluid broke at nine o’clock, and at nine ten, a great wave of pain hit. The interval between pains was shortened to half a minute, and the pain intensified violently. I felt that the waist of the whole lower abdomen circle was severely crushed by the sledgehammer.
I began to hum incessantly. Every time I hurt, I was soaked to the skin like a bath. I kept writhing in bed, but what could not relieve it. Hold on to the railing tightly, but it didn’t help at all.
There is only one big word in my mind: pain.
At the moment, I really want to collapse. The pain is too intense. What can’t think about things, only pain.
Can’t return to WeChat, can’t talk to people normally, can’t think about anything, the only idea is when to give birth! ! !
The sixth floor: I will not give birth! Pull me to a Caesarean section!
After such intensive labor pains lasted for an hour, the doctor came in to examine the uterine orifice and told me that it was only two fingers.
I asked trembling, how long does it usually take from two fingers to ten fingers?
The doctor told me with a smile, this is difficult to say, most people need 4 ~ hours.
What! Eight hours!
Are! You! Kidding! Me!
You mean being hit with a sledgehammer for 8 hours without interruption!
You mean to be swung in your lower abdomen with a baseball bat for 8 hours!
You mean squatting on the toilet for 8 hours, but you can’t solve the hardest shit in history!
I’m crazy.
Originally, I restrained myself from shouting to save my strength, but now I don’t care at all… … …
Shout that I’m not giving birth!
Let me have a Caesarean section!
The doctor said very calmly, then let your husband sign it.
So my husband went to sign the Caesarean section consent form, one of which was the cause of Caesarean section. The model given said [dystocia]. My husband asked the doctor why we should fill in the what. The doctor said coldly, “Write [pain]…
My husband’s heart also collapsed…
However, caesarean section does not mean that dissection can be done, but only when the operating room is free.
The doctor came and said, “er, ah, give birth to yourself. If you are willing to give birth to yourself, we have many ways!” ]
I shook my head, [No, I want a caesarean section.]
The doctor added, [Caesarean section recovery is very troublesome.]
I shook my head, [No, I want a caesarean section.]
The doctor said reluctantly, “Why don’t I help you see how many fingers are opened now?” As a result, when she checked, she found that she had reached six fingers.]
The doctor said coldly, “If you go down now, you may be born on the operating table, so you will become the laughing stock of all women and children.”
The laughingstock…
What’s wrong with me? I’m not just having a child, I’m going to become a laughing stock…
I finally cried out and cried out in a complete collapse: I gave birth to myself, I will not cut it…
The doctor was overjoyed and did not know where to find a huge ball and let me sit on it, but at this time I had no strength. After being dragged by the doctor and my mother to sit on it for 20 minutes, a feeling of trying to pull hit me violently. I said with a sad face, “Doctor, I want to pull!” ]
The doctor hurriedly called me to lie back in bed and let me exert myself. After examination, all my fingers were opened!
At this moment, I…
Finally!
It’s coming!
It’s coming!
My mother rushed in and filled me with a bottle of Red Bull to cheer me on (in fact, it was to supplement my physical fitness)!
The seventh floor: I have finally entered the final stage of production. I have never fought like this in my life!
With all my fingers open, five doctors and midwifery nurses rushed in and surrounded me, telling me how to exert myself and how to breathe.
To be honest, at the moment my mind is completely only thinking about how to do my best when the pain comes, and I can’t feel the pain at all. I spent a total of half an hour in the childbirth stage and cut sideways, but I think the pain at this stage is tolerable, because my attention is not on the pain at all, and I just want to give birth to the child quickly.
The last time I exerted myself, the doctor pressed my stomach, and I cooperated with her to exert myself hard. Suddenly, I felt a splash in my lower body: the child was finally born!
It’s a daughter. Beauty exploded.
I immediately felt that at that moment, what’s pain was worth it.
The doctor said, Wow, it’s double eyelid!
I said weakly, yes, I also have double eyelids, as beautiful as her.
(Doctors don’t even know how to say what is good…)
At this moment, I really feel that I must cooperate with the doctor when giving birth. At this stage, as long as you put your whole heart into giving birth, pain is really not the same thing.
Yes, I am still so handsome.
Layer 8: Sewing needles without anesthetic is also drunk.
Next, the placenta will be discharged according to the stomach, and then the stitches will be sewn.
I was numb with pain, so I didn’t take anesthetic or stiff seams. I [er yo] once in a while. Did the doctor say you were crying? I said slowly, I was in distress.
This process felt particularly long, because I wanted to end it immediately. The baby was washed and carried over with his eyes open. It was so beautiful.
At the moment, I just want to ha, ha, ha, say that I am finally finished!
Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha,